Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Vyolet(f): 4:33am On May 23, 2020 |
Who is an entitled man? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by jericco1(m): 4:36am On May 23, 2020 |
Don't marry a man that doesn't love you more than the way you love him 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by igbowoman: 4:36am On May 23, 2020 |
Snaagg: Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.
Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness
Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!
Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados. It's actually an indictment on men.When u are still at your mama's houses at 33 dragging plate of beans na who go marry the girls? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:38am On May 23, 2020 |
igbowoman: The worst of all is an insecure man especially a short ugly insecure man without money. I agree as a man. A man without money is a monkey. Brothers, hustle o. No turn into monkey instead turn these women into monkey 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by anambraamaka: 4:39am On May 23, 2020 |
Osi No Gini? |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by consultancy: 4:39am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! Elder, You have spoken well 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:39am On May 23, 2020 |
Snaagg: Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.
Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness
Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!
Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by NaijaRoyalty(m): 4:39am On May 23, 2020 |
Short women and their problems
Nonsense 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:41am On May 23, 2020 |
You mean, " Never settle for a rich man "? 3 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Timohstew(m): 4:41am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! Thank you sir, this piece is really helpful God bless you sir! 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by igbowoman: 4:41am On May 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:42am On May 23, 2020 |
Snaagg: Nobody's is forcing you into marriage in the first place.
Afterall it's your gender that cry yourselves to sleep every night, embarking on intense fasting and prayer for husbands + joining Facebook groups to encourage each other in your singleness/loneliness
Then you start giving boyfriends ultimatum on when they must propose to you. Hahahhaha!
Na only for Nairaland una get liver. Desperados. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Vulcan24(m): 4:42am On May 23, 2020 |
you will write grammar and confuse confusion and marriage
everything in marriage is by mutual entitlement !!! if u wan speak grammar
by the way how many years experience do u av in marriage, are u even dating a serious guy b4 we ask if u married !! 5 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by fasho01(m): 4:43am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
Thank you for this balanced response. You have done justice to the topic.. Case closed! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by styless(f): 4:45am On May 23, 2020 |
women act entitled too. Yea we do. Insecure men are the worst. They can even resort to violence. 1 Like |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Vulcan24(m): 4:46am On May 23, 2020 |
Lexusgs430:
You enter trap be that .......
Most especially men that still have crude mentalities and mostly avoid those that would attempt to use bible passages, to subdue their wives........
marriage researcher have u published ur findings |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Kazeemakeem(m): 4:46am On May 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Kingarthur21: 4:46am On May 23, 2020 |
I have long concluded those with counter threads suffer from a low esteem or the previous thread they decided to counter hit a sore spot.
Lol
After all the noise both en and women will log out to date or marry those who they create threads against. Their relevance ends online. I know many people from this forum that their spouses are worse off than those they advocated against.
My rule is simple,opt for the best for yourself,don't feel guilty. The world is not fair,don't be fair.
If you are a goldigger,wear it proudly on your head ,don't let any one guilt trip you for it. Eat and enjoy his money.
As a man if you are player,you have got my back,play very well,enjoy free vagina! In fact make her wash and cook for you all for free 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Americanboy35: 4:47am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! so apt sir, God bless you sir!! 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Lexusgs430: 4:48am On May 23, 2020 |
Vulcan24:
marriage researcher
have u published ur findings I don't have to, human species like you have presented us enough research materials...... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:49am On May 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by LivingSage: 4:50am On May 23, 2020 |
Counter thread! I'm in love with this thread You nailed it OP |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by JustforMen: 4:54am On May 23, 2020 |
igbowoman: The worst of all is an insecure man especially a short ugly insecure man without money. Are you already feeling 'entitled' to a man's money on this same thread again? Haba... unentitled woman! 60 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by saladinnoir: 4:55am On May 23, 2020 |
Who exactly is in charge of affairs on this site, just look at what's getting pushed to fp 4 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:56am On May 23, 2020 |
Kingarthur21: I have long concluded those with counter threads suffer from a low esteem or the previous thread they decided to counter hit a sore spot.
Lol
After all the noise both en and women will log out to date or marry those who they create threads against. Their relevance ends online. I know many people from this forum that their spouses are worse off than those they advocated against.
My rule is simple,opt for the best for yourself,don't feel guilty. The world is not fair,don't be fair.
If you are a goldigger,wear it proudly on your head ,don't let any one guilt trip you for it. Eat and enjoy his money.
As a man if you are player,you have got my back,play very well,enjoy free vagina! Intact make her wash and cook for you all for free That's how we roll 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:57am On May 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by vengedre(m): 4:57am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! Omo peeps get strength sha o 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Vulcan24(m): 4:58am On May 23, 2020 |
Lexusgs430:
I don't have to, human species like you have presented us enough research materials...... writing rubbish unconfirmed and baseless opinion just because of ur bitter experience you are adding fuel to d faya day will burn u 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Dande55: 4:58am On May 23, 2020 |
Marriage these days sef. If not that my man is everything you can ask for in a man, I would have forfeited the idea of marriage. Seeing how lazy, entitled and mentally immature most men are. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by freedomchild: 4:59am On May 23, 2020 |
KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.
The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".
But that is the truth!
Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos. Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.
So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.
When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.
So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.
I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.
But in today's world, so many things have changed.
Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.
Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.
So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".
We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.
Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.
Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.
I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.
Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!
We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.
As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.
The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.
I am tired of typing.
To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.
In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.
Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.
They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.
Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;
1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).
2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).
3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).
4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".
5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.
This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?
This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.
When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!
Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.
Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.
According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".
In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.
Cheers! I feel like liking this post a thousand times. You said it all. Since my graduation from pharmacy school, I select the kind of girl I mingle with. And average Nigerian lady has this kinda mindset of a man giving them all by default. Relationship should be mutual, it shouldn't be parasitic. 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Nobody: 4:59am On May 23, 2020 |
Alero3Arubi: The biggest mistake would be to marry at all. The biggest mistake would be to not marry at all. The biggest mistake would bw to do as others are doing. Just do what works for you. But lucky is the one who was never born. yeaaa i read that in Ecclsiastical but i still think life is a great experience. 2 Likes |
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by larryking540: 5:01am On May 23, 2020 |
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