Grandmeister:

Everything is not for public consumption either! What is this recent craze for validity on social media? Were do you lots draw the line between privacy and public exposure? A girl posts her nude on a social platform and then wonder why she was 'bodyshamed' or called names..what moral justification do you have to accuse the public when you made the most private things about you PUBLIC?

Do you realize that people share posts without the consent of the writer /poster. What if her Facebook page is just made up of her family and friends

Tripodent:
I want to believe that she must have discussed with her twins about how they would feel if she came on SM to tell her story. And she probably got thier okay to go ahead, knowing that some people will be vicious in their comments!

Knowing women (and in this case a mother) if she really wants to do it she will find a way to prevail on her kids.

SweetCunt97:
You chill.

I am glad we agree.

DaRuud:

Ned Nwoko get money oooh

He meant his looks, similar to an Agama's

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

wallahi u be mad man

invectives:
Not related But met dem bois 9 yrs ago.

i see

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

That is why I keep telling guys to stay away from modern women, most of them lack simple wisdom. They are overtly sensitive to small issues, can turn a little misunderstanding into a brawl and are quick to do things without thinking of the after effects

angelfallz:


She did it to show victims of rape, that being raped is not the end of the world.
She did it to show that children born of rape are not demons
she did it to show that forgiveness and moving on is one of the best ways to overcome evil.

The fact that you people read it and came to the conclusion that it was unnecessary for her to tell her story is mind boggling.
I believe victims of rape male or female, who have read her story would be inspired to forgive their rapists, put what happened behind them and strive to achieve a better life just like her.

You guys just don't get it! I know there are ugly family or personal secrets about you( and so do I) how many of them have you posted on social media? I will NEVER put the physical or mental safety of my kids on social media in order to 'encourage' other people.

kiddkash:
everyone wants a sad story so that people will rally behind them and say well done.
i'm not saying she is telling lies.
just like rappers saying they came from the gutter. while they really went to private schools
and their parents have a really good marriage.

there is no such thing as half way crook

I agree with you, truth is that it was her parents that helped her. There's no one with good parents that won't be successful no matter the number of rapes and pregnancy. There's even one in my Street right now, she currently has 4 children, got pregnant 6times, 2children are dead. But her mother did not relent, and made sure she has an NCE and a degree. Meanwhile, we have another in my Street, with two pregnancy and she wasn't even able to finish the Jss3. They both got pregnant around the same time, and shes even more brilliant that the other girl but no good parents. I watch both of them walk across the street daily, and sometimes, I usually feel like crying for the other girl who couldn't finish JSS3.

Those are the kind if people I really want to help, and they are the kind of people I want to read their stories one day in Nigeria. Because they are the truthful ones from the gutter.
If you share the same with me, kindly quote me please

femi4:
Black pots do produce white pap

...but black pots don't make noise about it.

She is not only shaming their dad but also shaming those young boys.

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

My thoughts too

Futurejoy:

Do you realize that people share posts without the consent of the writer /poster. What if her Facebook page is just made up of her family and friends

Then that is a different matter and there are legal ways to address such invasion of one's privacy! But exposing somethings about yourself to garner media likes or thumbs-up is just infantile (in my opinion)..because the reality of life is 'nobody really gives a fvck' especially not on social media..is it then worth the privacy of my kids?

meobizy:
At 36 she’s still a baby herself. When she gets wiser she’ll undo the message. My only pain is like most Naija women she let herself get fat. I don’t know if the average Nigerian female above 34 years of age is cursed with fat genes.

You will never know becos you are not a woman . Do you know what it means to carry a pregnancy for nine months and having to battle with homones as a result of child birth ? All you men know how to do is criticize women without any care in the world . If you were told to carry 10% of the problems married women do shoulder on a daily basis, I don't event think you even live well without going into deep depression.

The father most be handsome.

She can still tell her story without involving those boys; it's not necessary, except, maybe she's trying to get a message across to the hyena.

Those boys aren't products of rape; they are products of sex. The rape happened between her and her boss, not between her and the boys.

However, if the broadcasting is their collective choice and not the mother's alone; I hope they 3njoy the emotional fame while it last.

