It all started with my first girlfriend I dated around 2018. She's was a very pretty lady and really sexy too, she has an incredible body and whenever we meet and get romantic I get aroused. She was a virgin and so was I too. The romance was OK till we finally decided to do the do. It was on a Val day so we lodged in a hotel and to my surprise I couldn't just get hard. She tried so much to tease me but it just didn't work and I felt so embarrassed and of cos I knew she felt bad too cos she really wanted me to do it. So after many attempts to no avail, we got up and dressed, after dressing, I kissed her and hugged her from behind and gave her neck bites and fiaaammm... My d*ck started rising but time was up already so we had to leave..

Av been a virgin since then till dis year wen a friend of mine visited and one thing led to anoda nd we had sex, my very first sex. My main girlfriend I started dating recently now came around and the exact thing that happened with my first girl happened again. She understood and told me that she'll come again next time but guys av been restless. I don't know if there's anybody that has been tru this,I need help guys. Does it have to do with me? Is it anxiety? Or is it a problem I should treat? I can't say it's an infection cos av not been sexually active and I don't want to start taking drugs to boost my libido cos I know am OK....

So pls guys I need advice, I call on the great elders of nairaland. What is the cause of this, what should I do or stop doing? Meanwhile am 22yrs old fr those thinking am a kid. Matured minds pls.

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Is you gf an Igbo??

Performance anxiety, shit happens to everyone bro... Don't do drugs at all for it.

You are a young G...

Don't think about your dick when u want to make out bro.. Take ur mind totally off from it.

Do you musturbate ? Regularly and u get hard erections ?

Stay away from fornication!

BigTableShaker:
Is you gf an Igbo??

Yea

Anyahuruagu:
Performance anxiety, shit happens to everyone bro... Don't do drugs at all for it.

You are a young G...

Don't think about your dick when u want to make out bro.. Take ur mind totally off from it.

Do you musturbate ? Regularly and u get hard erections ?

Yea... But I stopped because I stated thinking its d reason

Danny110:
Yea

ohhh I see.

The bitter truth is that you have a spirit wife and she is very jealous,be prayerful man,some could even kill the gal and hinder u from getting married find out and thank me later.

You dick too dey get curfew?

Mr danny110,i recomend you buy lasticle from ilegend,you wont regret it as you see changes in ur sex life.

Anxiety.

#NRAA.