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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by tydi(m): 12:25am On Apr 28, 2020

LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido

How your uncouthly mouth stinks, when you pour venom. FYI same uglyyy beefy man would put you under his duvet and bangs the shit outta you, after you might have served him his favorite dish whenever he's back from the hustle, failure to do so he would sharply replace you with whom can do better.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CptCharlesVane: 12:27am On Apr 28, 2020

tonididdy:
Marriage is just a deceit between two people.
It gets boring after a few years.
Forget all that shit about marrying best friend or sex compatible partner.

One woman commented that in her Marriage of 25yrs she just lay on the bed like a log of wood or a corpse while her husband pounces on her.

Biko why are you still married, obviously you are bored!

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sidonlook: 12:28am On Apr 28, 2020

skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high

What if he decides to help in the kitchen for the food to come out fast ?

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CastingToVilla(m): 12:29am On Apr 28, 2020

This too much knacking is why Africans will never progress. A man who knacks everyday, how he wan use him brain?

Tesla and Newton died as virgins.

Here, Kamoru and Chidozie don patent style of fucking.

It's even worse because Naija men think frequency and duration of sex is how you satisfy a woman.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by inice(m): 12:30am On Apr 28, 2020

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

I love your advice. Treat your own that way since you like the quarrel that will follow. i-nice

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MrPaul2: 12:31am On Apr 28, 2020

bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

What if he marry more wives? grin

if he demand for it, give it him oh, don't say I didn't tell you. You knew his sex drive before saying I do.
Woman I am a man and I know what I'm saying

Hmmmm; Egungun na express you dey try sleep so and most cars here non get break ooo

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by doctore212(m): 12:31am On Apr 28, 2020

See the Babalawo grin

Hotguy27:
Hello OP

I want to ask you a sincere question.

Which do you prefer between this your husband constant desires for sex and him being impotent?

I am asking for one Babalawo that is looking for where to test him powers.

Anyway, what I believe is that you are just looking for funny responses which you are obviously getting now.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by g4gerald: 12:31am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Now I see where ur fear lies, losing him to cheating.

Fear kills faster b4 the real cause, u nid courage to make a change

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by beeijeoma: 12:33am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:

I just could not help myself . This your story reminds me of my hubby and I when we were dating. I have a high libido but my oga get higher libido . I was so scared to marry him at one point because I was worried that I would not be able to cope. We have been married for 11 years now and we dated for almost 10 years as well and we are good. It is still shacking you hubby, before you know it the frequency will start to reduce. Just hang in there but meanwhile buy KY jelly to use as a lubricant. Also after each do get water that is steaming hot (not too hot that it will burn you o)and face towel or even your regular bath towel, dip in the water , squeeze out the excess and apply the hot towel to your veejay. Its like magic by the next day you should not feel as sore.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ubcandid(m): 12:36am On Apr 28, 2020

afroxyz:

Are u married?

that question is irrelative to the exaggeration put up there by the lady.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by adroit1: 12:36am On Apr 28, 2020

Serious matter both of you should talk about

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by TheRedpillguy: 12:36am On Apr 28, 2020

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

To be attractive. You need to have something to be attracted too. As it turns out you Women loose that soon as you hit 30.you hv to hide behind fake hairs and make up now. The next thing that is left, fun and attitude. You don't have. Nigerian woman are just Shitty ppl

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MrPaul2: 12:37am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

If he demand for it, give it him oh, don't say I didn't tell you. You knew his sex drive before saying I do.
Woman I am a man and I know what I'm saying

Hmmmm; Eungun na express you dey try sleep so and most cars here non get break ooo

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by inice(m): 12:39am On Apr 28, 2020

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You are a good man. Just continue
i-nice

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by nelsonmai: 12:41am On Apr 28, 2020

For a man to desire it almost every is kind of weird. And the man is not tired. I think you should talk to him about how tired and probably sored down there you are sometimes. Your husband been a good man will consider.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by woleadisa(m): 12:44am On Apr 28, 2020

Getting him to make him understand how you feel about his high libido may be herculean. I suggest you heed this advice if you have the strength. Have sex with him in excess for one month , just one month , don't give him breathing space, every second, be ready to have sex with him, when eating have sex with him , when sleeping have it with , before he dresses for work ,have sex with him , after he dresses for work ,have sex with him, as he steps into the house after work ,have sex with him , when eating ,let your fingers be touching his dick, when he is done eating , have sex with him , when he sits to relax ,have sex with him and before going to bed ,have sex with him , while asleep, roll his dick up and have sex with him, all these for one month , he will be the one to be begging you for compromise after one month. But you must be ready for this . It a sacrifice on your part for the purpose of asserting that marriage for you is not and can never be a sexual bondage. I wish you luck.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by AreaFada2: 12:45am On Apr 28, 2020

Too much sex, not enough sex, complain everywhere.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MiddleDimension: 12:46am On Apr 28, 2020

if you had known, would you have gone ahead with the marriage?

