emddi:
but you said you could stay without a mobile phone?

SlimChay:
Just because I am not saintly or a saint doesn't mean I am the devil.

Humans have,and will always come short of the glory of God due to sins committed knowingly or unknowingly. Therefore,it is imperative to guide our hearts to try and be good or at least better than our initial state.

In all we do, we should be more good than bad.

After all, the book of Ecclesiastes 7, 16-18 reads and I quote.

"So don't be too good or too wise, why kill yourself ? But don't be too wicked or too foolish either, why die before you have to ? Avoid both extreme. If you have reverence for God,you'll be successful anyway"

sunshineV:
If God wants sex before marriage why do u have a d.ck and it gets hard before marriage?

Timil:
How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.

No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books.
Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.

Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that [b[GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.[/b]

God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.

If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life.

sunshineV:


Yes I could but here I am. Maybe Jesus could but he ate anyways

innobarca:


No argument.


In Nigeria, most Christians believe in prayers without work.

That's what am trying to to point out.
Prayer alone can not make a happy marriage, marrying from same church or same faith alone won't either.

Eve came from Adam... They were not perfect even.

A true Christian should not be doing boyfriend and girlfriend, relationship and courtship should not be seen between Christians if they believe that GOD will provide their husband and wife for them.

Am glad you know that it's not by prayer alone bc many Christians believe even to cook for the family is by prayer.

Osagyefo98:


You all twisting God's words and it is wrong

Song of Solomon 1 vs 2

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.


Proverbs 5:18-19 “Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.”


This scriptures counters your stance. Let the word of God remains undiluted.

Eulalia:


Theres still need for "courtship " in the Christiandom. Now, you must understand we are humans and human beings are full of deceit and humans, being what they are can change. So courtship gives the opportunity to discover this things through earnest prayers. So many fake bro and sis in the church today, but my only joy is, with prayers, many of them are being exposed before we make a life mistake.

Interesting15:


Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Listen, I don't care what modernism or so called civilization is saying. This is the Will of God, and any contrary opinion doesn't matter. In fact, anything contrary will always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you have backslided already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

emddi:
It really depends how you view life.
If you consider life to be mere matter,then maybe one can't go forever without sex.
But if you consider life to be largely spiritual,believe me one can go forever without sex,food or water.

sunshineV:



Be like say u be JJC for nairaland



I thought u have something to do na

emddi:
OK..,God forbid,if your partner has a critical health condition that she would not be able to have sex with you again for life..,will your marriage still be interesting? or what will be your next action

Dannyfan:
I'm not an advocate of sexual immorality. But my point is you can't go forever in marriage without sex. I'm a christain and I have heard marriage being dissolve by the joining priest bcus of sex. Teach me how we can go forever without sex in marriage

emddi:
that is how it is also with sex,food and water.it's all in your mind

Jeromejnr:
Many are called, few are chosen.

Many will give excuses now for their love of sin, but will they on the day of the Lord?

Many who claim to be Christians also fall prey in justifying this sin, I say this to your shame.

Eternal regret is the reward of the cowardly and those who turn from the commandments of the Lord.

Be wise and flee from the wrath to come.

To the truly faithful, hold fast to your crown, so that no man may take it.

MrMacinterchi1:


Someone is claiming that he can go forever without food and water here o with spirituality as he said .
I wonder if the ask most people to always comment without thinking properly here at times .

emddi:
He did eat,but he could go without food forever..,Just as you can go without your mobile phone but you are using it now

emddi:
My brother,it is very spiritual.

sunshineV:


He can go without food for ever but still eat and drink wine to refresh


Better don't kill yourself. God god laff u ooo

Dannyfan:
Sex is not an essential part in marriage. Agreed. But you can't overlook the importance in marriage. Bcus no marriage will ever happen without sex as an expectance. My own is sexual immorality is bad but sex inside marriage is the bound. When the bound is created if anything bad happen as u said you stick to it. If something happen and ur partner has an ailment that result to deaf/dumb/blind, what will u do?

MrMacinterchi1:


You don't really need to add the food and water u added there man. It doesn't make your reply sound. Just focus on the sex being discussed.

SlimChay:
Just because I am not saintly or a saint doesn't mean I am the devil.

Humans have,and will always come short of the glory of God due to sins committed knowingly or unknowingly. Therefore,it is imperative to guide our hearts to try and be good or at least better than our initial state.

In all we do, we should be more good than bad.

After all, the book of Ecclesiastes 7, 16-18 reads and I quote.

"So don't be too good or too wise, why kill yourself ? But don't be too wicked or too foolish either, why die before you have to ? Avoid both extreme. If you have reverence for God,you'll be successful anyway"

Dannyfan:
Abi.... Spirituality my foot. Even Jesus ate.

Interesting15:


Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Listen, I don't care what modernism or so called civilization is saying. This is the Will of God, and any contrary opinion doesn't matter. In fact, anything contrary will always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you have backslided already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!