Before she accepted to be your girlfriend, you were always calling her as early as 5:am in the morning to wish her good morning, Calling her at 7:am to know if she has had breakfast, you called her after breakfast to know her plans for the day, Called her at exactly 12noon to wish her good afternoon, Called her by 2:pm to ask her to have lunch with you, 4:pm you called her to wish her good evening, 6:pm you called to know what she will be having for dinner, 8:pm you called to know what time she will have her night bath and go to bed, 10:pm, you called to hear her voice, one last time before you sleep, 12:30am, you called to know if she was sleeping alone and could kip you company through out the night, 4:am you wished her good morning, 4:30am you asked her to go to bed so she can wake up earlier than the devil. Text messages as well as chats on social networking sites were not left out. This continued till she got to accept to date you. You always told her how much you love and cherish her, that you are ready to do whatsoever it takes to make her your Girlfriends, your wife and the mother Of Your Unborn Kids. You went ahead to show her to your friends and some family members as your girlfriend, pending her acceptance. She started feeling so close to you, your friends started calling her "our wife", You sent your friends and some of her friends to talk to her to accept dating you. After some time, she accepted to date you, you felt you have done what James Bond could never do. You guys go out, see each other, cuddle, kiss but do not have sex cause she told you she is not ready for that yet. You told her that she doesn't trust you enough, or even love you. She felt bad about the way you were talking because she has started getting used to you and would do anything never to hurt you. She now gave in, allowed you explore her body, you took her pride, her dignity, or maybe you weren't the first to do THAT with her, but utmostly she gave you her body. The relationship went on well, then slowly it began to fade. You stopped sending her messages on social network platforms, to chat with her became a problem but you are always online. She was now the one calling to know your plans for the day because she wanted to be part of it, You were always telling her how hectic, stressful and busy your day was.. You can go for a week without talking to her on phone or wanting to see her, You only see her when you want her to do something for you. You started talking to other girls, the little time you spend with her, It's either you are online and chatting with someone or on phone. When she complains that you are not giving her time and attention, you say she is too demanding. She spends her valentine´s day, Easter, Christmas, New year, Birthdays alone. She does not complain, demand for expensive things or nag. All your promises, you broke them, you only wanted to have your own share of the cake- her body, You toiled with her feelings and emotions, you cheat on her, lie to her, treat her with disrespect, ignore her amongst other things. When was the last time you asked her about her problems? When was the last time you took her to somewhere quiet? When was the last time you surprised her with that little thing that makes her happy? You spend your time, money and love outside, leaving her in a dark room. You lied, deceived and lured her into dating you, sleeping with you, You made her fall in- love with you. Ask yourself this question, will I make heaven with this behavior of mine? Will God ever forgive me for breaking her heart, deceiving her, making her believe in me, betraying her trust and love.... Oh!..That's so unfair!! " Will you have another man do the same to your daughter, sister or female bestie? You have dated her for a year, 2years, or even 5years without plans for her, will u make heaven at last? You are cheating on your wife, girlfriend, fiancee, busy texting and chatting with other females, forgetting your promises to this girl that has given you everything, her body, soul, love, support, loyalty, humility, respect & everything that she has gotten. She get into fights with her parents cause of you hmm, She sneak out of the house to be with you, go against her values and beliefs just to be with you and make you happy, She jilted other guys, declined other proposals but yet you choose to pay her back in this way! My dear, you have a mansion waiting for you in Hell, if you do not change your ways! " If you are married, Go back to your wife, bring back that first love. . . If it's your girlfriend or fiancee bring back the good old days. Do those things that brought you guys together again, and You will be surprised to see the goddess in her.. Just think about this for a few seconds! DON'T BE THAT MAN