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Are You Sure?

And Even After Married Early You think with time He/She Won't comit adultery

haha

paulGrundy:
the only solution is by encouraging early marriage.

I am not a saint.
If we can have a sane society where decency is set as a standard. Parents preaching decency to children while raising them,church and mosque doing the same, schools,Bill boards,mass media.
You see immorality as a sin everywhere you go and you start shaping your self to this standard.
I strongly believe immorality could be eradicated in human.

Truly accepting Jesus in your life and every immorality will give way

For me, the most important thing here is self control.. Guys need to control there self and stop blaming immoralities on ladies dressing, there is no doubt it can affect to a reasonable level, bt where is your own self control? We need to purify our inner mind.
May God help us and save this generation from immoralities

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Indecent/revealing dressing, uncensored vidoes, immoral discussion and thoughts are what can endanger the well being of decent folks if caution isn't taken. Blaming another for one's wrong doing is the highest of irresponsibility. We see people who dress loosely like they're sent from hell, but that shouldn't be a Yardstick to be lured to sin. I use to hear people advise their wards to be careful of drinks and women, so their days can be long. When we choose to live right, we know what to do, but blaming the society is a no no. Focus on what enlarges you positively and ignore distractions. sexual immorality or not, just do what pleases you, people are accountable to their creator.

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

Am of the school of thought that we must be holy inwardly and outwardly but unfortunately the vast majority of Christendom advocate for it with their ''God only looks at the heart teachings'' the bible is filled with so much admonition on being decent. The ways of God isn't the ways of man. There are ways to attain purity from these if we really want. Indecent dressing stirs the mind/heart to do these unclean things

Proverbs 4:23Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.

1 Timothy 2:9 - In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

Deuteronomy 22:5 - The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so [are] abomination unto the LORD thy God.

1 Timothy 2:9 - In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

1 Corinthians 6:19 - What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost [which is] in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

Romans 12:1 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, [which is] your reasonable service.

Romans 12:2 - And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what [is] that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Do you love your brother as commanded
Romans 14:21 - [It is] good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor [any thing] whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.

Becasue
Romans 13:14 - But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to [fulfil] the lusts [thereof].

Matthew 5:28 - But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

If you love the Lord you'll obey, if you love your brothers and wish not to be a stumbling block, you'll obey.
Matthew 22:37-39
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment.
39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

To answer this, you need to listen to one message by Mile Munroe. The Late pastor was very apt in his message "restoring the family institution to curb national problems".

The long and short of it is that family institution has decayed so bad that moral values are lost, Godly principles and virtues are compromised. As for the topic of this thread, we all need to go back to the family cos a morally poor family will only produce a morally poor society. A corrupt family will only produce a corrupt nation. It doesn't mean there wouldn't be sound families, it only implies we having less and more less of them.

Quality and adequate education is the only way forward in other to curb the swxyal immortality in our society

OkpanachiMax:
Treating sexual immorality in general in which fornication(premarital sex), adultery(extra-marital sex), masturbation, pornography etc are included.

Human sexuality is so explicit and complex that we need to deal with it from within. Indecent dressing live on the street and on social media is the greatest influence of these things.

Also the evolution of adult film industry sealed the fate of mankind. Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this feeling, we need to minimize our activities on social media, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell with our religious sentimentality because 95% of youths are guilty of this.

NB: It is not easy to preach what you are guilty of if you have a strong conscience

Feel free to add your own contributions

Whatever is in the heart reflects on the outside. It is what you are inside that shows on the outside.

SCRIPTURE: Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. Matthew 7:17-18

It is what you are inside that shows on the outside.

Some time ago, my wife and I went for a meeting at Sheraton Hotels, Abuja, Nigeria. We met a girl who also came to the hotel area for a different purpose, a prostitutious assignment, she was a prostitute. My wife and I decided to preach to her. She was so indecently dressed that her dressing was showing her contours and cleavages. When we called her to preach to her, her sight was so terrible that my wife had to use something to block her widely open chest first before we continued preaching. She gave her life to Christ and we invited her to church on Sunday. But then she said something that touched me deeply, she said: “I don’t have church clothes; I can’t wear the kind of clothes I am wearing now to church.” Now, this is someone who was a prostitute but knew the ideal dress code for church services. She knew that there are clothes a person should not wear and appear before God. Meanwhile, some Christians who claim to be in church for donkey years feel that they can wear any type of suggestive clothes to church claiming that a person’s outward appearance doesn’t matter to God. That is a lie from the pit of hell. They claim that God looks at the heart and the outward appearance does not matter. The truth is, whatever is in the heart reflects on the outside. For instance, when you look at a ripened mango; how do you know that it is really ripe when you have not tasted it? You know it is ripe because you saw the external appearance of the mango which is a product of the condition of the mango inside. In the same way, how do you know that someone has the spirit of seduction in her? It is the way she appears on the outside. It is what you are inside that shows on the outside.

Beloved, the people of the world know what belongs to the world; but the people of God are claiming not to know. Remember, God cannot be mocked.

Why do we feel Urge to have Sex in the first place,Who Created man with the sexual.Feelings and urge . is it Almighty God or the Devil ,Was that natural sexual feeling or urge not Created By God .No human would wake up and command sexual Urge to come it's part of the body leave hypocrisy alone ,The passion ,Urge to eat,Sleep,Drink ,Urinate are all parts of man ,The feelings and urge to have sex suppose to get into human when he is ready to Marry only .So you expect everyone to keep sufferings from emotional feelings for years before he gets Married Abi .Someone without Jobs ,Unemployed with no money who is already an Adult say 30 years with super libido and complete body should not have sex abi till he marries ,You are just Joking .

Usorohtheman:
Two heterosexual individuals that are of age having consensual sex is not a crime in most part of Nigeria and the world at large. Unless a thing is a crime, then it should be kicked against.

