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Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by ojuu4u(m): 3:07am On May 11, 2020 |
Prof0fficial: i have learnt to understand that wives always want to play victims in marriages, they would present it to the public as if the husband is monster, as if he has 100% fault if marriages collapsed. so many underhand actions and inactions that she was doing that turned husband to abandoned some duty for her at home, she refused to state it, |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by ojuu4u(m): 3:19am On May 11, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol: when you didn't marry a lunatic, husband doesn't pay school fees of his own kids but preface to be father xmas outside, when i studied the one sided story critically, i discovered the wife have 60% blame, maybe the wife is unable to be controlled by her husband because she is richer than husband, to confirm it she said the husband would feel remorse whenever he wanted sex, which means she frustrated him even to have sex with her because of the wive dominearing tendency. if truly u left ur hubby and dnt have a single taut of going back, u dnt need to seek public opinion on the crashed marriage and you supposed to have left the church so that you won't hear any sermon that can make u change ur heart. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Nobody: 4:38am On May 11, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol:my sister, he go always dae beat you .domestic violence no easy to liquidate from some men gene.....as u don get children so just jejely face dem. FYI=me and my formal pastor wife no dae talk ,we dae keep malice. Forget the pastor all of us na human being with flesh ahbeg. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by frozen70(f): 4:42am On May 11, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol: Men's pride is one thing that makes them look as if they are the highest thing on earth A man can't be charitable outside his marriage and becomes a terrorist at home to his wife The dream of every woman is to build her marriage but while building her home, the man keeps shaking the foundation, it will not stand firm It's up to you to forgive him if you think he has changed It's your life that us involve and your happiness now and forever is what should be your priority |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by HarunaWest(m): 4:54am On May 11, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol:What you should be more bothered about now is making sure you can achieve your DDA and targets.You know theres a pandemic now, Management won't hear any excuse on the reason you couldn't even measure up to your target by half year appraisal. Meanwhile as for the Marriage, don't let anyone guilt trip you, you have left the marriage and that's the end. You don't need a man of God's view on this I mean this is common sense. Let's learn to separate religion from reality. Pastor is just talking his own, that's what he is paid to do. If he keeps perstering your, change to another sister branch..Take care of your kids, love your life and if opportunity presents itself, you can take another shot at marriage. It's not so bad after all it's just that some spouses no be am. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by keinnoma(m): 6:49am On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by austinsmat(m): 7:23am On May 11, 2020 |
When you vow for better for worst on the altar ![]() Ask you parent especially your Mom she may pass hell more than you. is unfair for those that are supporting the woman, pls hear from the man side of story. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Knowseek: 10:42am On May 13, 2020 |
deolaarc: Hey I saw your private dm. I don't know how the reply stuff works. Whatsup |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by SmileDance(f): 8:59pm On May 15, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol:you don't need any bible scholar, God gave you brain, use it! |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Davidoff2000: 9:17pm On May 15, 2020 |
Godsonjolly: If her husband was abusive, that would have been the thing this woman would have hinged her divorce. She only mentioned this in lassing, most likely meaning that the one place she said her husband beat her was a lie. This woman is being economical with the truth, she is tired with a broke man who is her husband and wants out. The husband is an ass, quite insensitive, but nothing they couldnt resolve. Dont believe these woman totally.. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Godsonjolly: 9:30pm On May 15, 2020 |
Davidoff2000:Hmm. Perhaps we should hear from the man. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by bjprodint(f): 10:56pm On May 15, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol:most spiritual leaders have marital problems too.they will never tell anyone.you see their marriages as perfect,but they are dying in silence.they cant solve their own problems is it yours they will solve? |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by femmoy(m): 1:29am On May 16, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol: madam please try to forgive him for the sake of the love that once existed and the kid (if any). it's not easy to lose one's wife. please ignore all those asking u to move on. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by NobleDeSage001: 4:32am On May 16, 2020 |
