Goddys:

I laughed at her statement. Once a boy attains the age of puberty especially 19, all they want is to know their root and biological father.

They end up hating their mother if they try to alienate them from their lineage.

Men know the essence of their existence is in their root. Women don't realize that. Even when a father abandons a son at infancy, the son will eventually go look for the father and settle the scores

cc: julieeni

I understand this very well, and I know that day will definitely come but what am I supposed to do, I've begged him to at least look after his son, he doesn't care about him probably because he was born different with a very serious jaundice. Thank God my son has beat cerebral palsy and I'm glad that he's doing just fine, very intelligent and smart. I wish to see the look on his face 20yrs from now, I wonder how he'll look at the son he abandoned. Thank you anyway for helping me forgive him even more.

Dear you have to right to your son,no man that refuses to take care of his child has a right to call himself a father,when the child is 18+ and he decides he wants to meet the father that's his choice,there is a different between been a father and a sperm donor

julieeni:
I understand this very well, and I know that day will definitely come but what am I supposed to do, I've begged him to at least look after his son, he doesn't care about him probably because he was born different with a very serious jaundice. Thank God my son has beat cerebral palsy and I'm glad that he's doing just fine, very intelligent and smart. I wish to see the look on his face 20yrs from now, I wonder how he'll look at the son he abandoned. Thank you anyway for helping me forgive him even more.

mycare:


What do you do for a living now?

im currently a sales supervisor

Jesus!this is wickedness[quote author=Stevecreativex post=89139739]Me if I remember I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could remember we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange contact and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home togeth

idahme:



Anytime someone says I have forgiven him and adds a 'but' then that forgiveness has been wiped off. You need to let go of your past completely to an extent of forgiving him of all his atrocities, once you can give your child the opportunity to see his dad again then you can say you hold no grudges against him anymore. Forgiveness is total, let go and live your normal life. You are a strong woman...

Thank you

May God heal u

julieeni:
Getting married to a father of two kids from two different women , it ended in tears, emotional trauma and depression. I guess I loved the very wrong person

Angelacruz:
May God heal u

Amen. Thanks sis

Got me laughing

penisilin:
Like someone said - it has been flogged very very well but women matter will continue to flog men as long as them still get yansh and bleast cool.

One of my many mumuness.

It was 2000, I was very young (after SSCE) and had a girl crushing on me but for reasons known to only God & devil, I just no send the babe.

But for the mumuness in me, I was seriously pursuing one yeye girl because of her yansh so tey in my bid to win her favor, I took a family cherished flask and made a sumptuous chocolate beverage with bread and sardine (from money I fapped from my sister) for her on a rainy day.
I told her from our balcony that I was coming with the goodies and she beckoned on me to come quickly. Only for me to reach her house, she asked to carry the flask follow her until we reach her boyfriend house angry. She jumped on him and said "Thank you Ola, shebi you have given me the flask" and they shut the door while I was standing there and smiling like Ganduje.

Anger no gree me sleep for 2 days

Sorry...u wont ve married her bfor doing it

lamalama:
trained a girl in the university even sponsored her overseas but she dumped me and married a white man

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

baby so sorry about that, be strong, people Lik that hardly last, no wonder when they sing their own love songs, I hardly listen.

MedicH:


Just don't misunderstand sir. I puy my weed in the rice i cook but I don't light it up. There's incomplete combustion going on and carbon monoxide is produced which is poisonous. Smoking is just not Good.

I dig 100%

MedicH:


Just don't misunderstand sir. I puy my weed in the rice i cook but I don't light it up. There's incomplete combustion going on and carbon monoxide is produced which is poisonous. Smoking is just not Good.

