Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by OBelz(f): 12:38pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Benitam: Did you read the post at all? So people mumu Don ripe |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Leezah(f): 12:51pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Hamachi: The fact that people seem to think that when you marry someone, you're marrying his/her family is a very wrong mentality please... This is Nigeria |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by yazga: 12:35pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
deewhydoski:
They are not the only inconsiderate set of hypocrites, it happen to other tribes too be it Yoruba or hausa. I'm a yoruba guy, if I bring in an igbo lady, my mum will not be in support of her at first but if I try to convince her she may change her mind. So it doesn't happen to only igbos alone, also to other tribes. k |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by QuinModah(f): 11:50am On Jun 08, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS: Anywhere will suffice for now.How can parents dictate the life of a grown man who is obviously old enough to marry? |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Toluwashe778: 12:52pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
kiddoiLL: Op na my friend story you don come write here as yours?? Maybe na she be ur friend |
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Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
The mother of the boy say you can't marry her son If you know what's good for you leave that guy jejely he gets why 2 Likes |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS: Anywhere will suffice for now.How can parents dictate the life of a grown man who is obviously old enough to marry? You know they are elders they might have seen the future and think they're not compatible |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by thatsleepboy1: 3:10pm On Jun 08, 2020 |
OBelz: I've been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and we've been dating for 2 years. He talked about me meeting his family and I was very excited little did I know that it would turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized I'm a Yoruba girl. She immediately told me to my face that I can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like the Yoruba people. My heart melted, hot tears rolled down from my eyes; I'm Yoruba and I'm in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".
I spoke with him about it and he keeps assuring me that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of our union. Every time I try to move on he comes begging that everything would be fine and that we will get married. I really love this guy, why I love him I don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve my heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so I carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.
Just recently his mother called my parents to tell them that I can't get married to her son and asked that I should be warned to stay off her son.
He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly I don't know where I stand... I really love him but what do I do? This is adeola's fictional post from Twitter. She creates and write stories. 3 Likes |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by PerfectMatchNG: 8:34am On Jun 09, 2020 |
LedRock: Guy read always read. The OP is a girl. |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by LabDNA: 3:37pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
QuinModah: my younger brother's girlfriend is Yoruba, and a Muslim.
Being Igbo, I know the uphill task his have facing me, but I've already told my parents long ago, they're not messing with my younger brothers's love life, he said, "he have zero qualms cutting anyone off if they try to interfere". You never jam, you are still naive. Marriage is bond between families thicker than all these your 'nollywood initial gragra romance'. When the dust settles, your eye go clear. Any relationship that is not supported by the elders in that family is as good as 'lagos marriage', na kpangolo marriage be that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Leezah(f): 5:46pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
LabDNA:
You never jam, you are still naive. Marriage is bond between families thicker than all these your 'nollywood initial gragra romance'.
When the dust settles, your eye go clear. Any relationship that is not supported by the elders in that family is as good as 'lagos marriage', na kpangolo marriage be that. Na so |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Jimbadly: 6:38pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Pojomojo: Lol! If you marry a man without his mother's approval, be ready for the war
But if his mother tells me we can't marry because they're Igbo,my dad is Igbo, if they're Yoruba,my mum's Yoruba, if they're Hausa,my grandma's Hausa. Let's see how far she can shift goal post.
My elder brother married a Yoruba woman from Ondo,my mother wanted to play the tribe card but when she saw that my brother doesn’t even care and we the siblings supported his decision. She backed out. Mother’s have power but this is dependent on your boyfriend I wonder why your mom would object to her son marrying a Yoruba lady when your mom is Yoruba herself. 2 Likes |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Impostor: 8:32pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
OBelz: I've been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and we've been dating for 2 years. He talked about me meeting his family and I was very excited little did I know that it would turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized I'm a Yoruba girl. She immediately told me to my face that I can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like the Yoruba people. My heart melted, hot tears rolled down from my eyes; I'm Yoruba and I'm in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".
I spoke with him about it and he keeps assuring me that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of our union. Every time I try to move on he comes begging that everything would be fine and that we will get married. I really love this guy, why I love him I don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve my heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so I carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.
Just recently his mother called my parents to tell them that I can't get married to her son and asked that I should be warned to stay off her son.
He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly I don't know where I stand... I really love him but what do I do? Fake account and story. This story was shared on Twitter weeks ago QuinModah: Nailalanders , know now that QuinModah & OBelz are one and the same account. 5 Likes |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by OBelz(f): 10:59am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Impostor:
Fake account and story. This story was shared on Twitter weeks ago
Nailalanders , know now that QuinModah & OBelz are one and the same account. Your phone your world |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Hamachi(f): 11:30am On Jun 12, 2020 |
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Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by dashpee: 12:21pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
OBelz: I've been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and we've been dating for 2 years. He talked about me meeting his family and I was very excited little did I know that it would turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized I'm a Yoruba girl. She immediately told me to my face that I can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like the Yoruba people. My heart melted, hot tears rolled down from my eyes; I'm Yoruba and I'm in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".
