| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 2:26pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rapmoney:
Lol troublemaker! That's Lupita's street name o |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Delite01(f): 2:27pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
pocohantas:
Tell that to Regina and Sade Okoya.
Snow white, FFK’s wife.
The late Stella Obasanjo.
Etc... It's still as a result of selfish interest (financial gain, status and more) for agreeing to date them in the first place Would those ladies/women you mentioned up there agree to marry these already married old men if they're not wealthy? Well, my sister we are different and have different priorities in life, values and belief system. That's why I hardly judge people People should do whatever seems right , appropriate to them and also make them feel good. God is watching, He will reward and judge us all either here on earth or in heaven accordingly. 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Liliantalks: 2:28pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
agnes7:
That is not an excuse at all.
In fact, Not all married men are like that(as described in words in bold above ).So it is good to leave someone's husband alone.
A man that cannot show fidelity to his wife cannot be said to have amended his character.
Such men do not even love their side chick.
They just want to taste other ladies aside from their wives.
So if a man has a side chick,chances are that he has other side chicks.
So there is nothing like love in what the chicks think they are enjoying.
A man with an amended character should be able to stay faithful to his wife.
He should be able to amend his 'running after anything in skirt' and stay faithful to his wife.
That someone is able to say 'I am sorry' , to pay attention, to be patient does not mean he truly loves you.
What if it is just so he can continue sleeping with you.What if he gives you STD.What if you are judged for adultery.
The fact that a man is an adulterer and cannot remain faithful to his wife means that he cannot remain faithful to you also as his side chick.
LOL who told you sidechicks care about love , whether there is love or not , we don’t care |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by etrange: 2:30pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Ezemarcel:
bro I have heard girls say they prefer married men to single nen I'm not doubting you. I'm saying the married men are not logs of woods to be taken at will. They also have their choices and it's their decision to sleep with girls who aren't their wives. They are as culpable as the girls. 2 Likes |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 2:31pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
DoubleEngine007:
I didn't impose anything on you Oga. Na advice i dish you.. Na only which people no dey listen to advice that time? You fit remember? that's not advice but impositions, holier than thou, a girl find succour in hands of married man , having been disappointed by single guys, u re blaming her for desicion she believed its better for her well being. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
lol why u guys attacking Chi69.what she said on her first post is the truth.most ladies who run after married men do so cos of the lots of attention showered on them by these married men and of course the huge money spent on them by marrried men.a married man who is not that rich but has a sidechick is ready to spend his whole salary on the sidechick with the hope she reciprocate the attention . |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 2:33pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Wayne4uall:
Yes may be u are right but . Lot of married men still break the heart of single girls out there after fuk** them for weeks or months they move to one of her friend.. A cheat will always b a cheat.. Been married or single... Their are still loyal single guys and married men out there Statistically, single breaks and maltreats girls far than married. |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by maxwell530(m): 2:34pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
I still don't understand how someone believe a man that can't be faithful to his wife can be faithful and love a side chick that he only wants to sleep with, this doesn't make sense.
The fact that a married man was once a 'single guy' that was rejected by some single ladies because he wasn't loving and caring enough shows how confused some ladies can be.If he can be rejected back then when he was none caring single guy,so what has changed now? his marital status? The key word we should be talking about here is "Money" not all those married men are caring,loving,patient, mature bullshit excuse. 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by majekoam(m): 2:39pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:
No, you need sense
-To read in between the lines
-To understand the point I'm trying to make
-To understand I don't give two fvcks about what you think
-To know that you're entitled to your opinion. You keep telling everyone to read in between the lines?!! We get it. Married men may be more emotionally intelligent and therefore can women better. Still doesn't change the fact that you seem morally bankrupt. Also your response just reinforced everything I mentioned in my first post. Self aggrandizing keyboard warrior. Such people always resort to petty insults when they have nothing of substance. Enjoy your ignorance,..bye bye 2 Likes |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 2:39pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:
Guys who are insulting their mothers and sisters because of what I wrote have multiple girlfriends who have committed series of abortions for them, some of them sleep with other people's wives, and even their own wives sisters yet expecting single girls not to seek out more mature married men.
See them barking like toothless bull dogs because of what I wrote.