Julietsim:

U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Vikynas: 12:47am On Apr 28, 2020

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Bros or Madam u no get chill...o hahaha

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DedeNkem: 12:47am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Him wanting to have sex daily shouldn't be seen as a bad thing. He obviously has a strong sexual attraction to you.

Unless you have a husband who just pulls down your underwear and insert his d*ick without a pre-intimacy, then you need to let him know how you like to enjoy sex. Take control sometimes (men love it).

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Clean2016: 12:48am On Apr 28, 2020

bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

How these Oyinbo managed to convince us that polygamy is bad but gay and lesbianism is good still baffles me

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Tetewole: 12:49am On Apr 28, 2020

This is a very serious issue which you need to handle with Care in order not to destroy your marriage. Discuss your concern with him and agree on the number of times you can cope in a week comfortably. Encourage more pre-intimacy to get u ready for action to eliminate the pain u normally experience except if the size is the problem. Cos if you failed to handle it carefully there are women outside who are ready to grab the opportunity to give him 3 times daily. Even your next door neighbor who is not getting attention from her own husband.

Be wise!

One man best food is another man poison.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by starprince71: 12:49am On Apr 28, 2020

I love this your response

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by hennylove(f): 12:50am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:

U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Men must understand that based on a woman's monthly cycle there some days that sex is just the last thing a woman will want to do especially close to monthly flow.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by gremp(m): 12:50am On Apr 28, 2020

humilitypays:
any married man with kids still fooling around with girls having indiscriminate sex is not reasonable. Something he has been having since teenage, some started massive fvcking of different ladies from high school, it will shock u to know that an average Nigerian man of 3yrs have fvcked more than 20 different ladies before he gets married, so what else is he looking for He should be retiring from that stressful exercise called sex and focusing on other issues of life that will prolong his stay here on earth.

Focusing on training his kids to be the best in the society, helping people overcome life challenges instead still wasting his time and energy on having sex every now and then.

Something must be wrong with the husband psychologically or mentally or hormonally. If the op is saying the truth, it is abnormal

This and your other comments made a fixed assumption that he's been having premarital sex which is just biased, so what's your assumption if he got married a virgin to make your conclusions balanced?

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MORRYDIHEART(f): 12:51am On Apr 28, 2020

men are naturally wired for sex,i suggest u seat him down and have a heart to heart talk with him if he truly loves u and not ur body he will understand that u need to be comfortable.sex is meant to be enjoyed it isn't a punishment,if u don't handle dis now if u develop any serious health issue he is gonna have anoda and ur problem becomes ur cross to bear.giving him sex on a daily basis will wear u out and it still won't keep him.so i suggest u help him ease d feeling so he doesn't go out there and screw every available babe.play games,take a stroke,exercise just keep him occupied so he doesn't think abt sex frequently if dis doesn't work try therapy if it doesn't work,babe cooperate with him after he has satisfied u and u feel done for d day hand him a romantic drink with sleeping pills in it,rub his head and sensitive parts to keep him relax till he sleeps like a baby then u are free.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by blackgold90(m): 12:52am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

This is not the best place to get advice, people here are 20-35 who are single and don't know what daily sex means when married people complain. They take it once in a while from their girlfriends and boyfriend so they wonder how can one be complaining.

There is No man who will be asking for sex daily is like your husband is using drugs on you.

If he takes 1tablet of Vega 100 that can keep him up for a week.

You too need to find a drug to match him, have you wonder how harlot take alot of men daily and till cope they buy pills.

So your man is secretly taking drug to sleep with you. Don't trust him that he is not taking drugs, he is hiding it from you.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 12:53am On Apr 28, 2020

Grateful02:
See this one,2020 we never escape now you're bringing 3030.
Anyways dirtydiva answer the ques below o. Just passing tho.

The question differ from what the wife is complaining, she never refuse him sex but coming for it all day is not healthy. I can't be releasing my semen all in the name of sex, I will grow lean and thin because something is getting off from me and secondly there will be no new taste to her honey well

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by neutrotoba(m): 12:54am On Apr 28, 2020

James289:

gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense

See how you're insulting someone's husband, someone you don't even know at all.. Na your fault? At all

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Primenet(m): 12:54am On Apr 28, 2020

Romanoff:
I'm not married yet but I'd like to think you're lucky you're the only one he's having sex with.

Maybe now that you know, incorporate other fun activities into your lives that can give you some space.

Maybe binge watch some series, especially during this lockdown.

Thanks for your advice, infact you will be a good wiffy in future.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lexusgs430: 12:54am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You don buy market....... Enjoy it....... While dating, was his sex drive equally high? And you kept supplying, now you want to shut shop...... Ko joor rara........ grin

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by hennylove(f): 12:55am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

am married for ten years and did not experience such even at the initial stage. I think men are designed that way but can discipline their mind to control such desire. This everyday is serious work wo. Have a heart to heart talk with him. I think with time it will reduce. Sorry dearie.

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