bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

enemyofprogress:
Op for your mind now you too don create thread abi? Mtcheew


Dominique no mind am o, na notice me she wan do make we think sey her husband love am. Sex everyday is not love

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high

Saao:
ANY MAN THAT DONT CHEAT WILL LIKE FREQUENT SEX WITH HIS WIFE. TRY TO ACCOMMODATE YOUR HUSBAND FEELINGS. BOTH OF ARE U ARE MEANT TO COMPLIMENT EACH OTHER. BOTH OF U SHOULD COME UP WITH SEX TIMETABLE E.G 3 TIMES OR TWO TIMES A WEEK.
SEX IS PART OF MARRIAGE AND YOU MUST TRY TO GET USE TO IT.

Bola146:
You must learn to like it ni o please.

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Futurejoy:

Madam, you don’t know what God is doing for you o. You husband is demanding for sex from you everyday... go on Joro’s page and hear married women complain about their husband not visiting their warehouse for months, some married women are battling with side chicks that are ready to do back flip for this men while some are battling with gay husbands. Go down on your knees right now and tell God to forgive you for not being grateful.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

With the type of one sided advise you are giving, you are either, single, divorced or about to be divorced

There is no place for extremism in a relationship, let alone marriage

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

rtdCivilservant:
Too much sex is stupid, in fact doesn't even make sense, only an abnormal person would do that. Ur husband doesn't even need to be told at least he should know that u are not a machine, why would he always engage u in sex, he lacks respect for u. Please talk to him about it before he kills u with sex because if u die he will look for someone else to continue the rubbish with, u said he is faithful but I seriously doubt it perhaps all the rubbish he's been doing with other stupid girls out there before lockdown he is now giving u the overload due to this lockdown. I am sorry to say this that he is not a responsible man, what sort of rubbish is that?

fairfora:
When some women remain single, they would be shouting...future husband, where are you oooo!! but as soon as they are married, stories would begin as if life is a bed of roses in marriage. He owns you and you own her, stop complaining rather, be happy he's active. You wan chop the place ni? You must like it oo

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

humilitypays:
I doubt any sane man can have sex with his wife everyday.


Even girlfriend, if she stays for 2 weeks only, you cannot have sex with her everyday without getting bored.


Maybe its me though, sex is boring and uninteresting to me right now......maybe my sexual nerves have finally shutdown cos I can spend a whole year without thinking about sex unless I watch a sexual clip by mistake online or see a highly provocat.ive picture of a very attractive lady, if not, no way

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

kalufelix:
Yes he needs to be castrated and made impotent... I doubt if any married man jumps on his wife on a daily basis.. The original poster said 'almost' may be 4-5 times a week.. The issue of sex frequency in marriages is an old problem which many young girls might also face in the future because men can never change in their nature as regards to sexual urge.. This is a very insightful discourse, sometimes all you have to do is read and learn from peoples experiences... It's not always about attack and defence