All of you are yanshes.  Leave them, let them continue ranting, they are the one who will come online and brag that they can't spend penny for women, yet u are angry when the same women leave u for mature married man who understand and ready to give her comfort, either married or single, is not sex? Formication? Sin? 2 Likes |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by majekoam(m): 2:41pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Liliantalks:
it’s possible , anything Not worth the stress.....arguing/fools/stoop/logic...you get! |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Dangrace01: 2:43pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
ojuu4u:
The truth but bitter fact is that married men take good care of ladies far ,far, better than single, single guys will just be having free sex, all in the name .. Virtual and empty marriage promises,
A situation in which two or more girls will be meeting in the house of single guys and u must endure it,
Married men can easily set up business or pay school fees but for single, its story upon story, single guys break heart of ladies far more than married men do, pls go out and do ur findings very well, either u dated married men or not when u are single, it doesn't stop u from married a cheating hubby. How can a married man break a girl heart. His heart is with his wife and not the single olosho girl. Whatever a married man is doing for a girl na just cruise. |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 2:48pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Chi59:
I don't do married men. Never have, never will (married men DMing me, it won't work) but I have come to understand that overall married men make better male friends, better crushes and definitely, will make better lovers.
I'd tell you that no young lady starts her love life with the intention of chasing other women's husbands but for certain reasons, some end up having affairs with married men.
This is not about the young ladies who do it for money, or for sex, but heartbroken single ladies who have suffered repeatedly under single guys looking for a different taste of love. Some of these girls even fancy themselves in love with these married men.
Overall, if you must judge these ladies make sure you have no skeleton in your cupboard. 100% correct. 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Tango123: 2:48pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
ojuu4u:
The truth but bitter fact is that married men take good care of ladies far ,far, better than single, single guys will just be having free sex, all in the name .. Virtual and empty marriage promises,
A situation in which two or more girls will be meeting in the house of single guys and u must endure it,
Married men can easily set up business or pay school fees but for single, its story upon story, single guys break heart of ladies far more than married men do, pls go out and do ur findings very well, either u dated married men or not when u are single, it doesn't stop u from married a cheating hubby. Y should a lady depend on a man for money. Y should the single men pay school fees for a lady Your post makes some sexist and gender based assumptions that fuel dependency in women, and encourages toxic masculinity in men 3 Likes |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Dangrace01: 2:49pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
ojuu4u:
Leave them, let them continue ranting, they are the one who will come online and brag that they can't spend penny for women, yet u are angry when the same women leave u for mature married man who understand and ready to give her comfort, either married or single, is not sex? Formication? Sin? Which kind entitlements mentality b dis. Most of my uncles into this stuff are not ordinary men. We know them Wella. So you feel a man will just be spending on a girl like that without it affecting finances at home. U funny die. Stop using excuse of finance for married men and young girls. Those heavy spenders do things spiritual If you want to follow married men go ahead if you want money turn olosho, it's less risky |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Kevsmart88(m): 2:50pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Beze992:
Honestly I'm as amazed as you are, one of the mysteries of life I must say�. How they will extol the virtues of their wife, and in the same breath ready to cheat on her with any willing woman. I don't think any human with self esteem intact will love to deputise or play second fiddle except you have an ulterior motive which is the case often times than not. How can you spread your legs for a man that speaks so highly of his wife at home, common sense should tell whoever indulges in such affairs that it's merely short-lived and bereft of love. It's now a norm to date married men as some of the ladies now see it as an upgrade on their lazy asses. Spits! Let me reiterate that a day of reckoning is inevitable for whoever indulges in such despicable affair, you can't wreck homes and contribute to the growing number of troubled kids and probably expect a different treatment all in the guise of married men love better. Relax and watch with bliss how your future husbands will also love whatever's in skirt in your streets. Karma never disappoints, turn a new leaf if you're reading this.... 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Preferito(m): 2:50pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
I thought about this issue of young girls running after married men just this afternoon. Don't be surprised that the husband might not even know what is making him to do so. It might even be KARMA that is pushing the husband to frolic with the younger girls as a repayment for what his wife had done with other people's husbands. If it does not come on her husband, then it might come on her daughters. For whatever a man (human) sow shall he(they) reap. This is why I detest girls who date married men. I wouldn't want to marry someone then her past deeds will now influence me into doing what I don't want to do. |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Goldiano(m): 2:50pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
ursamajor:
A lot of girls do this, especially undergraduates and female corp members. corp members do it |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Vulcan24(m): 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
"stolen sweets are the sweetest"
I hope this piece teaches and not arouse their curiosity |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Ingriid(f): 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rapmoney:
I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.
Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.
In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.
If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.
Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.
