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Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by koolchicco: 9:40pm On Jan 17, 2011
Orton1_0:

MzD pls drag me into 'this'. You should have known me better by now, i've nufin againist you.k?.
This stuff is between RD, 190 and yourself. Just do your fin.

You keep posting twice, why? Are u on ur Aba-made mobile again? angry undecided
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by ragdollz: 9:45pm On Jan 17, 2011
Orton1_0:

MzD pls drag me into 'this'. You should have known me better by now, i've nufin againist you.k?.
This stuff is between RD, 190 and  yourself. Just do your fin.


Thank You for those Golden words, Orton!!! She never understands that one has nothing against her cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy lipsrsealed! Due to her low self-esteem issues, she bites back at anyone she PERCEIVES is not on her side. Why so insecure?? It beats me!! She's cried off with a "I'm bigger than this, have a blessed day", but I bet my bottom kobo she'll be right back later, after she has "reinforced" grin grin grin grin. This shoit would never have reached this level if not for her defensive attitude: we had beef, we settled it. Then I made the "error" of sharing smilies with one NL member who had issues with her. Since then she picked me as an enemy - just as she picked YOU just now.



Why these explanations?? Just to show some folks I'm not the sort to pick empty quarrels. This crap was further aggravated by her so-called "supporters" who decided to back her up by insulting me  undecided tongue. What can I say? It's been TEDIOUS  grin grin grin.  But in the end, my point has been made and she has finally put her EGO to rest!!!!!
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jan 17, 2011
Ok Orton, I understand you 100%. no hard feelings bro. wink
I still love ya. Just next time please check folks out before you give them any props.
Don't salt up your name sweety, you don't deserve that. smiley
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by ragdollz: 9:51pm On Jan 17, 2011
MzD@rkSkin:

You used that line already. You have a good night.  wink IF you are not banned, use your time wisely to reply to threads and at least pretend to be an adult. I have nothing more to say.

You are psychotic and I am above you, I know it hurts but accept it. Not one more peep from me to you again, believe it. I'll let you embarrass yourself to your own ppl. Probably get your backside kicked all of the time. I am not like you I cant fuss fuss fuss, that I ain't me, if I can't punch no need to talk. so I won't. Have a blessed day.



MzD@rkSkin:

Ok Orton, I understand you 100%. no hard feelings bro. wink
I still love ya. Just next time please check folks out before you give them any props.
Don't salt up your name sweety, you don't deserve that. smiley


People, what did I say?? (shakes head) Back with a snide comment stuck in the middle. And I ask you, "check" WHO b4 you give "WHO" props?? Sad thing tongue. Like you're any better than anyone. Orton should be checking YOU before giving you the so-called PROPS.



YUCK!!
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by xandy84: 10:02pm On Jan 17, 2011
when do you intend to find the right guy? 40 yrs, better just look for one mumu and get married to him
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by Jam247(f): 5:48am On Jan 18, 2011
xandy84:

when do you intend to find the right guy? 40 yrs, better just look for one mumu and get married to him

hmmmm if she marries a mumu, what will that make her?? undecided undecided undecided
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by harakiri(m): 10:59am On Jan 18, 2011
@Poster

Considering that you're a lady and with the way our people see women your age as being "bad and irresponsible", i can understand your plight. They make it sound as if you can just walk into walmart and pick a husband of your choice. The married females rub it in your face about your spinsterhood any little chance they get whereas they aren't having it so great in their married lives. Marriage isn't all it's cracked to be. . .i am almost 31 and unmarried but from what i see all around me, i know it's not something i'm keen on getting into anytime soon.

True happiness comes from within. No one can love you as much as you love yourself. No other person can make you happy but yourself. Just DO YOU and leave the world to jabber all they can. Focus on your self improvement and believe me, a good partner will come along before your realize what's happening.

Wish you the best.
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by mrperfect(m): 11:09am On Jan 18, 2011
Stop being over selecting guys, if you are guilt of this so that you get married.
That is my opinion.
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by oludashmi(f): 11:10am On Jan 18, 2011
Focus on your career
create achievements for yourself
improve on your physical appearance every single day. All these things will keep you busy and your mind off your single status. And who knows, someone will get to notice you esp when you have made something of yourself.
In short: work on every aspect of your life, marriage may then come before you know it.

