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Women And Double Standard by hazard7(m): 2:06pm On May 08, 2020
Disclaimer: this post is comprehensive and factual based on research and statistics. So if you find it offensive,misogyny and boring(long),sorry and it is not for viewers that are asslickers,white knights and so called feminist. Viewers discretion is advised.
Octavio pas once said that “When hypocrisy is a character trait, it also affects one’s thinking, because it consists in the negation of all the aspects of reality that one finds disagreeable, irrational or repugnant.”
There is parallel advantage and disadvantage to living as male or female, for men are by and large deemed more
credible, whilst the womanly form is more coveted. As such,if you are a man the world is more likely to respect you than it is to desire or care for you; whereas if you’re a woman,the world is more partial to be desiring and caring of you,than it is respecting. On some level, be it conscious or not, it would seem our fair species recognizes women as
dependants and men as their guardians, treating each accordingly.
Now on the surface this sounds like men get a better deal,and within the infinite remit of ideological feminism and the intrinsicality of feminine self-pity, this is certainly what much of womankind believes as she takes a perverse sense of pride in being the prima facie victim. Yet in reality, man’s position comes with a burden, loneliness and difficulty of life that is as equal parts alien as it is undesirable to the feminine.
Protestation & Petitioning:
Womanly complaint makes it a common point of contention
that there are matters in which by injustice of her womanliness she suffers gross disadvantage, and it is this line of thinking which serves as the foundation for feminist
thought. Let it be clear, the root and core of feminism, that is the psychological seed from which it is sprung, is the notion that one is inferior by merit of their sex, and that this inferiority is not the product of innate deficit, but of a systematic oppression that must be corrected for politically,economically et cetera. For whether a woman identifies as a feminist or not, for as long as she perceives herself as unprivileged by comparison to man, she will for all intent and purpose behave in much the way a self-identifying feminist would. This is to state that although she may decline to call herself a feminist, all too aware the connotations of such a word bode poorly for her reputation,
she is ailed by the same penis envying inferiority complex that the most rabid and outspoken of feminist ideologues are. And yet as men, we consider complaining, irrespective of its justification or substantiation, to be hallmarks of the
feminine character. For even if a man has good cause to
complain, he is hard pressed to do so, for the act of
complaint fills him with a kind of unproductive self-loathing
that appears not to plague the female. As such when one is
to complain without good cause, be it that man is remiss to
complain even with good cause, he is filled with nothing but
disgust for the caricatural pretentions of insolence
attempting to pass itself off as justice seeking.
A man acts upon, he is not acted upon, therefore if he
wants, he does, he does not wait, he proceeds. Should he
deign to complain, there is little chance he will be helped,
and even if he is, there is yet littler chance he can be helped
whilst retaining his dignity. You see whilst women are ailed
by eternal dissatisfaction and a need to communicate this
dissatisfaction in the petition that man will remedy her
contemporary concern, man is ailed by extreme pride. As
such, even when a man is truly worthy of help, he is as likely to request it as he is to receive it, and by that I mean, in much the way society is unconcerned with caring for man,man himself does not wish to be taken care of.
A man’s primary emotional concern is his pride, respect but
the corollary on which it rides. If a man cannot respect
himself, he cannot expect others to, and therefore a man
only requests help when he has no other option, be it that
seeking help is the last thing he would look to do and not the first. Rather than complain about the unfair, he will seek to rectify it through nothing but sheer volition of whatever
means he has available to him. Man tries to help himself,
and only after he has been massively unsuccessful in the
endeavour will he attempt to seek assistance. For women
the principle is reversed, she is quick to seek help, but slow
to help herself should she even attempt to do so at all.
Naturally, exceptions abound, but as a general statement of
observation such a maxim should hold true.
It is not man’s goal to bask in the catharsis of emotional
expungement and to petition others to do the bidding his
emotions see fit, but rather to understand what is
unoptimised and alter it so that it may improve. It is for this
reason “nagging” has a strongly feminine connotation, be it
that it is women who find all manner of things to gripe over
as her insecurities are made fully manifest, for whilst a
man changes the world via his hands, women change it by
petitioning men.
Men do and take pride in doing, when they’re not doing,
they’re ashamed of their unproductivity. A woman’s doings
compose of influencing others to act on her behalf, be it that it may, she feels no shame in complaining, and in actual fact feels she is only exercising her natural rights in doing so.
Alas, irrespective of woman’s social position, rich or poor,
conservative or liberal, educated or uneducated, it is her
nature to be dissatisfied with her station, and where she has
little or zero problem, she will manufacture and amplify
purely so she may enjoy the catharsis of complaining and all its attendant attention. Act Or Be Acted Upon
Inherent too is the magnificent difference in the standard
of responsibility each gender holds itself to. Almost as if by
Some cerebral echo of sex, a woman believes the world is
acting upon her, rather than she on it. Therefore when
unsatisfied, she infers her condition is the fault of something external to her, and be it that it is man who acts upon her sexually, it is man she holds responsible for her
dissatisfaction.
This brings us to a double standard that men dare not
complain of and women care not to acknowledge, when a
woman treats a man poorly, it is asked what he did to make
her behave so unsightly, yet should a man treat a woman
poorly, it is hastily concluded he is a monster without
further investigation. Women are given the benefit of the
doubt even when they have done wrong, with justifications
being sought to explain away their wrongdoing – no such
instinctual courtesy is extended to men.
This is a social privilege women benefit from most
emphatically, to the extent that even in courts of law their
punishments are less punitive, should they even be
punished at all. He is acting upon and she is acted upon –
this line of thought continues to reassert and perpetuate
itself all around us irrespective of the material facts.
Womankind sees the double standards she does not benefit
from, but is blind to those which she does, incorrectly
believing in all earnest that she is most oppressed when she
is in actual fact freer than her counterpart. She wishes to
reform the social standards from which she does not
benefit, be it that she may increase her liberty by limiting
her social consequences, but she is without either concern
or impetus for the reformation of double standards from
which she derives preexisting benefit. This is why women
lament how unfair it is their reputations suffer from
promiscuity whilst man’s benefits, but are oblivious to the
fact they enjoy a level of compassion and assumed
innocence that is all but alien to men.
Respect Vs. Desire
When a woman asks to be evaluated on the basis of her
merit in the way a man is, she knows not what she asks for.
She seeks greater respect and thus the recognition inherent
to said respect, but is blissfully unaware of the drawbacks
that come with this. Be it that were she to be respected in
the way exclusive to man, she would no longer be cared for
in the way exclusive to women.
Women are objects of desire, retaining enough infantile
aesthetic in adulthood to elicit the compassion and care the
species feels for children. Whereas men are objects of
success, that is, a man is to be evaluated on the sum of his
utility and achievement. There is no cushion, nor safety net
for a man who falls too far into the abyss, yet were he a
woman, his decline would be cushioned and prevented by
social and governmental support alike. Nobody
fundamentally cares for man on the basis that he exists, this
privilege is but the preserve of women and children. Rather,
his position in the world is predicated on what he can
produce and solve, and it is by living in accordance with this
nature and having the fruits to show for it a man comes into
his own.
Simply put, women covet the respect exclusive to men, but
do not understand that the respect men receive is a
substitute for the care they do not. That is, society does not
fundamentally care for those it respects, in much the way it
does not look to guidance from those under its care. When
you look up to someone, you respect what they can do and
what they have done, but you don’t care for their
weaknesses nor their fundamental person, for if you did,
you would pity rather than respect. And one may either
benefit from the care of pity or the admiration of respect,
but not both, for each form of love is mutually exclusive, the presence of one precluding the materialisation of the other.
An aspect of the negative feminine resents not being boss,
and yet it is only because of her secondary role that she
benefits from a compassion of care and empathy that men
cease to receive after the infancy of boyhood. Indeed,
people may respect men more than they respect women,
but it comes at the cost of being cared about merely for
existing, and having the freedom to be vulnerable. Alas, focusing on what she doesn’t benefit from whilst neglecting what she does, many a woman abhors being the second sex,but she does so only because she doesn’t realise she’d hate being the primary even more.
CONCLUSION
The yin-yang energy is transferred from men to women. We men should stop wasting our time on entitled women that believe the world should be fair to them cause they have a pussy. Women are confused species that don't know what they want. Untill my next post. Cheers!!!
#Ubunja
#Martinez39
#Emmadoet
#Omar09
#red pill

