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Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by sisisioge: 11:54am On Apr 20, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Abi o 1 Like |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nobody: 1:14pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy:Exactly. Although suicide is not the way out. The man knew that he had issues. He must have deceived himself when his wife became pregnant. The reason why he committed suicide is not because of his wife's infidelity but his inability. Now the issue is this. Why refuse to go with your wife to Hospital to seek help? It is better she knows you have the problem and choose to stick with you or two of you decide to source the child from outside than from her to go through shame and humiliation of being barren ALONE while you keep living in denial and refuse to check if you could be the problem. He must've been depressed about his inability to father a child since, it would have been masked in self denial due to her saying she is pregnant. When she finally left, his delusions came crumbling down and he couldn't face reality. He committed suicide because his ego was crushed and his shame was left in the open, no other reason. So why lie. Now he drove his wife outside to seek validation that she is not the problem this could have been prevented with open communication. At least you will have the cry of a child in your house. Some other things must have been going on Suicide is not the best. May he find peace. It is a real pity. The wife should not have cheated tho. 12 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nobody: 1:16pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy:he was obviously depressed, he knew the truth but couldn't face the reality of it 2 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Sixfeetbelle: 2:04pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
piroux: Thank you for hitting the nail on the head. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by piroux(f): 3:01pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
sisisioge: You're right. May we not be unfortunate!! She truly should have left him. I suspect she also wasn't certain she didn't have a problem. Who knows if this is the first time she's tested herself outside. People are just cruel! 3 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by piroux(f): 3:03pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy: True. He most likely would have raised the child well. If for nothing else, to save face. Sad all around. 6 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nobody: 3:09pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Hmmm i am sure the man had gone through a lot of emotional trauma,just yesterday i saw a man and woman obviously in their 60's carrying their babies for the first time on social media,with joyous smile their wrinked faces can't hide.I have been around couples who spend millions trying to find babies but then you know external forces starts to come in with pressure especially if the man is wealthy and if broke too. Let just pray our babies are eager to meet us, and the good lord smile at us.It is not a wonderful experience to be married and not have the kids when you want it.But i used to have a very wealthy neighbour who opted for adoption and the kids are doing very fine,it is alway birthday parties everytime,though he took the decision in his 50's sha...baba no go kill himself na. 1 Like |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nobody: 4:12pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
uruba23:Abi o 2 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by bukatyne(f): 4:28pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy: She dashed his hopes of ever being a father. But again, the woman is not God and miracles do happen. Ending a 12 year marriage over the phone? That is evil. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by bukatyne(f): 4:30pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
cococandy: The guy that is already saying he didn't know she was married? Wisdom is really profitable. 3 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by nuelyoyo(m): 6:24pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
bukatyne:Please what wisdom are you referring to here? You means she should have committed paternal fraud? Chai, women!! Cc: Cococandy. 2 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by bukatyne(f): 6:36pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
nuelyoyo: The husband KNOWS he is not the father of the child. He however accepted the child because He KNEW he couldn't father a child. That husband was the best person to care for the son and give him the best life. The lover boy she got pregnant for claims he did not know she was married. That should tell you that's the beginning of the end. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by ThaThinka: 6:40pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
SenorFax: Small time I go hear people say men are wicked. Humans are wicked generally. This story can serve as an example of why I wish (and pray) that I never have to cling so tightly to anything or anybody in this life to the extent of thinking it's all over for me if it or they get snatched away from me. I pray I get to that stage - think I'm close, but not really tested yet. 2 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nobody: 6:53pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Hmm. In this case, I am supporting that lady. But I will divorce him as soon as I find out I'm pregnant. No man will stay with you for 12 yrs if he knew he knew the problem is not from his side. Had it been the fault is from.the woman's side, by now, she would have been kicked out and replaced, had co wife or children will be popping out from all corners. What made the guy kill himself is because all these time, he must have been telling people the wife is the problem. Who knows what that lady has passed through. Assuming the wife didn't tell his people, he will pretend that all is well. We know the drill. Shame and male pride made him take his life. Why was he nursing a pregnancy he knew wasn't his in the first place? His type full everywhere 14 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by nuelyoyo(m): 7:10pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
bukatyne:I think I now know the angle you and cococandy are coming from, but I think the woman blew it open because she is tired of the marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by crackkhaus: 7:52pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
sassysure:That's the crux of the matter. Her infidelity and eventual pregnancy is not why she has a PhD in witchcraft. It's everything that happened after she got pregnant that makes her deserve the title. 2 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by bukatyne(f): 8:42pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
nuelyoyo: Which is very bad. She could have left immediately she knew she was pregnant. |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by ijustdey: 3:11pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Cc lalasticlala |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI(m): 3:19pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Ahh |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Martinola(m): 3:19pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Women I don't believe a man would not have sex with his wife for nine months and not only accept a child during that time but was committed to taking care of the baby and mother up to the time he did. 1 Like |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Amotekun777: 3:21pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Sososo(f): 3:21pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
It's a pity. You live to fight for another day |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Truthbites: 3:22pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Willie Anumudu is dead. Nairaland is always the last to broadcast the news |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by kantap: 3:22pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Uchenna 1 Like |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by enemyofprogress: 3:23pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
The same tribe always pretend to be saints and claimed that Yoruba women cheat on their husbands more than any other tribe in Nigeria, but no wind don blow we have sin the yansh of the fowl Dominique have you sinned this story? 1 Like |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Lee99: 3:23pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Toto community |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by LadySarah: 3:24pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Why was he afraid of the hospital for 12 solid yrs? The men who do these to their wives should answer me. You know the truth, he had gone behind her to the hospital and found out his ailment. He died cos of self pride. Nothing more 6 Likes |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nobody: 3:24pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
This isn't worth killing yourself over. |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by seedorfg(m): 3:24pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Nairaland has come again with their old story. In fact I've read this story more than twice. Biko give us new thing jare.. Mumu post. 2 Likes
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Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Pharaoh350s(m): 3:25pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Suicide is not an option I know what he is supposed to do |
Re: Nasarawa: Man Commits Suicide, Wife Reveals Their Child Was Fathered By Stranger by Nightwolf2002: 3:25pm On Apr 21, 2020 |
Hmm |
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