Perfectly said by meadan
In addition, pray and when you are sure/convinced that God has answered you, dont pray about it again, instead thank God all the time cos you know it is done.
Calm your spirit but anytime it occurs to you, smile to yourself and say it is done.

Reduce your standard of the kind of man you want, no man is perfect just as you are not, if you can get 60%, its ok.
As for parents pressurising you, tell them boldly to be calm and wait for your appointed time so that you dont make mistake due to their pressure . . . and for friends, boldly tell them there is a season and time for everyone and when your time is come, you will send them an invite (then they will stop asking you) smiley.
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by FrenchyL(m): 11:10am On Jan 18, 2011
Hello,

do not get married because of the pressure from whoever, Marriage is a lifetime commitment and there is no exit! angry

Settle down and pray about a life partner, one who has the fear of God otherwise you will end up living in hell on earth which means that you would have done better and remained happier if you were single.

Finally, i would advice you to just relax and trust God OK, He is never late. Are you older than Abraham or Sarah grin grin

God bless you!
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by tellwisdom: 11:28am On Jan 18, 2011
Im suspecting that girl in d past, she must be shaye shaye type, looking for MR PERFECT!

Just go to: www.singlesnet.com or www.match.com husband BORKU for there wink smiley
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by harakiri(m): 11:29am On Jan 18, 2011
mrperfect:

Stop being over selecting guys, if you are guilt of this so that you get married.
That is my opinion.

And what those "over selective" imply? That she should just settle for every guy that says "hi" to her all because she doesn't want the world to laugh at her? Even animals such as goats, dogs,lizards and chickens select their mating partners talk-less of human beings. I am sure if you had a grown daughter with a masters degree from Harvard, you wouldn't want her to settle for a handy man or cab driver even if she was over 40 years old. Guys that talk like yourself are the ones who have been rejected by several ladies in the past and choose to take it out on people like the poster.

Abeg, this na 2011.
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by harakiri(m): 11:35am On Jan 18, 2011
tellwisdom:

Im suspecting that girl in d past, she must be shaye shaye type, looking for MR PERFECT!

Just go to: www.singlesnet.com  or www.match.com  husband BORKU for there wink smiley

I don't know if it's just me but if you put your eyes on the ground, you'll see that it's the so called "shaye shaye" type of ladies that are the first to land husbands (the best husbands for that matter). A lot of single ladies out there over 30 are the ones who have been used and dumped by guys who promised them marriage hence you'll see a lady who started dating a guy at the age of 21 being dumped by the guy when she's 28. She starts again at 29 and gets dumped at 34. That's two serious relationships down the drain and over 10 years wasted.

It's a smaller percentage that are the so called "selective type". I don't know why our people just love passing vindictive and vile comments to spite single women. Does it make your johnny add a few inches or increase your bank account balance?
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by tellwisdom: 11:48am On Jan 18, 2011
@harakiri---True talk broda, if you must watch properly, she's not still ready to settle grin grin, still in search of Mr Perfect cheesy cheesy, Goodluck in yoursearch oo(www.singlesnet.com)
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by damipaul(m): 12:43pm On Jan 18, 2011
The truth be told, u need to look at what's kept u unmarried till now. U can't just tell us u've not met Mr Right, u'r over 30 dear. Treat ur short comings and try again.
A store that sells husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:You may visit the store ONLY ONCE !There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch. You may choose any man from a particular floor, or you may choose to go up a floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads:Floor 1 - These men have jobs and love the Lord.The second floor sign reads:Floor 2 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, and love kids.The third floor sign reads:Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, and are extremely good looking.'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and sign reads:Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead good looking and help with the housework.'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!' Still, she goes to the fifth floor and sign reads:Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love the Lord, love kids, are drop-dead gorgeous, help with the housework, and have a strong romantic streak.She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor and the sign reads:Floor 6 - You are visitor 4,363,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. Watch your step as you exit the building, and have a nice day!Please send this to all men for a good laugh and to all the women who can handle the truth!smiley Have a blessed week ahead