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Re: Women And Double Standard by Thoughtfeed: 2:30pm On May 08, 2020
I need that next post


Love this cheesy

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Re: Women And Double Standard by hazard7(m): 2:42pm On May 08, 2020
Thoughtfeed:
I need that next post

Love this cheesy
Thanks
Re: Women And Double Standard by Omar09(m): 7:30am On May 09, 2020
hazard7:
Disclaimer:
CONCLUSION
The yin-yang energy is transferred from men to women. We men should stop wasting our time on entitled women that believe the world should be fair to them cause they have a pussy. Women are confused species that don't know what they want. Untill my next post. Cheers!!!
#Ubunja
#Martinez39
#Emmadoet
#red pill

Took my time to read and understand it. Now I know why women act the way they do. They just don't understand that respect comes with responsibility, and you can't be respected and cared for at the same time.

Till next time bro. Always tag me. Cheers.

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Re: Women And Double Standard by CAPSLOCKED: 8:04am On May 09, 2020
I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY SENSE IN THIS POST.
Re: Women And Double Standard by Belafonte(m): 8:42am On May 09, 2020
This is to state that although she may decline to call herself a feminist, all too aware the connotations of such a word bode poorly for her reputation,
she is ailed by the same penis envying inferiority complex that the most rabid and outspoken of feminist ideologues are.



One of the most dangerous type of women are those that claim to not be feminists but act like feminists.

Remember, watch their actions not their words.

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Re: Women And Double Standard by hazard7(m): 9:32am On May 09, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY SENSE IN THIS POST.
That's why is not for people like you

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Re: Women And Double Standard by hazard7(m): 9:35am On May 09, 2020
Omar09:


Took my time to read and understand it. Now I know why women act the way they do. They just don't understand that respect comes with responsibility, and you can't be respected and cared for at the same time.

Till next time bro. Always tag me. Cheers.
Women just have a herd mentality and are incapable of handling responsibility. I will tag you next time.

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Re: Women And Double Standard by emmaodet: 11:16am On May 09, 2020
Waooooooo
Nice write up.
Did you copied it from "The manipulated man" or you wrote it yourself?
Re: Women And Double Standard by liquidfaya: 11:21am On May 09, 2020
https://illimitablemen.com/tag/anti-feminism/

Let's attribute writeups to their original writers. Credit where credit is due.
Re: Women And Double Standard by MarkYves: 11:33am On May 09, 2020
It's gender base. Whether is your mum, sister or girlfriend. This is what they all have in common
Re: Women And Double Standard by hahn(m): 5:37pm On May 09, 2020
Interesting read. Op, please add proper paragraphing. Reading it as it is is tiring

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