It would be necessary to hear your husband's side of the story too. But the two of you share the blame equally. For a marriage to work, both partners must contribute to its success with mutual respect, understanding, sacrifice and patience. Perhaps, these were lacking in your marriage at some point. Madam, the truth is that you disrespect your husband and he felt less of a man. The easiest way to reduce a man to rag is to disrespect him. No man can stand a disrespectful wife. You described your husband as a man with a large heart. How was it like for both of you at the onset of your marriage? That means that there is something making him act the way he does at home or most likely, you don't know or understand the man you got married to. He started beating you with the hope it will get you to accord him his due respect. If you are not ready to respect him, forget the idea of going back. Ask yourself, what exactly would be the reasons why you want to go back. Have the factors that drove you apart been addressed conclusively? Answer these questions sincerely and decide if it's worth another chance. Forget pastors abeg. What is God telling you? Pay attention to His voice... Peace be with you |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Slurity(m): 7:40am On May 16, 2020 |
For the sake of heaven, your children and your happiness. Try to forgive and go back to him but with different approach and agreement that he will change and take all responsibilities in the house and you MUSt stop spending your money even on yourself. Rely totally on him for everything until you are convince he has change. There is no crime in leaving him again if you discover he don't want to change. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Eyeness: 7:52am On May 16, 2020 |
Zaronxpanol:leave the church. the church cannot dictate what you want. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Eyeness: 7:52am On May 16, 2020 |
Slurity:you are evil 1 Like |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Eyeness: 7:55am On May 16, 2020 |
NobleDeSage001:so wh does the husband want her disrespectful ass back. Granted we should hear his story. but for a woman to call a marriage hell. it must have been hell. 1 Like |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Slurity(m): 8:28am On May 16, 2020 |
Eyeness:You are holy |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Hollysaint: 8:53am On May 16, 2020 |
Is that the only church in the world? Look for another church or parish and start attending.Keep your mind open for a new relationship. Zaronxpanol: |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by NobleDeSage001: 10:05am On May 16, 2020 |
Eyeness: but for a woman to call a marriage hell. it must have been hell This is exactly my point. What reasons could she give to support the idea of a reunion? |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by mechanics(m): 7:41pm On May 16, 2020 |
I understand how you feel, since is your husband and the Bible warns against divorce, maybe you should gather your pastor and few workers as a witness that if he eventually beat you, you will pack out of the house finally for good. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by niyex77(m): 7:54pm On May 16, 2020 |
Kestolove:Too vulgar |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Progress2468(m): 5:42am On May 23, 2020 |
ojuu4u: And Lecturers are not broke? |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by ojuu4u(m): 5:48am On May 23, 2020 |
Progress2468: Go and become armed robber now, since you are woman rapper. At least you will be able to satisfy all ur woman demands. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by ojuu4u(m): 5:56am On May 23, 2020 |
Progress2468: You have comprehension issues, go back and re-read what the comment (last paragraph precisely bf my quote) Anyway you can become armed robber or ritualist, since you are woman rapper. At least you will be able to satisfy all ur woman demands. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by mechanics(m): 10:04pm On May 23, 2020 |
He's right |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Ijawwomaninoyo: 10:43pm On May 23, 2020 |
You can go back if you cannot reason by yourself. I know a Pastor who poisoned a man's heart against his fiancee when she was brought to Church for Introduction. He said he should marry someone from the Church whom he can see how she serves God truly. He started a sort of matchmaking but the Pastor's sister's fiance lived abroad before he came down for the wedding. He foolishly gilted her fiancee and got someone in the Church, the marriage didn't last for a year. Then they will settle again. Their children are victims of broken homes now while Pastor's sister is still happily married. |
Re: Does My Pastor Want Me To Go Back To My Toxic Ex-husband Who Almost Killed Me by Progress2468(m): 10:39pm On May 25, 2020 |
ojuu4u: Ok. Bye |
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