MrBrownJay1:
focus on your new child and family, live your life the best you can and stop bothering yourself with what others think of you. you certainly cant force someone to love you.

Abi,thank God the safe delivery! Every other thing no matter,just find way wave the matter commot for your mind. She no get problem if na father in law but if na mother in law,I for tell am say make she worry o because nobody go gree settle the matter.

ethicallyright:
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You bloody liar and hypocrite. You have no morality to call the name of almighty God.

You are advising a woman whose husband obviously care but you support openly Do.nald TR.ump who cheated with an IndecentStar while his wife was nursing his little baby.

If you want to preach leave politics. I was disappointed that you preach Christ and still say that it's right for a President to order for his people to be shot at sight.
Stop spamming Nairaland please. Stick to politics!

You are the real hypocrite here.... Accusations without proof BTW Trump never say anything bad , why will the protesters turn to looters.

P.s
I don't like the way he's spamming threads.

princessRachael:
No I have never been rude to him before now we have been very close friends. He even calls me more frequently than I do. The more reason I am bothered.
I don't knknow whether I should call to know why or I should tell my husband about this.

You haven't even discussed it with you hubby and here you are on nairaland. That's bad. Talk it over with your husband and probably call ur father in-law an tell him junior (the babys name) wants to say hi to him. We must not really get angry over everything sometimes just a little wisdom

people born babies every blessed day, I don't think is a big deal. the question should be, did anyone pay your bride price or you just gave birth as usual. find out the reason why your in-law is angry with you, or maybe you offended village people.

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

Did you give birth to a baby girl... Are they Igbos

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

Just like that? May I ask what happened between you and the family before you gave birth?

adontcare:
Same with me but it was mother inlaw and children. They did not expect I will bear a son. They were already rooting for another wife. But as God may have it, he was a boy. They didn't care and I didn't bother. When we traveled home for father in-law burial, mother inlaw thought nobody was looking and hit my son( 1yr4month old) on d head. He cried and had fever. I saw her but I did not tell anyone to avoid another family issues. But God will fight for my son.

Don't step your foot in that village till further notice

DominusPrime:
You cant just tell us this and expect us to know what you are to do. A lot must have happened for this to occur. Maybe you were rude to him, maybe he didn't like you, maybe he's a wicked man, maybe you are the wicked one etc...even if you tell your side, we still have to hear from both sides

Last last we go settle the matter

YOUR in Law is not happy with the arrival of the new born baby

We are coming to settle the matter.

ethicallyright:
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You bloody liar and hypocrite. You have no morality to call the name of almighty God.

You are advising a woman whose husband obviously care but you support openly Do.nald TR.ump who cheated with an IndecentStar while his wife was nursing his little baby.

If you want to preach leave politics. I was disappointed that you preach Christ and still say that it's right for a President to order for his people to be shot at sight.
Stop spamming Nairaland please. Stick to politics!

Oga if you have nothing reasonable to post just off your data, must you post nonsense online?

TrollPolice001:

Who ask you??
I know women like you because you feel you've given birth to a son the whole world should bow at your feet.
Who knows if the woman was reprimanding your son for being naughty you termed it another thing.
God help men

The way some of you men are so judgemental on women is sick and stupid. The lady only shared a similar experience with the op and you weren't okay with it you could have just shut up.

My dear Sister, put a call through to him and greet him and ask him why he has not call and ask for forgiveness if he says you have offended him. Regards

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

Don't do anything focus on your child and your home its just one of those things in marriage.

Don't take it too personal.

TrollPolice001:

I'm not even trolling her, look at the condescending way she treats her husband's family.

You see nothing wrong with the way she was treated?
You're cold and wicked!

What's really going on between you and your Father in-law
Is he in support of you getting married to his son in the first place ?
You need to speak up if you want a candid advice


Peace out.

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

will we like to hear from your father in-law first.

adontcare:
even at that, it is wrong to transfer hatred to an innocent child cos u had issues with d parents. Nobody is painting anyone bad here. If u see an act that shows wickedness, u should know. Whether what u think am glorified thru my moniker, still I don't care

Stop answering strangers on here.
They're not in your shoes and cannot know what you're going through.
If you feel someone's action is wicked towards your child, you're allowed to feel that way.
All those shouting will have instant red eyes like someone smoking weed if anyone should knock their children on the head.

lawrenzooo:

You haven't even discussed it with you hubby and here you are on nairaland. That's bad. Talk it over with your husband and probably call ur father in-law an tell him junior (the babys name) wants to say hi to him. We must not really get angry over everything sometimes just a little wisdom

.... Exactly the question I asked one foolish guy supporting her. She rushed here to complain instead of discussing the issue with her husband.She didn't even enquire if the said old man is ok.I think she is just poised for war.

