The Roles and Responsibilities of Both couples are much but we had to highlight
the cardinal ones so we could shift our focus towards the unmarried and today we would begin a study on "SEARCHING FOR GOD'S WILL IN MARRIAGE".

Decision means an opportunity tochoose something among various options.

If there are no options there cannot be Decision.Since life is not stereotype but

filled with varieties to choose from that means decision is mandatory and something

about decision is that, no major decision leavesyou neutral for they have the

capacity to frame our success or failures which means we must never trust our

human faculty in deciding but rely on the Holy Spirit for Guidance. Who we are

today are products of our prior decisions and who we would be in future is a

Derivative of current Decisions we would make... Had it been life is not filled with

options like where to based, who to Marry, which career to engage in or what

business to do we couldn't have considered the matter of decision so crucial but

because a major decision have the capacity to alter thy Destiny we would be keen

in the matters of Decision making. One wrong move can destroy thy entire life

which you have labored to build. Mrs. Lot is in Hell right now because Mr. Lot

chose a location to base without consulting God.

Now, Choices In career, where to base, what business to engage in, as important

as they are, if we make mistakes in them we can Easily Make amends.. W.e can still

relocate from wrong Locations, We can still change business or coruse of study but

when it comes to marriage because it is a life Long institution a mistake at the verge

of marriage is almost Irreconcilable.Because marriage cut across the now and

transcendsinto the future then our decision to choose a Spouse shouldn't be based

on JUST THE NOW...The brother you saw today passionate for God you don't know his faith in three

years’ time neither do you know the sister's stand in time to come who is currently

burning for God and since God is not bound by time, his Knowledgeof a person

goes beyond the now and so when he makes choices for you he does that with the

END in view. He is the perfect match maker not we or MENTOR OR DISCIPLER

who is Limited in knowledge.

A sister shared a story she said when she came at Juncture Marriage of a fire brand

Leader whom heart yearned for approached her for Marriage but as she prayed

heaven said "NO" and when she asked why, God Said "that this brother in five

years’ time would start drinking alcohol and smoking". She obeyed God and parted

with the man she would have loved to marry and married someone else and exactly

five years’ time he started drinking and smoking...

Don't be fooled by those confused teachers that tells you that there's nothing like

God's perfect Will in marriage and thatyou should choose based on compatibility

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There's always someone lurking around single boys and girls with marriage expectations but most times they do not consider these in their options simply because they are looking for perfectly knitted person only existing in mirror of imaginations.