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Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by adoreyou(m): 8:10am On May 18, 2020 |
A friend of mine who works far away from his family says d wife has been threatening him to resign&come take care of his family.Mind you, he is unable to relocate his family due to finance.I decide to throw d question here because he is at a crossroad. |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by GreatChizzy: 8:15am On May 18, 2020 |
So let's say he resigned, with what resources does the wife expect him to "take care" of the family? He should work towards relocating his family to be with him while he maintains his job. Should he quit that job and return to be with his family; after 3 months of not getting another, that same woman is going to call him; "useless" and "good for nothing man who cant provide for his family". Friends like yourself, should come together and assist him with the needed finance to relocate his family. It is such moments like this, the brotherhood of friendship gets its definition. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by ojun50(m): 8:36am On May 18, 2020 |
Tell him to get an apartment and bring the family close 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Ningen(m): 9:08am On May 18, 2020 |
He is financially handicapped. Sacrificing his job equals sacrificing his family. Let the unsupportive wife resign and go abeg. |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Ybaby: 9:12am On May 18, 2020 |
Is he currently sending money to his family? |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by ForestHill: 9:26am On May 18, 2020 |
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Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Mariangeles(f): 9:32am On May 18, 2020 |
Ybaby: Iyá mi, money is essential but not everything. How about saving up and starting a business or relocating his family? A father's presence in the family is very important. Especially in the lives of his children. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Ybaby: 9:55am On May 18, 2020 |
Mariangeles: He wants to relocate his family from what I read but it is just not possible yet. I presume he is abroad so he cannot help it right now. but if he is not sending money and he is not at home it may be the reason why his wife is clamouring for him to come back and unwilling to wait. I have NEVER said money is everything - however no father , no money - the load becomes to much for a patient wife I will advise him to figure out how to send money home and travel home more often till he is able to relocate him family 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by bukatyne(f): 11:04am On May 18, 2020 |
What does the wife mean by the bold: adoreyou: |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Greatzeus(m): 11:18am On May 18, 2020 |
GreatChizzy:Don't you know typical Nigerian mentality " God will provide" They get married without necessary finance They seek admission without having necessary finance They want to relocate overseas without any known contact or accomodation or job... But you will hear "God will provide" |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Ybaby: 12:04pm On May 18, 2020 |
Mariangeles: I want to get to know you better dear Are you married ? If you are, are you paying your man's bills? I mean you can always say it is none of my business but I am just curious Humour me! |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Mariangeles(f): 12:58pm On May 18, 2020 |
Ybaby: I'm not any of the above maami Boya e fe gba be na mi I believe in supporting your husband, not sharing equally in the responsibility. |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Ybaby: 2:17pm On May 18, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Correct babe!!! equally in the "financial" responsibility How is the eComm going? Have you found a China courier? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Mariangeles(f): 2:26pm On May 18, 2020 |
Ybaby: Yes, I have. Thank you. Although, shipping fee has increased at $12/kg for normal, aside custom's fee. |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by crackland: 2:40pm On May 18, 2020 |
adoreyou:So after he resigns, what will he use to take care of his family? Her lipstick? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:12pm On May 18, 2020 |
adoreyou: He should find a way to relocate the family to where he is, and the sooner the better. While the wife might sound unreasonable in her request, we must agree that it comes from a place of affection. Long distance marriages hardly survive the storms that come at it. Unless wifey doesn't wish to move, then the elders will have to step into this matter. |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by GboyegaD(m): 4:12pm On May 18, 2020 |
He needs to find a way to explain to the wife all he's doing to re-unite the family. If he leaves his job, the wife would leave him if he doesn't get another job to maintain the current family status. |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:14pm On May 18, 2020 |
crackland: Hey, don't say that. Makeup is a profitable venture these days. For example, Kylie Jenners range of Lipsticks can feed a whole family for quite a long time. Sha, don't ask me how much it generates |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by crackland: 4:25pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:What concerns Kylie Jenner with women who can't survive comfortably without a husband's money? |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:32pm On May 18, 2020 |
crackland: I'm just saying that maybe her Lipstick can feed the family. Who knows |
Re: Would You Sacrifice Your Job For Your Family? by crackland: 5:08pm On May 18, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:Na so... |
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