Someone should call the rapist please, in case the woman forgot to mention something.

We can't be too sure.

Respect to all caring mothers.

ValCon888:
This is not to condone rape, but she probably kept the pregnancy because the rapist was a fine guy.

I don't think she'd have kept it if it was a guy that looked like Ned Nwoko.

hahaha

she is a dirty olosho looking for more dicks. and dcks she will have

omoharry:
You will never know becos you are not a woman . Do you know what it means to carry a pregnancy for nine months and having to battle with homones as a result of child birth ? All you men know how to do is criticize women without any care in the world . If you were told to carry 10% of the problems married women do shoulder on a daily basis, I don't event think you even live well without going into deep depression.

Give it a break! I've seen men raise their kids alone (and well )after their mother passed on in their childhood...humans are wired to adapt and survive no matter what!

correctkidabc:
"21 Years Ago I Was Raped And I Gave Birth To Twins, Now They’ve Grown”

A Lady idebtified as Mmanti Umoh took to twitter to reveal how she was brutally raped at 15 and how that sad incident led to the birth of cherished twins boys.




https://mobile.twitter.com/MmantiUmoh/status/1264335333031915522

na God go ponish this twins father for raping their mother

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

My thoughts exactly. Some people are too quick to talk.

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

Hopefully the boys would have been trained and have their confidence bolstered to say, “so what?” at such comments. God was intentional about their conception and intentional about their living and purpose. That’s all they need to acknowledge everyday.

She could have avoided this by going to the hospital....at least they would have given her something to prevent the pregnancy...apart from pregnancy sef...how about STIs....

Righteousness89:
Wow!
Madam ,You are a Great Inspiration to other ladies !

We pray they take a clue from you

Instead of Wasting those lovely kids through Abortion, She kept them! And here they are!

I Praise GOD for you Ma!

2 Wrongs will never ever Make a Right!

GOD BLESS you and the Boys!

Grandmeister:
You guys just don't get it! I know there are ugly family or personal secrets about you( and so do I) how many of them have you posted on social media? I will NEVER put the physical or mental safety of my kids on social media in order to 'encourage' other people.

Word!
You're a genius bro.
Some things are utterly unnecessary and oftentimes counterproductive.

Davash222:

That woman would have shut her mouth cos of comments like this. She didn't consider the boys before opening up to something like this online.

And you think they don't know the truth already? Leave matter my dear..... Life has passed that stage.

its well

We do anything on social media now!


It's a free world mehn! Internet u can remember as long as u want! Who cares!?

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mira4u:


My thoughts exactly. Some people are too quick to talk.

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Why tell d world that those fineboys were bastards,a produce of unknown wild seeds,it is not all secret we must leak out.somethings shld b bygone. ...but which kind rapist come carry double barrel as gun?

Grandmeister:

You guys just don't get it! I know there are ugly family or personal secrets about you( and so do I) how many of them have you posted on social media? I will NEVER put the physical or mental safety of my kids on social media in order to 'encourage' other people.

first things first, you may not be the type to put your family secrets/problems online for whatever reason, i am also like that. but we are not all the same, there are some family things that shouldn't be placed online, eg my wife's cooking is not good, what should i do? my husband is a 2 minute man what should i do? etc

secondly, is it not possible that she told her children that she would be posting online the circumstances surrounding their birth, and the children agreed to it? Remember, her children are in their twenties.

Tonnyray:
Word!
You're a genius bro.
Some things are utterly unnecessary and oftentimes counterproductive.

Modernism comes with certain 'dilution of wisdom'...those boys maybe cool with it right now(after all their mother prevailed upon them to go public with it all)..but down the line this kind of things might generate some unforseen backlash that in the end wasn't worth the social media 'hailing'....

Ijebulogic:
How does this information help these fine young men? It didn't need to be broadcast on social media

My brother, sometimes stories like this need to be broadcasted. Do you know how many raped girls on Nairaland alone this story would have helped today or delivered their minds from the thoughts of suicide!?? Now think of her entire audience on the internet generally. Damn cyber bullying fools!! I am sure she doesn't care about their opinions.