Jeboy:


PLEASE ADVICE HER

I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. I have never been with any man but him until I was raped. I didn't know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life. I have two children from my marriage. It happens that We traveled to my husband village during last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by armed robbers a gang of 7 members . It was a very terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me. The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothe and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn't listen. It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn't so. I felt a kind of ,electrifying sensations that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn't know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal. I was told I was screaming very hard when I wanted to come. Yes I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn't been the same. The robber took me two rounds which I came both times. I don't know what happened, if it was my village people that pursued me, but all I can say is that I haven't had such with my husband. My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they robbers left. He called me unprintable names, I am a prostitute, he didn't know I was an ashawo. He can't marry an Ashawo. I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings . My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to our home. I was Damaged .How could such a thing happened to me? What was responsible for me enjoying being raped and even coming as a result of it? How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body? These were the questions I kept asking myself. When I got discharged I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband , involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life. My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a LovePeddler. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still healing, still seeing my therapist. But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am. I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life . I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me . Pls don't judge me, because you don't know my pains. By July I will be through with the divorce . I just want you all to wish me well with my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.

1. *What could she have done differently?*

2. *Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?*

3. *Was the husband being fair to her?*

4. *Was divorce the only way out?*

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Bola146:
Is this woman for real When you husband was there

ValCon888:

A wet pùssy has no conscience.

ikemesit4477:
Fake! Though the same scenario actually happened in Lagos 3years ago, where the husband was accusing the wife of moaning and twisting her waist in excitement while been rape by the armed robber!

ValCon888:

If her husband is there so she should not come again abi?
A wet pùssy has no conscience.

light099:


Benue woman. I remember.
This story by OP is very fake, OP himself is fake.
No sane woman will enjoy sex in this kind of condition except it's a pörnstar. So the husband is right to pursue her away.

Mrpsly247:
Something like DAT happened ooo.. After they raped the woman the man threw her things away. She was an elderly pri school teacher with grown kids

light099:


Good for her. Any woman who moans and feels at home with rape is a hoe. At least for those who know what rape is, pleasure is the last thing a sane woman should feel at such a time.

It's like forcing a guy to have sex with his mum. No matter how much you like sex, such an experience is unimaginable and far from pleasure. Your dck will not even rise in such case. God forbid.

Mrpsly247:

Not good bro... Why didn't the man fight to death to protect his wife's dignity. Heard he was lieing flat faced time through the whole ordeal...

light099:


An empty comment coated with sophisticated expression to deceive the simple-minded ones.

Have you ever seen or witnessed where a woman is raped before? No matter how wet or aroused a man/woman is, there are some conditions that will make your hard dck or wet pssy shrink immediately to zero.

There are only these possibilities.
* This story is fake.
* Or the woman is a coded hoe, with a wild past. So I think the husband is right to throw her out.

ValCon888:

Learn to understand a satirical comment when you see one. Of course I know the story was fake, hence my comment.

solmus:



I read this similar story on quora, and also a divorce news of a politician in lagos, the man even accused the poor woman of knowing the robber before see rape like that would often result in an orgasm explosion as the woman felt dominated and helpless, and to make matters worst she couldn't control the intense stimulation she felt


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UncleJJ:

links?

solmus:


https://www.quora.com/Can-a-victim-experience-pleasurable-sensations-or-even-an-orgasm-while-being-raped