please people help me answer this question maturely,am in Lagos, have tried all my possible best to make it in life,but all to no avail,have been through a lot,there is a time that I raise cash,start up a business, and it still collapse,am an hardworking guy,am not a lazy man,there was a time that i work as an okada rider,please my question, are there people going through this type of problem? or is it that am not trying enough? or am born to suffer?I don't know who to discuss this with that is why I come here ......sorry for the bad English

I'll give you a word using your signature:

Depression can only come to you if you dont know PERSEVERANCE AND COMMITMENT.COM, if you are ALIVE, you SHOULD never think of GIVING UP. aswear

Yes Brother, there are a lot of people out there who are passing through the same ordeal as you, some even have it worse than you. No one is born to suffer, it's just that we all have our own time and season to breakforth. What works for A might not Work for B. Provided you're certain and confident in your hardworking skill.....just take a little time out to observe the strategy you've been employing before now.

Are there some skills that you have to learn to augment what you're currently capable of? Are there certain things you need to try differently?
The answer is always within us...you just have to ANALYZE YOUR SITUATION AND THINK OF A CREATIVE AND PRODUCTIVE SOLUTION TO IT.

Cheers Chief. You'd fine sunshine soon again.

olurili:
please people help me answer this question maturely,am in Lagos, have tried all my possible best to make it in life,but all to no avail,have been through a lot,there is a time that I raise cash,start up a business, and it still collapse,am an hardworking guy,am not a lazy man,there was a time that i work as an okada rider,please my question, are there people going through this type of problem? or is it that am not trying enough? [b]or am born to suffer?[/b]I don't know who to discuss this with that is why I come here ......sorry for the bad English

No. You're not born to suffer. And i don't think anything is wrong with you. You see, to make money and live a comfortable life is not that easy everywhere in the world. Moreover, with the situation of things now, things are not easy. One must be determined, strong, work more harder with self desipline in order to achieve it. Most importantly develop a strong prayerful life.

Choose a nitch (something you have passion to do) and put more effort. Everything will be alright.

Stephenomozzy:
I'll give you a word using your signature:

Depression can only come to you if you dont know PERSEVERANCE AND COMMITMENT.COM, if you are ALIVE, you SHOULD never think of GIVING UP. aswear

Yes Brother, there are a lot of people out there who are passing through the same ordeal as you, some even have it worse than you. No one is born to suffer, it's just that we all have our own time and season to breakforth. What works for A might not Work for B. Provided you're certain and confident in your hardworking skill.....just take a little time out to observe the strategy you've been employing before now.

Are there some skills that you have to learn to augment what you're currently capable of? Are there certain things you need to try differently?
The answer is always within us...you just have to ANALYZE YOUR SITUATION AND THINK OF A CREATIVE AND PRODUCTIVE SOLUTION TO IT.

Cheers Chief. You'd fine sunshine soon again.

I won't lie to you,the day I create this signature that depression can only come if you don't know nairaland,that day is the day my that business collapse,am thinking on committing suicide that day,then I log in to nairaland,I saw a post and I laugh to the extend that I forget that stupid thought,right now am depressed again, all those that started with me have gone far

olurili:
............right now am depressed again, all those that started with me have gone far

Ah....Boss, you're not being fair to yourself na.

No matter your situation, do not ever compare yourself to other people. Even if they're billionaires while you're still struggling. Don't blame your situation to fate, bad decisions or wrong investments. Stand up from the dirt you've found yourself...dust yourself up. and try again and again till you hit the gold.

NOR DEPRESS O, When there is life, no matter now HARD, There is always hope.

Look around, maybe there's something that you can start doing in the community that you're in. You can start from little and grow to the top. Do not allow pride or "What people will say" discourage you o.

Work hard and pray.

Stephenomozzy:


Ah....Boss, you're not being fair to yourself na.

No matter your situation, do not ever compare yourself to other people. Even if they're billionaires while you're still struggling. Don't blame your situation to fate, bad decisions or wrong investments. Stand up from the dirt you've found yourself...dust yourself up. and try again and again till you hit the gold.

NOR DEPRESS O, When there is life, no matter now HARD, There is always hope.

Look around, maybe there's something that you can start doing in the community that you're in. You can start from little and grow to the top. Do not allow pride or "What people will say" discourage you o.

thanks am very grateful, thanks for the encouraging word

Sorry to ask, hope you dont womanize?..that is one of cash drainer.

Hkenny:
Sorry to ask, hope you dont womanize?..that is one of cash drainer.

I swear with the name of almighty God,I don't drink,I don't smoke,I don't womanise, and I don't gamble, though there was a time I am a drug addict,am addicted to tramadol,but that stop like two years ago