otitokoro1: .

Restitution is attached to genuine repentance. The above scenario is not in anyway closer to restitution because, restitution comes with much counseling, and where necessary other steps has to be taken. No genuine man of god will ask you to go in the manner posted above to restitution because as a man of God, must know that it takes the leading of God.

In response to your post, I will encourage you to look for a genuine man of God who will guide you on how to go about that step so that you don't destroy other people's home.

wise words.

the man should have been the one informing the wife, not the paramour.

if there are other mistresses out there, should they all start disturbing her with their stories?

and why did the man contact the other lady again to begin with? Im be goat ni? Maybe the woman was bitter and had been waiting for just this opportunity to get back at him?

People should use common sense, not their lusts, when doing things.

if the wife had knowledge of the affair previously, thats entirely different.

lord have mercy sha.