CallMeGrace:
How on Earth would you stoop so low to go to a guy's house all alone? Sometimes, truth be told, some ladies do cause this so called rape on themselves. A guy called you to come over to his place, to do what? Him mama born? Or him Papa die?... And girls,please let's stop this issue of having guy as bestie... please...

CallMeGrace:
How on Earth would you stoop so low to go to a guy's house all alone? Sometimes, truth be told, some ladies do cause this so called rape on themselves. A guy called you to come over to his place, to do what? Him mama born? Or him Papa die?... And girls,please let's stop this issue of having guy as bestie... please...

Plead:


You’re a fool.

CallMeGrace:
How on Earth would you stoop so low to go to a guy's house all alone? Sometimes, truth be told, some ladies do cause this so called rape on themselves. A guy called you to come over to his place, to do what? Him mama born? Or him Papa die?... And girls,please let's stop this issue of having guy as bestie... please...

Plead:


You’re a fool.

Jullima:
Reading the posts on this thread from men and women very sad.

If Uwa had survived and came on twitter to report her rapists, she would have been given the same treatment of victim blaming and she would’ve been shut down as a liar.

Why do we create an environment for rapists to flourish?? Why do we make it difficult for alleged victims to come forward?? Why do you people pretend you’re neutral until concrete evidence but say boldly the women are lying. Is that neutrality?

This alleged rapist has 24 accusers, isn’t the right thing to do, is to hear them and make sure we have a reliable and credible due process in this country where an alleged rape can be investigated and the rapist removed from our society.

We shame rape victims, we blame them for their own rape, we shout them down as liars, we let a potential rapist roam free to rape his next victim. For you women victim blaming, that next victim could be you.

Wolgrace:


How should you identify the truther?

Jullima:

That’s not your job or mine, that’s for law enforcement.

Our job as members of a collective, is to help create and maintain a safe society for all. We should ensure a viable environment where victims can come forward without fear of a backlash. Say no to rape, “no” means no, if you see something, say something, and don’t be a rape apologist.

Right now less than 10% of rape victims report rape. If they know they will be called liars or re-victimized they will never come forward and their rapists still remain in the society you and I live, ready to pounce on another victim.

Wolgrace:


Dicing words with sexist victim play won't promote justice. Simplest form is this;

1. Rape is evil, but never expect rape allegation a must to favour women.

2. Yes, not my job but we've right to campaign for fairness & justice. But the law enforcement have so far investigated & revealed many false rape accusations, hence their slow response when true cases are filed. Patience is needed

Jullima:

I never said a rape allegation must favour women, where did you get that?

I said rape victims should be heard, they mustn’t be shut down. If rape victims don’t feel safe to report rape, how then do we fight rape in Nigeria?

Let them be heard, do not call them liars without facts and encourage them to report to authorities. Let’s encourage the process to play out.

Edopesin:
I will never believe any rape allegation that is without proof

Some animals in the guise of ladies are exploiting the whole thing and destroying people's careers with false accusations

I hope that Tolani girl gets what she deserves for tarnishing that guys image

Kirikiri would be pitying her

Jullima:
Reading the posts on this thread from men and women very sad.

If Uwa had survived and came on twitter to report her rapists, she would have been given the same treatment of victim blaming and she would’ve been shut down as a liar.

Why do we create an environment for rapists to flourish?? Why do we make it difficult for alleged victims to come forward?? Why do you people pretend you’re neutral until concrete evidence but say boldly the women are lying. Is that neutrality?

This alleged rapist has 24 accusers, isn’t the right thing to do, is to hear them and make sure we have a reliable and credible due process in this country where an alleged rape can be investigated and the rapist removed from our society.

We shame rape victims, we blame them for their own rape, we shout them down as liars, we let a potential rapist roam free to rape his next victim. For you women victim blaming, that next victim could be you.

Jullima:

I never said a rape allegation must favour women, where did you get that?

I said rape victims should be heard, they mustn’t be shut down. If rape victims don’t feel safe to report rape, how then do we fight rape in Nigeria?

Let them be heard, do not call them liars without facts and encourage them to report to authorities. Let’s encourage the process to play out.