bolatefah:

Please help me out,

My husband is dating a lady, he even put her pix on his phone.  but when i call the lady the information she gave me was that -  my husband deceive her that he has not married talkless of having children.  This lady crown it all that she even no his father and his sister.   I am shocked I don't know what to say then i went to the sister for interrogation but she Dennie to knowing this lady. but his father did not Dennie he only confirm for me that  my husband will not married more that  two meaning I and the Lady.

But I am confused, because we married Legally with a 2yrs old boy.  This gay I am talking about does not feed the HOME.  He deceive this lady living in a 4 bedroom flat, while rent of a room he's living he due for the past 9 month now.

Please help me out, i need you advice,
WHICH STEP, IN WHAT WAY DO I TREAT THIS ISSUE.

HELP URGENTLY NEEDED.

THANK U.  You can help me to ask the lady question.  this his her no.  08028396524

ebonyvibe:

@Mrbrown Jay this woman does not deserve insults she deserve compassion though i dont agree with what she has done but clearly she is having a break down dont tip her over the edge. If you find out a man is fuc.king your wife will your first instinct not be you want to kill him. People deal with stress differently

MRbrownJAY:

in my book, she doesnt deserve any compassion!
however this woman may feel, she has absolutely NO RIGHTS to put some other person private details on NL. whats next? her address so people can go and abuse her?!

she should deal with the lying pile of crap husband that she has rather than taking her energy on some women that her cheating husband fooled.

Ujujoan:

Hey sweeri . . . how was your celebrations?

jay bee:

You have no business with the lady.
Ask your husband to come clean. Looks like the dude has moved on so stop pestering the other woman and focus more on your child and how you going to better your life going forward.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
you should sort your life with your husband rather than posting this women's phone number here, you ignorant fool!
you already talked to her and she told you what you needed to know, why post her phone number on a forum to STRANGERS?!?!

Nuff said.

Shy-One:

question - "is yours a christian marriage?" or has your husband mentioned his desire to have 2 wives?  Your father-in-law mentioned that he won't marry but one of you which makes me think that "he will marry more than one."  The father-in-law knows about the relationship as he didn't deny it and I am sure that your husband has discussed with his dad the possibility of having 2 wives - hence the reason the father-in-law mentioned it in the first place.  So it has definitely been discussed between both father and son.

answer to your post - IF YOU ARE OF THE BELIEF THAT YOURS IS A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE and that you didn't sign up to be in a marriage with 3 people (you, your husband and another wife):

1) get on your knees IMMEDIATELY AND TAKE IT TO GOD in prayer
2) talk to God as frankly as you would talk to your closest friend
3) pray constantly and with sincerity
4) don't talk to anyone else
    the husband doesn't deserve a second thought
    don't talk to the father-in-law, the sister, your family, your neighbors, strangers
5) go completely mum - SILENT until God tells you to talk
6) don't cook for him, don't clean for him, don't argue with him, don't sex him, nothing
7) don't even look at him
write him a letter - let him know that until he is a husband to you in action and deed - you are only a wife to him in name and name only
9) let him know that he should straighten up and straighten this mess he has created out for the sake of the marriage, your honor, love and respect and until he handles this - you have nothing to say or do with him or to him

Continue to go about your business in the home, continue to care for your child, talk to God about monies and assistance that you need from God who is your ALL-N-ALL,  your everything - look to God for your direction and he will supply it to you.

Spclst900:

can't agree less.

MRbrownJAY:

hey Uju baby, i havent seen you here for a while!
unlike most people, xmas and new yr is the busiest time of the yr for me so i was. . . . . . . . working!
what about you? did father Xmas brought you all the gift you desired?

jay bee:

You have no business with the lady.
Ask your husband to come clean. Looks like the dude has moved on so stop pestering the other woman and focus more on your child and how you going to better your life going forward.

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
you should sort your life with your husband rather than posting this women's phone number here, you ignorant fool!
you already talked to her and she told you what you needed to know, why post her phone number on a forum to STRANGERS?!?!

Mrs, Eve:

I can see Jaybee calling her now!

Jaybee: Hello, may I speak to the naughty woman that bleeped my friend husband?
Chick: Who is this? How did you get my number?
Jaybee: I am a moderator of a Nigerian site and some deranged chick posted your number saying you bleeped her husband.
Chick: I bleeped plenty of husband can you be more specific?
Jaybee: Damn!  So you into bleeping husbands?  Do you deal with guys that are not married?
Chick: How much money you got?
Jaybee: Hmm.  (hangs up the phone)

Mrs, Eve:

I can see Jaybee calling her now!

Jaybee: Hello, may I speak to the naughty woman that bleeped my friend husband?
Chick: Who is this? How did you get my number?
Jaybee: I am a moderator of a Nigerian site and some deranged chick posted your number saying you bleeped her husband.
Chick: I bleeped plenty of husband can you be more specific?
Jaybee: Damn! So you into bleeping husbands? Do you deal with guys that are not married?
Chick: How much money you got?
Jaybee: Hmm. (hangs up the phone)