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

Let him go and Bleep himself

Keep thanking God for safe delivery

Keep away frm him as much as possible

The first question is Are u legally married to their son?

Focus on positives. When your husband called to tell them, they prayed for all of you and congratulated him.




If you do naming they will overgreet u.

ethicallyright:
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You bloody liar and hypocrite. You have no morality to call the name of almighty God.

You are advising a woman whose husband obviously care but you support openly Do.nald TR.ump who cheated with an IndecentStar while his wife was nursing his little baby.

If you want to preach leave politics. I was disappointed that you preach Christ and still say that it's right for a President to order for his people to be shot at sight.
Stop spamming Nairaland please. Stick to politics!

Trump supporters are hypocrites. Many may even have personality issues that attract them to bigots, megalomaniacs, dictators and such people. If you check most will also support conspiracy theories. Lovers of Kim Jung-un and Vlad Putin.

Those are the type of people. And all are basically right wing masquerading as Christians. Like those holding Bible in one hand and hanging freedom-seeking slaves with another. Back in the days. Blacks among them are usually self-loathers. They hate being black inwardly.

Subconsciously anything that will harm fellow blacks, they'll support it. Never mind if they wear Buba/Soro,/Isiagwu/walking stick or native beads and hats and form proud Igbo/Yoruba/Benin/Tiv/Izon/Berom or whatever.

ethicallyright:
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You bloody liar and hypocrite. You have no morality to call the name of almighty God.

You are advising a woman whose husband obviously care but you support openly Do.nald TR.ump who cheated with an IndecentStar while his wife was nursing his little baby.

If you want to preach leave politics. I was disappointed that you preach Christ and still say that it's right for a President to order for his people to be shot at sight.
Stop spamming Nairaland please. Stick to politics!

My friend shut the f*ck up, people have a right to support whomever they choose, even Christ defended a prostitute so what's your problem?

Focus on your new born baby and appreciate God for those who have called you. Spend less energy on those that haven't called or don't give a damn about you.

Call the old man and politely tell him that you are calling to inform him that you have delivered, you have a feeling that he hasn't heard about it

princessRachael:
No I have never been rude to him before now we have been very close friends. He even calls me more frequently than I do. The more reason I am bothered.
I don't knknow whether I should call to know why or I should tell my husband about this.

TrollPolice001:

remember a barren woman is no different from a woman with one child.

Meaning you’re no different from someone who wasn’t born at all. Seeing as you’re only one person and there’s no difference between zero and one.

princessRachael:
Help me am loosing my mind. I hhave put to bed for over 3 weeks and my father inlaw has not called me to even congratulate me. What should i do?

E be like say you serious but this post dey do me like say you no serious.

Gloriagee:
He definitely will and dont give anyone access to hurt your kid again. I'm literally boiling on your behalf.

You need to hear both sides to know exactly what's up with the lady and her mother in law. She could just be rude and disrespectful to her mother in law. It's a common situation in our society.

JONNYSPUTE:
...But she has not asked the husband if he has called before complaining. And for her not to do that first and rushed here to paint the old man bad is a red flag.

It's been 3 weeks she had a newborn baby in this family.
She should be worried her child's grandfather hasn't called her to congratulate her and find out how she is doing. Many women have died in labour or not long after delivery. Some women have gone mad after birth. This old man knows all these things as he must have seen many examples of such sad cases.
So for him not to show any concern after the birth of his grandchild is strange
That's not normal, and even if she is a saucy daughter in law, an elderly man should always act as one. There are many privileges in that position nature has bestowed upon him
The house always falls apart when such people have the headship (olori ebi) positions in their families.

DominusPrime:
You cant just tell us this and expect us to know what you are to do. A lot must have happened for this to occur. Maybe you were rude to him, maybe he didn't like you, maybe he's a wicked man, maybe you are the wicked one etc...even if you tell your side, we still have to hear from both sides

whoever you, you have sense

Tenkiu

All the correct descriptions.

AreaFada2:

Trump supporters are hypocrites. Many may even have personality issues that attract them to bigots, megalomaniacs, dictators and such people. If you check most will also support conspiracy theories. Lovers of Kim Jung-un and Vlad Putin.

Those are the type of people. And all are basically right wing masquerading as Christians. Like those holding Bible in one hand and hanging freedom-seeking slaves with another. Back in the days. Blacks among them are usually self-loathers. They hate being black inwardly.

Subconsciously anything that will harm fellow blacks, they'll support it. Never mind if they wereBuba/Soro,/Isiagwu/walking stick or native beads and hats and form proud Igbo/Yoruba/Benin/Tiv/Izon/Berom or whatever.