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Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by GoldHorse(m): 10:38pm On May 22, 2020 |
You are confused?!!! Really? It means your eyes don dey for the woman body b4 so kuku do what you had wanted to do... Oshisko! |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Liposure: 10:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
sassysure:may the soul of ur dad continue 2 RIPP |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Expresswriter: 10:41pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lionessza6: I concur |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by daddio(m): 10:42pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy: And who knows if she killed her husband in order to have you? 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by mamaafrik(m): 10:44pm On May 22, 2020 |
GerogeI:foreign is inferior ![]() |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by FGonline: 10:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman:hahaha Well is ur opinion |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by mathsoftme(m): 10:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
The truth behind this question of marrying your late Uncle's wife is this, if she marries outside the family, she will loose her husband properties to the husband family once her name is changed and her child might loose closeness to her. The above happens in some culture in Nigeria like Benue, maybe Igbo, etc. So inorder not to be at the loosing side, that's why she is ready to sacrifice herself to the family by requesting of you to give her a child so that she remains a part of the family. Bible wise is not a good way to follow, that's polygamy but culture wise is different, do you chose to believe God or culture? Pray about everything. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Hassan88(m): 10:50pm On May 22, 2020 |
Use Condoms ![]() |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by FGonline: 10:52pm On May 22, 2020 |
clintz:hmmm Powerful |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by DanEmakoji(m): 10:53pm On May 22, 2020 |
Q1: Do you want to go into polygamous marriage and your spouse supports it? If yes... Q2: Does your tradition support someone inheriting his late uncle's wife? If yes... Let her remarry(you). |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by olaodun: 10:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
Sorry for the complex issue , my advice is that focus on your family and if she could not stay with one child let her go and marry outside . Even if the family wants to push it don't pls it will affect your future . The woman has other motives |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by abayomilaws(m): 10:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
femi4: If it were an issue of tithe now, your oOld Testament will be relevant especially the book of Malachi. I love Jesus, but I hate their Christians. My dear, there is nothing wrong or evil in what the woman seeks. The Bible supports it. Your old and New Testament argument is not convincing as regards this matter. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by stcharlesedu: 11:02pm On May 22, 2020 |
Is like some topic in nairaland frontage that has to do with relationship ar now fabricated to get traffic. The topic I hv read alone just this week on frontpage is out of normal, every day an unusual stories will pop up |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by sinola(m): 11:07pm On May 22, 2020 |
Small pikin wey dey dance 'surugede' dance,dont he know that 'surugede' dance na evil dance.. My brother, see, these request comes with agelong consequences. If you finally consent to this request, your own family will never be the same again. Are u ready to damn the consequences ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by AOB1: 11:08pm On May 22, 2020 |
dayorich:Guy you nearly killed me with the response you gave that guy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() My belle wan burst with laugh ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Jimmyld231: 11:12pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:Nothing Wrong in this Mr man it's even in the Bible.I know you want to do it you only need advice. Go ahead Man |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by don4real18(m): 11:14pm On May 22, 2020 |
Mariangeles:As a married man, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it is customary 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by 12inchess: 11:16pm On May 22, 2020 |
DavSagacity:It doesn't appear so. I didn't live in Israel in those times but it seems that it was expected that widows be taken care of and even impregnated if the brother dies. The sin doesn't appear to be that he was committing adultery per se because the husband was dead but that he spilled the seed so she didn't get pregnant. Otherwise the Bible wouldn't have made mention of him spilling the seed but would have emphasized that he slept with his dead brother's wife. That story was always confusing to me but I was told that it was their tradition then and accepted. But it's not accepted in Christianity now I think. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by madjune(m): 11:21pm On May 22, 2020 |
What's the name of this movie? |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 11:28pm On May 22, 2020 |