Too many hypocrites in Nigeria, hiding behind religion.

You have put up the best post on this thread.

Man for instance was created with a constant sexual feeling, this sexual feeling is low when there is no erotic image and high when there is, so in order to suppress this, we need to sensitize the female to dress decently if not we will all rot in hell.

Didn’t take long .

Oh how can we curb men’s sexual excesses?
Answer: further oppress the women. You know man was created that way and can’t help himself . He has little control and it’s the work of God.

Well what about women who have such tendencies?
Answer: you mean those oloshos? Shame on them. That’s not what God wants for them. He told all the male prophets so and they told us.

Just another page in the patriarchy handbook. Rinse and repeat.

How is what someone else is doing in their own spare time or in the privacy of their own home, your own problem?

You can only control what you do.


Live and let live is the best medicine.

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Two Consenting adults decide to have sex and you're tagging it "immorality"?.Do you think everyone out there subscribes to your believe?.Do you realise that eating beef in some parts of india is a weightier "sin" than your "sexual immorality"?.
Was the creator so stupid that he decided to give us active hormones before marriage,if he wanted us to only have sex within its confines?.
Let's talk with sense

A305:
We can't!

Sex is the building block of the society; The fact that it's been underutilized and abused indicates humanity won't go extinct soon but curbing sexual immorality is tantamount to human extinction.

Huh?! Seriously? So you don't realize that overpopulation is quicker way of extinction?

We are humans and we are not base creatures, this sexual immorality of a thing seriously needs to be curbed, else we'll fukk ourselves into extinction.

ud4u:
Truly accepting Jesus in your life and every immorality will give way

Guy let's be honest joor

I value honesty

cococandy:


Didn’t take long .

Oh how can we curb men’s sexual excesses?
Answer: further oppress the women. You know man was created that way and can’t help himself . He has little control and it’s the work of God.

Well what about women who have such tendencies?
Answer: you mean those oloshos? Shame on them. That’s not what God wants for them. He told all the male prophets so and they told us.

Just another page in the patriarchy handbook. Rinse and repeat.

ShoropD; D; las las we're all hypocrites

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

Wow, I love your case study. Using the Arabs African and Europe, but permit me to ask you with your sincerity answer.

which of these nationals do you think there is high rate of Rape and porn? obviously Europe followed by Africa then to the Arab national.

N.B..A "decent" man can do away with sexual fantasy which is normal but,it very easy for him to be in lust or attracted to woman in bikini or short dresses than woman covering her body.

Thank you.

OkpanachiMax:

That's is hypocrisy, I don't want to be religious about this but my question for you, can you vow not to eat when you are hungry?

You can't use food as comparison here. Food gives live and the likes. Can you die if you abstain from pre-marital and extra-marital sex?

Las las everybody is motherfucking hypocrite

We all should learn how to tolerate each other. Sex apart from Rape to me is no crime! If you call it sin na you sabi cos you yourself judging others while you tell lies or do other bad thing you're sinning

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

Sure

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Well said, but I will tell u that the primary cause of this immoralities is PORNOGRAPHY.
I remember those days when my papa go bath my Sisters, nothing would happen but today majority of the fathers will see only their daughter Bra, and next thing is to sleep with their own daughter. If any Father, Pastor, Imam and others do an immoral things like Sex immorality, please check their Phones, you will notice they all have porn movies or clips on it.
No matter how holy, or body control you are, if you give devil way in your life and start watching or viewing porn movie, what next is to start doing immoral things. You can never control your sexual urges when watching porn movie.
No house wife will be faithful if she always watch porn movie.

While I call this primary is that those that appear half naked in musical or home videos is because they have seen people naked fully in porn movies, so they will not see bad in open part of their bodies, whereas those in porn movies naked fully.

Only way to stop this is for govt to stop pornography websites and arrest those that sell the CDs. But I wonder if this will possible because even govt officials and politicians are guilty of this.

erim123:
While we react to comments on the forum we try not to be abusive. Technically the family value in out system is eroded and lost you know family is the fulcrum on which societal values are entrenched a bad family breeds a bad society while a good family breeds a good society.
This topic shouldn't be treated with kids gloves , it's a very serious discussion that all hands should be put on deck for thorough analysis and solutions proferred
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Kids glove is exactly how it should be treated because religion and it's tenets esp those like the ones presented here should be for "kids"


You seem like a bigger joke BTW.

Ochiban:
I completely disagree. In Sharia countries where women are completely covered- men are vibrating from seeing a girls shoulder. In nigeria, men vibrate when they see thighs. In Europe where dressing is scandalous, men vibrate only for naked women. It shows that its not what the woman is wearing that is the issue, otherwise all men would behave the same to the same amount of exposure.

Remember that int he beginning, both were naked.

This immorality is WITHIN us. let us stop with the original sin of Adam and Eve with blaming outside influences for our internal lack of faith.

I'm not saying social media and outside things like porn are good- they make things worse for sure. But please stop putting the responsibility of your own holiness on someone else's dressing or TV. Vow within your own heart that you will not look at another woman lustfully

Ochiban:

Have you not heard of Gandhi and his famous hunger strike? Do muslims not fast during Ramdan? Christians during Easter? What are you saying? Acting like we are beasts and not made in the VERY IMAGE of GOD! You are insulting HIM by insinuating you can't control yourself.

I'm not saying we have to be perfect (body no be wood). But sex drive is not the same as a food drive. You will ACTUALLY DIE if you dont eat . and i have shown you countless examples above about people who deny themselves this thing.

Sex is an urge. Something we WANT to do and comes with great reward (pleasure, orgasm, feeling of closeness to partner). All things that can be controlled and satisfied in a controlled manner

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