Dear Op,I enjoyed ur write-up but ur advise is one-sided. How about u advising these married men to stay faithful to their wives? No side chick was present when u were making ur marriage vows before God and men. Dear Married men, pls focus on ur wife,it’s for better for worse, let go of side chicks today and forever.
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| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by PrerryStel: 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Rapmoney:
I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.
Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.
In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.
If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.
Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.
Anytime you come across with such a person advice that because you never know who you might change, you can say it as a joke or a story. Nice one, true said.
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| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Donpaper:
agree we dep bleep. But babes, we guy wanna love too. I swear we can even do without it, if you agree and keep to it too. But, from experience, you will still japa to do it outside yet, claiming no sex till marriage. Yet, you will be billing us. That's why we bang and bang. You think it's easy to Boolala. Try doing your man for one week, be the one doing the work and see the repercussion. Sometimes, we don't wanna bleep, but we bleep because that's the only reward and memory we can derive from most of you,once the relationship is over. Finally, if you girls can sincerely love, this world will be a better place, but hian!! I total disagree Wit u oga, 90% of girl mature afresh as a descent girl, but ugly experience they see in the hands of we males brought beast, hoe, lies and japa in then. If u knw u , u knw 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 2:55pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Dangrace01:
Which kind entitlements mentality b dis. Most of my uncles into this stuff are not ordinary men. We know them Wella. So you feel a man will just be spending on a girl like that without it affecting finances at home. U funny die.
Stop using excuse of finance for married men and young girls. Those heavy spenders do things spiritual
If you want to follow married men go ahead if you want money turn olosho, it's less risky the fact remains many married men at ages 37 and above are well financial established than single.... Take it or deny yrself. Single guys that are still in sch or just finished sch and which is dating four to five girls.. Even ur loads u have not carried to ur shoulder. 3 Likes |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Liliantalks: 2:59pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
majekoam:
Not worth the stress.....arguing/fools/stoop/logic...you get! you -=fool/stoop yes I get!! 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Tango123:
Y should a lady depend on a man for money.
Y should the single men pay school fees for a lady
Your post makes some sexist and gender based assumptions that fuel dependency in women, and encourages toxic masculinity in men That's designed by nature the earlier you knw the better for u. You don't want to spend and yet u want women to be flock around u....uhmmmmmm..... U be presido son now......even guys rush male friend that rich |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by ojuu4u(m): 3:02pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Dangrace01:
How can a married man break a girl heart. His heart is with his wife and not the single olosho girl. Whatever a married man is doing for a girl na just cruise. What about single guys is not cruise? You have not see WHR married men married another single bf? |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Moji12(f): 3:03pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Please what do you have to say in the case of a virgin that still lands in the hand of a cheater. Please i would also like to ask since the punishment for ladies sleeping around with married men is karma biko what is the punishment for the married men flocking around this so called ladies  |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by wizkidblogger(f): 3:04pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Story for the gods.
Not sleeping with married man doesn't guarantee that your husband will NOT cheat on you jare.
NEXT pls! 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Rick9(m): 3:09pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
When such things happen, the Man should be blamed for being irresponsible.
A man that is responsible would not allow such things to happen.
Blame the men ok. 1 Like |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by creamylicious(f): 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
Fu*King bullsh*t.. my own sister married as a virgin. She be correct jjc on top relationship matter. Since year 1 of the marriage the husband has been hopping from one girl to another. the only thing wey remain now na to leave the marriage cos she set can't understand. You think she won't be asking why me questions  Abeg leave matter for who Mathias 2 Likes |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by OriOko88(m): 3:10pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
pocohantas:
There is nothing like karma/nemesis here.
A lot of your fathers cheated and last time I checked- all your mothers were virgins.
How do you explain that?
Men are polygamous in nature right?
Nemesis kor, Genesis ni... Shut da hell. You don't need to use the pronoun 'your' which is collective. By using your, you're referring to all d guys on nairaland. Stop being uncouth pls |
| Re: Girls Who Sleep With Married Men by Nobody: 3:13pm On Apr 22, 2020 |
majekoam:
You keep telling everyone to read in between the lines?!!
We get it. Married men may be more emotionally intelligent and therefore can women better. Still doesn't change the fact that you seem morally bankrupt.
Also your response just reinforced everything I mentioned in my first post.
Self aggrandizing keyboard warrior.
Such people always resort to petty insults when they have nothing of substance.
Enjoy your ignorance,..bye bye As usual you saw my post, judged me and ran with it. I refuse to make any further explanations. Go home, your wife is calling you |
