kalex0:

You see that you don't have a point.

Stop being a liability and stop all this entitled mentality.
The earlier, the better.

Nah ur type dey use the word "stingy " on any guy that refuse to spend anyhow

Goodnight

Acidosis:



This is cr.azy. How do you girls even ask a struggling guy for money? The right thing to have done was to stop feeding him while serving. What you guys collect as allowance is too little to spread around, C'mon!

BTW, If I'm dating you and you have to remind me of your birthday because of what you will get, I will instantly delete your number and wipe you off my memory.

I won't forget your birthday though, but pleaseee don't remind me. It's just another day and I won't kill myself because you need fun or gift. Birthdays will ALWAYS be the least of my worries, regardless of what my acct balance says.

kalex0:


Let me try and school you before I go to bed

Let me ask u some questions


What's your definition of a stingy man

Just because I'm trying to pass an important message, u just concluded that I'm broke and jobless

All these girls will never stop to amaze me

Drfernandez:


He was right. Actually, I wonder what you are feeling like. You really exposed your ignorance that day. And there is even a grammatical error in this your reply here, that you cannot see it shows your level of ignorance.

Ningen:


Tell us; How much did you send to him on his own birthday? — Or that didn't cross your mind?

I am genuinely pleased you broke up with him.
Man gotta wake up and plan with no liability.

You did yourself a good thing too.
But the pleasure is HIS.

Ningen:


Tell us; How much did you send to him on his own birthday? — Or that didn't cross your mind?

I am genuinely pleased you broke up with him.
Man gotta wake up and plan with no liability.

You did yourself a good thing too.
But the pleasure is HIS.

kalex0:


Y are u now advising her to break up with her BF instead of u motivating her to stop being a leech

Ablyz:
[b][/b]he’s telling
me he spent all he’s money for
he’s birthday , that if money
cms he will send but right
now he has no money

naija babes and money dey be 5 and 6
ontop birthday matter

Stefenijoan002:
told you before you didn't read rather u jumped into comment .did u read the part where she said she has broke up with the guy ?or did u see me impose on her to break up with him .beside if something is not giving you peace of mind like you want it !won't you leave it instead of keeping ur self there.I only told her she did what was right coz that was the best thing to do to have peace .or I should have told her to remain there !if really u were a nice senseable person you won't have label women as liabilities.

Stefenijoan002:
actually u should be ashamed of yourself coz is your mate that are spending on their babes n you won't hear fim from them that they're doing such .rather you come here to rant liability .don't you know as you're now you're a liability yourself or no one has told you !go n hustle so u don't go n spend on ur babe n go back home to calculate how you spent n label her as liability . from ur write I sensed u aren't OK at all .

Stefenijoan002:
actually u should be ashamed of yourself coz is your mate that are spending on their babes n you won't hear fim from them that they're doing such .rather you come here to rant liability .don't you know as you're now you're a liability yourself or no one has told you !go n hustle so u don't go n spend on ur babe n go back home to calculate how you spent n label her as liability . from ur write I sensed u aren't OK at all .

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

kalex0:

Nonsense talk When it comes to money, all you girls talk abt is ur stinking pussy.
STD...
So the guy is not prone to those right??

Nah baby mama I go still get las las

Ruggedniggaone:
rubbish!!! what do you even have to offer in a relationship except your smelly pvssy? what did you give him when he celebrated his birthday despite the fact that you are working? I guess nothing. and you expect him to spend his life on you,where do u expect him to get that money? you haven't told us what is paining you because the issue of he doesn't want to teach or work wouldn't have come up had it been he gave you money which you don't know it source and you will not even care to ask all that is matter to you is money for your birthday,I bet if you are dating yahoo boy you will not complain as long as money is coming in.

StrongandMighty:


You're an idiot. I'm very sure that when I did my NYSC you were still in primary school..

Shormiey:

You need to listen to the other side of the story before judging ....the girl might not be giving first hand information and the girl might be the nagging type.....I will need to listen to both party before I make my final verdict

Geemario:
But some guys are not trying at all. Some are practically stingy as the girl said, I've seen one before

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

Homguy:
I am a man, and i strongly feel you deserve better than this dude. I have never been with a woman i wont spend on and even when i am broke, they always know if i have i would give.
That said, try to look for some ambition in any man you intend going into a relationship with, its not gold-digging, its been smart

chuksoyo21:

U just need a justification to Port to your new crush... Go ahead, u need nobody's permission...