Aight, ah dig

Damn!things i do for luv

EncourageMe:
Love can really be powerful sometimes and may also get some one blind as well... Did you know love made me to apologized to my ex babe after i still caught her cheating? Did you know love made me to use the 5k left with me to enter boutique and buy a brand new shirt on my way from somewhere and pulled off the one i was wearing just because my ex babe called me that i must see her in her place of work when coming back from where i went to. Immediately i received her call, i realized the shirt i was putting on is the same shirt she always complain about and Lagos traffic wahala would not allow me to get home first to put on another one, i decided to pull it off, dump it somewhere and bought a new one, they ironed it for me and i went to meet her. Did you also know we ended up not marrying each other because we latter realized we were not so compatible for each other? Gods love is the best.

I wooed one beautiful girl like that who car owners were running after and I didn't have a dime. Thank God she didn't a use me Sha.

I can't type my own, it's worst oooo....I too mumu back then in school for girls....boys shit back then....but I don smart now for girls shit ..even the ones I didn't date chop my money

Favour22amaka:
Short girls are sweet and nice. Hahahahaha

Abeg I no just laugh sweet and nice kó

DateMynd44:
ehya sorry dear.
Your profile says calabar, is that where u currently reside?
Let's talk privately via mail

yeah I'm in Calabar

julieeni:
yes, I gave him a son, he got a place and moved in with another woman while I was with his parents. Didn't know about it until when he was posted to Abuja and we had to join him, that was when I knew he still got a house there in Abuja and moved in with same lady, while I was hustling for money to give to him to rent at least a room for us... everything came out in the open anyway and I had to come back to my parents. He got married to the lady few months after I left and she put to birth around Nov. My worse mistake

This is heartbreaking... You have to be strong & move on.... Inside this life! I wish you better life. A man that can behave the way he did is not just irresponsible, but very wicked.

julieeni:
yeah I'm in Calabar

I'm working in UCTH, reside in Eyo Ita.
kindly reach me out on WhatsApp 09064553219 let's talk.
Thanks

2012 ... I travelled from Adamawa (jimeta ) to asaba to go see babe o , funny thing is that she was the person that woke me up for the said journey , i hurriedly took my bath & off to park with my luggage of stuff I packed for her , dry fish , rice etc. . Started journey past 7a.m , called her 3hours into the journey & she didnt pick my call till I got to asaba around 2a.m the next day ,
luckily I met a lady in the bus who accommodated me for 2days in her family house (mother , father , brother ,sisters were all home) as I was only having my t.p back to north , i had to open up to the kind girl , she told all her family members what happened & they were mad @ what the lady did , Still great friends with the girl that help me ,we like family now sef

I remember back then in 200l (my first relationship), I met this guy, will collect Money from my struggling parents and give it to him. I couldn't afford good clothes, hair for my self and he always complain how bad I look but he doesn't complain when I give him money I was suppose to use for my upkeep. stupid love. we broke up because he slapped me and now he's in my Facebook DM seeing how things has changed a little for me. or was it other stupid relationships have been into. its not like am ugly, but men just keep taking advantage of me. well done with relationships, just want to hustle hard and make my own money but covid is another problem�

Hehehehe, Honestly, love is a serious mental illness . I don't regret anything. Expect the unexpected anytime, that's how unfair matters of love is.

julieeni:
I understand this very well, and I know that day will definitely come but what am I supposed to do, I've begged him to at least look after his son, he doesn't care about him probably because he was born different with a very serious jaundice. Thank God my son has beat cerebral palsy and I'm glad that he's doing just fine, very intelligent and smart. I wish to see the look on his face 20yrs from now, I wonder how he'll look at the son he abandoned. Thank you anyway for helping me forgive him even more.

stay strong

shestrong:

Is a word of encouragement or a piece of advise.

How's that any of your bizi

It made me laugh

Had to drive 30 miles to get a pack of cigarette.

That`s undiluted love

Made me lie to my father to get money to satisfy her

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julieeni:
Getting married to a father of two kids from two different women , it ended in tears, emotional trauma and depression. I guess I loved the very wrong person

Are you single

I don't know what love looks like. I have always liked people equally. Sounds ridiculous but the truth.

Lower my standards, never again.

Love made me to suck toto the mouth i use in praying and speaking in tongues