queensmith:

what is akata?

queensmith:

lmao mrs chima you'll be suprised, i was talking to an old school mate who was complaining to me that his (private) university doesnt have any pretty girls 'like the ones in britain or america, the ones on tv'
I was disgusted!

aminalib:

well there are american men who want women that just stepped out of tv also, so that's men, most think wat is on tv is real

aminalib:

i believe people like things that they are not used too or have not tried, basically, there are men who im assuming would run after these women because some may feel they are not as stuck up as african woman, or they are independent and wont ask for their money, or they feel they would be able to get over on them easier than an african women( these are just what i have been told by some african men), at the end of the day its all about the person and how you connect with them.

Mrs.Chima:

Why are you attracted to Jamo, Akata, and Islander sisters?

What does Jamo, Akata, and Islander sisters have that appease your attraction?

Do you see them no different than your fellow African sisters? I would say No. Jamo, Akata, and Islander sisters ancestry started in Africa.

seun0622:

@ poster
The attraction men generally have for Ladies like these are borne out of the fact that they are more open, responsive and expressive about their attraction and se-xuality for guys than some other ladies from some other parts of the world.
Imagine a Nigerian lady that has been brought up with the mentality of never making a move on a guy she passionately feels for, all she does is hope he comes one day, and if he doesn't, she assumes he doesn't feel the same way which might not be true.
IMO and from previous interraction from ladies of these sect. They surely have a way of identifying what they want and subsequently giving a go at it.

Regards

Mrs.Chima:

Do you think the African society of various regions place emphasis on African sisters to be less exhibitive and less aggressive in expression of sexuality?

seun0622:

@ poster
The attraction men generally have for Ladies like these are borne out of the fact that they are more open, responsive and expressive about their attraction and se-xuality for guys than some other ladies from some other parts of the world.
Imagine a Nigerian lady that has been brought up with the mentality of never making a move on a guy she passionately feels for, all she does is hope he comes one day, and if he doesn't, she assumes he doesn't  feel the same way which might not be true.
IMO and from previous interraction from ladies of these sect. They surely have a way of identifying what they want and subsequently giving a go at it.

Regards

Jenifa_:


One thing you should keep in mind is that Nigerian women abroad have very low rate of teenage pregnancy/ single parenthood etc. compared to jamo, akata, islander women and the likes.
and the idea of "baby mama" etc isn't in nigerian woman's vocabulary.

MzD@rkSkin:

Meaning? what does this have to do with them liking or disliking them?

Jenifa_:

did you read the last sentence of my post?

men flirt with women that are more likely to respond better to their advances.
If I know that an akata woman will respond better to my flirting i will ask her out, where as if I know that a naija girl will roll her eyes at me if I try it with her, I will better not go there.
and we all know what the union of a man and a woman leads to: baby lol not necessarily marriage.

seun0622:

The words[b] exhibitive and aggressive[/b] might not be too appropriate in describing the acts , lets rather employ words like [b]expressive and Pro active..

Jenifa_:

you make a good point.

@topic, I don't think they are necessarily "more attracted" to jamo, akata, islander women, white, latino or whatever race etc. Just that these women are "easier" and I don't mean "easy" in a derogatory way. I mean easy as in more openminded and "sexy" I guess. like this poster i'm quoting has said. 

A lot of Nigerian women, from experience, know not to believe most of these guys "toasting" and ignore them. they are just trying to hit and run if you know what I mean. 90% of the time, they will say the same thing to the next girl they meet 
we know these things because we grew up with them and know them inside out. lol

One thing you should keep in mind is that Nigerian women abroad have very low rate of teenage pregnancy/ single parenthood etc. compared to jamo, akata, islander women and the likes.
and the idea of "baby mama" etc isn't in nigerian woman's vocabulary.

I think men are more likely to go for women that will respond better to their advances not women who are likely to turn them down.

aminalib:

chima, where do you get that most of the baby mama are white females and on welfare, from what i have read most of them are blacks, being that black women have the lowest rates of marraige in America,