Iamundisputed:


And how is he God to know a man's future or destiny? People get married with lavish weddings and die a few months afterwards... Only God can determine a man's destiny.

pasol4real:

Pls go n sleep . Whats so special about msc.
Or is it not the same msc wey ppl dey carry every day dey beg me for work.
The worst part is they are ready to do anything, even cleaner job.

slyfoxxjoe:
that’s why I said if you just look at it “pragmatically”.

Obviously anything can happen in life, luck can shine on him and God can bless anyone immensely regardless of their background.

But just looking at things as they are, the guy does not seem to have much prospect to the girls father. At least not as much as another guy with an Msc. and a good entry level job.

Most parents don’t want to hear “God can bless him” or “no one knows tomorrow” when dealing with their daughters future. They don’t want to take that chance. They want to see hard evidence that you are on the right path to be able to take care of their child.

landmark86:
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree.
She also graduated from Babcock University.

We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful.

It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds.

After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo.

After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos.

Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé.

12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder.

He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house.
I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern.
Should I call it quit?

Please your advise is needed, what should I do?

silento:
Wetin happen to ur dick give her belle and relax they will call u to sort out things

Ningen:
Are you implying he rather gives his blessings to a poor and jobless degree holder than to a rich and successful school dropout?

You are totally naive to believe it's all about your educational background, its your Bank Account!



Your options —

1. She can find her voice and convince her dad that you are success and marriage material.

2. You can go back to school for a degree.

3. Elope together without his blessing.

4. Get rich quick, google 'Robbin Banks' for tips.

5. Quit and move on. ( Preferred option!!)

dangoteinlaw:
Chai see comments!!! The thread further reveals how hypocritical humans are and also shows that's how it will always remain. If this thread anout a yahooboy caught now these comments about class now will suddenly change to words like "get any honest job and be earning the little you you are earning " or comments like "as long as he is working honestly it is okay " this guy went to school and got a job no matter how little but see discrimination.


I will continue to say it, get money wether honestly or dishonesty or whatever means even by ritual just get money because humans are cruel and hypocritical by nature. You won't like what you will see if you no get money ooo

nurusystem:
my guy you have tried, but leave her alone, she is not the only girl.when god will do it she will later marry primary school graduate.... HND is a name M.sc is a name.some M.sc graduate are Olodos at times they consult HND for help.

To me her dad is making mistake. by the time the girl enter 40years his eyes go clear, when guys go just dey collect they clear. ojoro man

Ajixegun:

How did you know he collects 40k as a salary?
NL mo gbe idi fun e

humilitypays:
He does not need to register any PGD to satisfy a foolish, insensitive man or people....all the op need now is more work experience in his field and an upgrade to his CV to showcase his experience, roles, on the job achievements, and maybe do some certification in his field to enable him get a better paying job in a more stable organization, and from there he can go for PGD and Msc after he must have stabilised his finances and career path.


Acquiring degrees without relevant work experience is stupidity in our present world. Experience count more than degrees in the world of engineering which the op belongs