Now, I know that know that not everybody is going to agree with me, but this is strictly my opinion. This is a thread strictly dedicated to the ladies.
If you're a virgin, kudos to you! I applaud you as it takes a lot of self control. However, this thread is not aimed at you.

We all have a past, and as we know most ladies these days are sexual active. A lot of girls are sexual active from the age of 18 +. I don't have time for hypocrisy on this thread, because we all know what happens behind closed doors. We live in a society where women are not allowed to be comfortable sexually. We are shamed for talking about our sex lives and labelled with derogatory names for having more than the average sex partners in our lives. This needs to stop and it starts from us.

The reality is that women enjoy sex just as much as men do. Probably even more. If you like to have sex, make yourself happy and do you! If you have slept with more than 5 men in your life, so what? Now i'm not promoting women to sleep with every tom dick and harry, but stop with the lies! Stop lying to your partners about sleeping with 1 or 2 guys when you know its 6 or 7. Be real and live in your truth. I'd rather someone judge me for my truth than for my lies. Stop with the pretense. If we accept our sexuality more, we could be looking at a positive change. Its okay to like sex, it doesn't make you a hoe! It's okay if you've had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, doesn't make you promiscuous. STOP TRYING TO FIT IN WHAT SOCIETY WANTS YOU TO BE, BE YOURSELF!!!!

There's someone out there, who will love you for you.

I like your post.
Sex for pleasure is not a crime.

PS —
If your boyfriend/man or whatever gives you money after sex, please this thread is not for you.

Not today. Just locate the nearest brothel.

Most ladies in our society today have lost count...............
Ugly Truth.
Dem just dey knack like porn.star

very true.... but sadly, in a land where these women are looked down upon AND where these women still hope to become Mrs XXXXX, its hard for them, to proudly stand as sluts and at the same time have the life they desire. a male slut is not castigated in the Nigerian society, so they can easily live a fulfilling life while female sluts are look down upon as used goods. so as much as there is nothing wrong with being sluts (male/female), life will be a bit tougher for a female slut.

men will approach you just to taste you, mount you, use you and then discard you, while a male slut will probably be seen as big daddy, have a great family and live happily ever after.

so should women be valued for their body count, probably not, but they equally shouldnt try to fool themselves thinking that they will be viewed as positively as male sluts are.

I agree. However, for Nigerian women to own their sexuality there has to be a sexual revolution in Nigeria. It’s easier typed than done, no human wants to be shamed, ridiculed or judged, so they do what humans do, self preservation. It’s safer and easier to conform.

you are encouraging oloshoism. any lady that sleeps with anybody is a lovepeddler. nobody should come here and tell me about men. we are talking about ladies here.

The issue with women before anyone else is themselves. Women bring down their fellow woman, insult her and call her names all in a bid to feel self righteous. This is not the case with men, men would hail themselves and make each other feel good about their "accomplishments". How then can men be supportive of women when they aren't even supportive of themselves.

Another issue is who trains these men? Most attimes their mothers, what do their mothers teach them? That if they have sex its alright because they are men but if a woman does shes a slut. They teach him its ok to impregnate girls and abandon them, because hes a man and can do as he likes. Aren't these all wrong? Revolution of womens sexuality begins with the women.

The truth is whether we accept it or not women are beginning to embrace their sexuality and the sooner they stand up, support one another and teach the future generations of men that there are consequences for their actions both as men and women, the sooner they can be accepted by society.