I spoke with him about it and he keeps assuring me that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of our union. Every time I try to move on he comes begging that everything would be fine and that we will get married. I really love this guy, why I love him I don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve my heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so I carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.
Just recently his mother called my parents to tell them that I can't get married to her son and asked that I should be warned to stay off her son.
He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly I don't know where I stand... I really love him but what do I do? quit and get someone that loves everything about you, because marriage is life, better a broken relationship...be warned 1 Like |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by OBelz(f): 9:40am On Jun 15, 2020 |
Thank you. dashpee: quit and get someone that loves everything about you, because marriage is life, better a broken relationship...be warned |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by QuinModah(f): 9:39am On Jun 16, 2020 |
LabDNA:
You never jam, you are still naive. Marriage is bond between families thicker than all these your 'nollywood initial gragra romance'.
When the dust settles, your eye go clear. Any relationship that is not supported by the elders in that family is as good as 'lagos marriage', na kpangolo marriage be that. And the ones supported by elders what have they achieved separation, divorce |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Reex12(m): 11:22am On Jun 16, 2020 |
@obelz, probably its bcus of d way u presented ursef to her,maybe as a love peddler or goldigger and dropped d bomb dat ur yoruba(its common dt yoruba women are promiscuous)no responsible mother would allow her son marry such, tlk more of an igbo woman.if u gt my point |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by OBelz(f): 9:55am On Jun 17, 2020 |
Thank you Sir. Reex12: @obelz, probably its bcus of d way u presented ursef to her,maybe as a love peddler or goldigger and dropped d bomb dat ur yoruba(its common dt yoruba women are promiscuous)no responsible mother would allow her son marry such, tlk more of an igbo woman.if u gt my point |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Kidakudz5: 10:05am On Jun 17, 2020 |
Useless fabricated story.. op I have read this nonsense before on Twitter.. Get a life 1 Like |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by femmoy(m): 10:13am On Jun 17, 2020 |
OBelz: I've been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and we've been dating for 2 years. He talked about me meeting his family and I was very excited little did I know that it would turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized I'm a Yoruba girl. She immediately told me to my face that I can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like the Yoruba people. My heart melted, hot tears rolled down from my eyes; I'm Yoruba and I'm in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".
I spoke with him about it and he keeps assuring me that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of our union. Every time I try to move on he comes begging that everything would be fine and that we will get married. I really love this guy, why I love him I don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve my heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so I carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.
Just recently his mother called my parents to tell them that I can't get married to her son and asked that I should be warned to stay off her son.
He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly I don't know where I stand... I really love him but what do I do? don't u know the igbos hate Yoruba for no reason? my sincere advise to u as a sister is to move ahead,look for another guy (preferably a Yoruba guy). stop wasting ur time dating the flat headed pigs cos they are good for nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Leezah(f): 2:43pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
femmoy:
don't u know the igbos hate Yoruba for no reason? my sincere advise to u as a sister is to move ahead,look for another guy (preferably a Yoruba guy). stop wasting ur time dating the flat headed pigs cos they are good for nothing. |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Reex12(m): 11:40pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
OBelz: Thank you Sir. your welcome dear 2 Likes |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by OBelz(f): 1:42pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
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Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by PerfectMatchNG: 8:06am On Jul 09, 2020 |
LedRock: Guy read always read. The OP is a girl. |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by hstar: 6:18pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Wow |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by ericoleon(m): 7:02pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
babe, STOP GIVING HIM MONEY but do break up with him. this will let u know if he truly loves u or if he is just for the money (e get why). Make sure the mum never gets a dime from u. |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by OBelz(f): 8:18am On Jan 02, 2021 |
ericoleon: babe, STOP GIVING HIM MONEY but do break up with him. this will let u know if he truly loves u or if he is just for the money (e get why). Make sure the mum never gets a dime from u. Thanks |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Dreyton36: 8:39am On Jan 02, 2021 |
Man wey no fit stand him ground gidigba say it must be you and no one else from r over two years , that's not because of the mother but because of the man If him get money him mama no go try am repeat the issue twice sef Imagine E money mama dey tell am say he must not marry a Yoruba lady wait make E money just say "I'm leaving this family" You go see how the mama go shock Tell ur man to hustle harder, how woman go they pay him bills sef , make him push me old Wells Fargo aza , capital one , Morgan chase, SunTrust old azas make I shoot $500k _$1m inside depending on the limit , I hate nonsense My own mama go con dey tell me who to marry ? Both adults and kids get their own insults And that's an insult to me as her son Lights up my kpoli in peace |
Re: I Really Love Him But What Do I Do? by Mrscarter(f): 9:31am On Jan 02, 2021 |
yazga: I am convinced that the Igbos are the most inconsiderate set of hypocrites. How can your mother be the one to decide your fate or choose who to marry? Not even at the start of the relationship? Over two years and your Mom is influencing your decision?. op please leave !! Read again. It's the guys mother who won't allow it cos they're Igbo n the girls Yoruba 2 Likes |