michlins:she should marry the guy if everyone is ok with it and continue having kids. Or get his sperm but that process is costly than amounting her. No bring bible inside here. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by kurlz(f): 11:30pm On May 22, 2020 |
sircatherine45: Then he should donate sperm to her. If it's only child she wants. Well I think it's better she remarries and have her husband all to herself rather soliciting to be a second wife and scatter someone's home. We are no more in the olden days o things have changed. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by andyanders: 11:39pm On May 22, 2020 |
Op, if you do it secretly, that will destroy your immidiate family. Note that her son is 12 yrs old and is not a kid. Your wife will fight her publically, you and her will never know peace. What I suggest you do is this, if you think she wants to stay in your family, cus of her son, tell her that the elders should be involved to see if any man in the family can agree to accept her. Or, she can get married outside and you can help train her son. Knowing fully well that you are younger and your wife too is younger than her, your wife cannot accommodate her. If you are a muslim, their women are more accommodating than christian women. Have you discussed this with your wife? I advise, never tell her. Women don't keep secret as she might confront the woman and start calling her names and too, start suspecting you. Unless your wife wants you to wife her and as an Igbo woman, katakata will surely bust one day. Or she has started fvcking and is allready pregnant and want to hang it on you. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Unrated900(m): 11:43pm On May 22, 2020 |
You coming here to report to us shows that you are seriously interested Simple capital letter No to her would safe us more comment here. Remember all that glitters isn’t Gold. 1 Like |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Okoroawusa: 11:44pm On May 22, 2020 |
sassysure:I don't know what you mean by constitution. In Igbo culture there's nothing like umunna constitution. It's not a town or village meeting. Igbo culture is Igbo culture with changes n adjustments from place to place. Also modernization is putting pressure on some of this cultural practices. Have I seen it before? Yes. My maternal uncle married his dead brother's wife even though he was already married. That's known as "ikuchi nwanyi" in Igbo culture. He gave birth to about 5 children on behalf of his dead brother n the children inherited his dead brother's properties. My paternal grandfather fathered kids for some windows in my village. It's a common knowledge but it's not a topic for discussion because those women will not tell you who got them pregnant. You can only speculate. That was the age of fear n courtesy. These days some widows just adopt after husband's death. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Goliogo: 11:46pm On May 22, 2020 |
Please do not give in to her demands because it will come back to bite you in the future. I also suggest you always go to see her in company of your wife to avoid her manipulating you with tears and before you know it ,you are hooked. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by enemyofprogress: 11:48pm On May 22, 2020 |
tunary:how you did you know my area of specialization? I help girls especially widows to weed and plant on their farms. Women especially widows deserve to be happy. I also help sad and lonely married women. Thanks for your recognition and recommendation. Please always remember me 24/7 for me to continue the good work. Ajepako and vickyrotex if una no recognise me some other people go recognise me. Prophet has no onion in his home town. Shioioor! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Dorlarphor10: 11:49pm On May 22, 2020 |
[quote author=abayomilaws post=89855071] If it were an issue of tithe now, your oOld Testament will be relevant especially the book of Malachi. I love Jesus, but I hate their Christians. My dear, there is nothing wrong or evil in what the woman seeks. The Bible supports it. Your old and New Testament argument is not convincing as regards this matter. [/quote Tithing is not a new testament thing, We are to give generously, God loves a cheerful giver not grudgingly or under compulsion. Did Early Christians in new testament pay tithe? So since you have not been paying tithe, you are cursed abi. Abi you don't increase Learn about New Creation Realities bro |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by Nobody: 11:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
Lionessza6:that's it. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by enemyofprogress: 11:54pm On May 22, 2020 |
Modesthy:abeg do the thing jo. Help your uncle to finish what he started. A cousin in need is a cousin indeed. I wonder why me I no dey get this kind lock. Ajepako and vickyrotex if una get this kind contract abeg make una call my number 07055559900. That's my direct line, only dominique has it, please don't give it to anyone especially mynd44. |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by fortunechy(m): 11:57pm On May 22, 2020 |
And u fink this is the right platform for such advice....?? Go to ur spiritual father or ur village elders |
Re: My Dead Uncle's Wife Needs Children From Me by stchinedu: 11:59pm On May 22, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman: You said it all...God bless you. |
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