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Before You Fall In Love, Read This. by Allsingles: 6:29pm On May 29, 2020
Marriage or relationship is something that needs to be careful before going into it but unfortunately so many young people today are mistaken it for something else.

Before you fall in love, you have to read this. You must be prepared so nobody will dump you like fairly used materials that don't have values for life again.

1) POOR BEGINNING.
The foundation made for a relationship will determine how far it will go if it would last forever. The right foundation here is all about surrendering everything to God. Letting God be in charge and supervising everything. Letting God be at the center of your marriage or relationship. Making sure God is glorified in everything you do in your relationship. As adequately It is expected that both of you have the true insight into why you are together (in the case dating).

Most marriages failed because one of the couples failed to pray more for their marriage and concentrate on their battles rather on the satisfaction of things like weddings.

Always pray to God; He’s the solution and provider of everything. Nothing can fail with Him. So put your relationship into the hands of Almighty God whether you are in good or bad terms with your partner. If you have doubts that your partner may be cheating on you, pray to God to watch over him or her or better arrest him or her for you. If there are other troubles like a financial challenge, viral ailments, and other in-differences just hand them over to God and He will deal with them for you.

2) ABSENT OF EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.
Communication here doesn't necessarily mean phone calls or text messages. Communication here represents how you associate with your partner. This matters a lot because communication is a great key to understanding.

Body language, romantic interest, and intimacy mood should also be well expressed. Your wife needs to know when you are in the mood for bedroom enjoyment. She's your wife, not your slave but proper communication in this viewpoint will preserve accepted respect.

Now, How do you communicate with your spouse when he or she is upset? How do you communicate with him or her when you are in a stale or overwhelmed mood? Evaluate this and improve where necessary.

3) LACK OF TRUST BETWEEN THE BOTH OF YOU.
Trust is the key and life wire of every successful relationship or marriage. You should be able to believe your partner in every circumstance. Once you both can share the same trust, faith, happiness, and peace, love flows and you both have little to fear for. Devoid of trust, bitterness, and fights step in and these are the factors that can destroy a relationship or marriage easily.

One thing you should also realize is that trust is earned, not commanded or recommended. Do the right things which will assure your partner that you can stay faithful to him or her and that you are also competent in assessing and handling intricate situations.

Give your spouse some privacy; Avoid testing each on everything he or she does, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner, don’t think of always accessing their phone. Seriously you found your lover with friends; he or she has to keep in touch with them. It’s you that she chose out of a million men that approached her. She loves you. You are the one she chose despite millions of girls, you have to trust each other.

4) GRUDGES, AND UNFORGIVEN SPIRIT.
Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time there's disagreement. Forgiveness brings lasting renewing to marriages and relationships. Remember confiding your partner that you have forgiven but ...https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2020/05/before-you-fall-in-love-read-this-so.html?m=1
Re: Before You Fall In Love, Read This. by AngelicDamsel(f): 6:32pm On May 29, 2020
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Re: Before You Fall In Love, Read This. by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:00pm On May 29, 2020
Allsingles:
1) POOR BEGINNING.
The foundation made for a relationship will determine how far it will go if it would last forever. The right foundation here is all about surrendering everything to God. Letting God be in charge and supervising everything. Letting God be at the center of your marriage or relationship. Making sure God is glorified in everything you do in your relationship...

say no more...

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Re: Before You Fall In Love, Read This. by paulolee(m): 7:23pm On May 29, 2020
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Re: Before You Fall In Love, Read This. by CAPSLOCKED: 8:16pm On May 29, 2020
Allsingles:

Before you fall in love, Letting God be in charge and supervising everything. Letting God be at the center of your marriage or relationship. Making sure God is glorified in everything you do in your relationship. As adequately It is expected

Always pray to God;

99% OF MARRIAGES THAT HAVE ENDED IN DIVORCE WERE BLESSED IN CHURCHES WHERE OATHS WERE TAKING.

GOD AND PRAYERS DON'T GUARANTEE A GOOD MARRIAGE. IT TAKES TWO ACTUAL HUMANS WHO WANT TO BE TOGETHER TO BE TOGETHER.

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