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Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by Enoquin(f): 12:48pm On Jan 18, 2011
As Chris Rock said, there's no happiness anywhere,  It's either you are married and bored or you are single and lonely,  Either way don't delude yourself that there's happiness in the other camp,
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by koolchicco: 1:04pm On Jan 18, 2011
Enoquin:

As Chris Rock said, there's no happiness anywhere,  It's either you are married and bored or you are single and lonely,  Either way don't delude yourself that there's happiness in the other camp, 

Nice eyes and quite charming too. Congrats! wink
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by arixreal: 1:11pm On Jan 18, 2011
i too am single searching can you send your pix and your profile to my email, just to check if you are okay by me fidaus777@hotmail.com
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by Abbeypromo: 1:17pm On Jan 18, 2011
don't allow anybody to pressurize,your time will soon come
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by callme2: 1:27pm On Jan 18, 2011
@poster
Who are those that are pressurizing you to get married?
Have they brought a nice and reasonable man to you and you rejected?
Or are you the one to propose to a man?

Do not RUSH INN to please your people then RUSH OUT worn out
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by berth(m): 1:37pm On Jan 18, 2011
Seriously u il nid a change of name, "single life", lolz
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by UyiIredia(m): 1:42pm On Jan 18, 2011
ultimately, it's up to you >>> i'd say you should get busy >>> starup a business or something to keep idleness_and temptation wink_ away
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by fstranger1: 1:51pm On Jan 18, 2011
Listen to this song and everything will be fine:

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Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by sayso: 1:54pm On Jan 18, 2011
@Poster,Marriage they say is a longtime commitment and you have to live happily forever.Please take your time but very soon.Pick the wrong guy,you will be running out as fast as you went in,but the right guy,you will praise God all your days because the right person will show you the beautiful side of a union,the kids will add too that union and you will become younger to your spouse.

Ways to go about it.
Be gentle and mean it.
be a woman,I mean real woman not Oprah type of woman.
Take care of him as a mother when he comes.
Say your mind always and don,t remember them again.
Be supportive not imposing.
Be very close to GOD.The success of the marriage depends on you not the Man.
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by rabs(m): 2:00pm On Jan 18, 2011
Will advise u specially through ur email here is mine rabomok@yahoo.com
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by fstranger1: 2:03pm On Jan 18, 2011
^^^^

Yahoo yahoo

Op: Dont email that mofo ok?
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by hexcraft(m): 2:15pm On Jan 18, 2011
They know too much about you that is why. (cos you virtually told them everything)  

As Africans, we too too much depended life. gosh
What is anybody business that you are not yet married?
Why will it even concern them?
Please live your life the way it pleases you.
Someday, sometime it will be the moment you are waiting for.

NO BE MISTAKE SAY YOU NEVER MARRY, TAKE IT BY FAITH.
SOMEDAY YOU WILL.
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by denitro(m): 2:28pm On Jan 18, 2011
Changing your Nairaland username from singlelife to married life might help
Begin with the end in mind
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by sley4life(m): 2:36pm On Jan 18, 2011
@OP what were u doing with the guys were toasting u. U did as if u dont shi.t. Well wait till u enter 40 b4 u know say cock they crow
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by isalegan2: 2:50pm On Jan 18, 2011
fstranger1:

^^^^

Yahoo yahoo

Op: Dont email that mofo ok?

Aww, Nairaland KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR.  Are you over or under 30?  You don't have to answer that.

Just visiting.  I won't stay.  No worries.  smiley
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by stanbiggi(m): 2:54pm On Jan 18, 2011
Being under pressure is not only for the female forks, same with the guys. i am still under severe pressure frommy family that they are sucking my finance in any little issue that crumps up in the family on the ground that i am not married and, so have no responsibility before lagos girls eat me up!

So my dear, i will tell you the way i am handling my own ordeal, 1. try to  avoid family and friends that make such push, 2. take my time,prayerfull to get a wife and not a girl,  Its well
Re: Help! I'm Above 30 And Under Pressure To Get Married by ragdollz: 3:21pm On Jan 18, 2011
Above 30

Under Pressure


HMMN


These two words have great import.

Well for all the singles out there who are facing pressure, just get yourselves above all that, and put it under your feet grin. There's more to life out there, when you think of pple with bigger problems you will thank your God.

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