i keep asking women,apart from sex what do you have to offer?

ONEarrow:
i keep asking women,apart from sex what do you have to offer?

you clearly don't know how to manage a relationship to get whatever you want out of it,

if you play your game right, she would offer you support, assistance, cook, help you with house chores, pray for you and take your matters to her pastors, have sex with you, lend you money when you are broke, keep your company and not have you sleep alone, gist with you when bored, boost your morale and ego during difficult times.. some would even split rent with you if you promise marriage and your hustle is tight in her eyes and she thinks you would have a good future

Before going into a relationship, list what you want in a girl, list what you want from your girlfriend and think of long term and short term goal, this way you wont head into a relationship and turn maga

.

Exc2000:


you clearly don't know how to manage a relationship to get whatever you want out of it,

if you play your game right, she would offer you support, assistance, cook, help you with house chores, pray for you and take your matters to her pastors, have sex with you, lend you money when you are broke, keep your company and not have you sleep alone, gist with you when bored, boost your morale and ego during difficult times.. some would even split rent with you if you promise marriage and your hustle is tight in her eyes and she thinks you would have a good future


.

gone are those days,women of this present generation only knows how to ask for money..

ONEarrow:
gone are those days,women of this present generation only knows how to ask for money..

and you trap her with money... a lady would never leave a "sure guy" that gave her lots of packaging and spend abit on her in the beginning of relationship till she is hooked, and start giving her false hopes about some imaginary good future

This is why some ladies still find it hard to leave a Yahoo boy who doesn't make money anymore

Relationship is give and take this days

Exc2000:


and you trap her with money... a lady would never leave a "sure guy" that gave her lots of packaging and spend abit on her in the beginning of relationship till she is hooked, and start giving her false hopes about some imaginary good future

This is why some ladies still find it hard to leave a Yahoo boy who doesn't make money anymore

Relationship is give and take this days

yea you're right bro..your idea just made me smile,you're the man!

I think you guys should be tired of by this by now. Na everytime I dey read ham on nairaland that apart from sex there is nothing else a woman can offer.

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Such bitterness
Y'all don't get tired... SMH

I think you're the same person that ask this same question I think some weeks back
So I decided to ask a girl the same
When I asked her she was just looking at me like
Tilapia fish
So after some minutes she started saying nonsense she don't want to be silent cause people were there
Everything she said didn't correlate with what I asked her I just left there smiling

so ur saying ur mama didnt have anything to offer ur dad apart from...... interesting

I hate it when a man that is supposed to talk like a man starts reasoning like a fool,wetin carry him mama and papa enter this matter?men are discussing about this present generation girls and their ideology towards dating before marriage and u are here taking through ur anus.Oga respect onwe gi jee noro ala

rubbish
you talking what do you have to offer?

deewhydoski:
I think you guys should be tired of by this by now. Na everytime I dey read ham on nairaland that apart from sex there is nothing else a woman can offer.

you dey mind dem
that's how you identify jobless people.

Financial support: Like it or not, there are women who support their boyfriends financially, some even get defrauded as a result of it.

There is a woman who saw the chats of her boyfriend with his friend. The conversation between the said boyfriend and his friend showed that the guy was only in the relationship because the lady was "rich and had a job". And am very certain, they have sex.

Domestic help: Many men here including my ex believe it's a woman's job to cook and clean for them even when they're not married yet.

Personally I don't see any wrong in helping out but when your reason for me doing the domestic chores is because am a woman then we'll have issues because I don't believe that. Sadly women are been turned to semi-slaves by men who are just boyfriends to them.

Ideas: Some women contribute intelligently to things that could be of value if those things are within the their scope of knowledge.

It's not when you ask your girlfriend who is a fashion designer about ICT related topics or you ask a girl who doesn't know about buisness to advise you on which buisness to start that will yield enough money and when she doesn't give a satisfactory answer, you run to nairaland to ask what women give apart from sex.

Emotional support: Some women stay with their boyfriends through thick and thin, they believe in the dreams of their broke boyfriends and stick to him during those tough periods.

And in those periods where the man has absolutely nothing for himself is when the financial support by the woman comes into play.

So this one is capable of making sense like this? The world is indeed full of mystery.

Exc2000:


you clearly don't know how to manage a relationship to get whatever you want out of it,

if you play your game right, she would offer you support, assistance, cook, help you with house chores, pray for you and take your matters to her pastors, have sex with you, lend you money when you are broke, keep your company and not have you sleep alone, gist with you when bored, boost your morale and ego during difficult times.. some would even split rent with you if you promise marriage and your hustle is tight in her eyes and she thinks you would have a good future

Before going into a relationship, list what you want in a girl, list what you want from your girlfriend and think of long term and short term goal, this way you wont head into a relationship and turn maga

.

Exc2000:


and you trap her with money... a lady would never leave a "sure guy" that gave her lots of packaging and spend abit on her in the beginning of relationship till she is hooked, and start giving her false hopes about some imaginary good future

This is why some ladies still find it hard to leave a Yahoo boy who doesn't make money anymore

Relationship is give and take this days

Manipulators o

philcz:
Manipulators o

lol.. you either manipulate your way, or get manipulated new generation girls are far more smarter

Lol

When you're like me you'll know they have something to offer.

ONEarrow:
gone are those days,women of this present generation only knows how to ask for money..

Nit true, there are alot of these cool ladies out there

EjaikreTheViper:
rubbish
you talking what do you have to offer?

Truth hurts a lot but it must be told.

I should have asked my EX this same question!