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Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 2:06pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
I accidentally hit my husband in the head with a shoe. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by rasputinn(m): 4:36pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Did you say if the woman hits the man first,now askk yourself is it normal for a woman to hit a man?which kain see finish be dat wan naand you still dey ask weda the man spose woze you back |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:48pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
myself i will hit her back whether its a slap or not we dont need to say its a OK if it is a slap if a guy would do that slap, women would be up in arms shouting abusive husband or boyfriend so if we say a slap is fine we are protecting those women who are abusive, it is still abuse whether women/men |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Atreides(f): 4:58pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
@Topic,and why would i hit him in the first place? Ol boy i value my life oh. . . . Seriously though,i don't think it's right for me to get away with violence just because i'm a woman. Violence is violence and it's not right,no matter who's doing the hitting. I do hope whoever i end up with is blessed with the virtue of self-control,and if for some reason i lash out,he can walk away. If he walks away i bet i'd feel so much worse-i'd practically fall over my feet apologising to him when i calm down. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by deniyor: 4:59pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
I don't hit women. But if a woman hits me, or slaps me, I will beat her like she stole smth. Nxt time, she will not dare! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:02pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
But you hit women? SMH. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:03pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Atreides: once you ask "why iwould i hit him first" you sort off block people from exploring how to deal with it once it happens lets focus on how to deal with than to block it like it will/never happens |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:05pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
It is funny that THESE PUNKS assumed hitting a woman back and harder will stop her from hitting anyone in the future. Yeah, tell that to the dead dog laying beside you. Women are not physically stronger than men and if a woman using object to make up her lack physical strength against a man then it is understood why such force will be use. However, giving a woman a black eye because she mushed you is BEYOND cowardice. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:14pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: the AIM is into 1 she knows what she will get next time she does it 2 she will also know that it is bad becoz the way she will feel after i hit her back is the same way i would feel if she hit me .i.e if she has a heart girls dont try to defend those type of woman there are bad as the guys who do that dont try to protect your gender or the damn "physicially women are weaker " ---- its wrong whether done by a man or woman treat your partner the way you want to be treated, am sure no one wants to be hit everytime whether man or woman |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by rasputinn(m): 5:15pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima:Why are you shaking your head? Oh so you beat menSMH |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:16pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
rasputinn: I need to. Maybe some of you MOFOS will act right. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by rasputinn(m): 5:18pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: This tone says a lot Mrs, Chima: With you using such gutter and uncivilised tones,there's no need hoping to have any reasonable discourse with you.Sorry |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:18pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
ZIM DRILL: Protect my gender? Negro please! It is scientific fact that men are physically stronger than women. Did you EVEN READ my post? I said if a woman using object that justify an use of force it is understandable but if she mushed a man and he give her a black eye that COWARDICE. Take your time reading. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:19pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
rasputinn: The guilty party have spoken. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Mygoldie(f): 5:20pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
honeric01: what are you on about?can you compare the rate of men who hit women to the rate of women who hit men?the rate is pretty clear. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by rasputinn(m): 5:22pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
@ OP I know you've got your answer/s,I'm out of here till I see reasonable posts |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:24pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: you are dear what you are saying is this its OK for women to hit guys but its not OK becoz phyisically men are strong so they shouldnt hit back does that sound right to you ? the strong here is not about who is stronger but about the habit of hit whether strong or weak in other words you are saying its OK for poor guy to steal but not OK for rich guy |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Pennywise(m): 5:25pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Any woman beating on her husband is a domestic terrorist. The husband should have no fear about giving her waterboarding treatment-perfectly legal. You wont be needing a lawyer not to talk of a good one. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:26pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Uhh. As usual you lack reading comprehension once again. WHERE HAVE I SAID IT IS OKAY FOR WOMEN TO HIT MEN? Do not put words in my gotdamn mouth. If I believe that it is okay for women to hit men I WOULD FUCKING SAY IT. You should know by now MRS. CHIMA SPEAKS HER MIND DIRECTLY and I don't sugarcoat shit. Now again, READ THE POST FOR WHAT IT SAY and not what you want it to be. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
@Topic yes, esp. if it is with the intent to harm him. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:31pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: is it ? its you dear why did you put this for ? Mrs, Chima: you did put it becoz you are basing on who is stronger than it act its self and also black eye thing you are focusing on the eye but you aint looking deep on the whole scenario |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:34pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
What the bleep is you talking about? Do you even know what the bleep you talking about? Why are you adding shit? |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Chima pls. dont make me choke on my Mike & Ikes with laughter! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:39pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
You eating that Tropical Tycoon girl? I loooove them! I like the new kind they got out called Italian Ice! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
^^ITALIAN ICE!!!!! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 5:49pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
I think they came out with Strawberry and Lemon last year! It was a fundraising brand for the children with cancer. I bought five cases of them and gave it out to the kids in the street. I kept me a few of them. They were fire! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
^^yes mam. there is one with a blue box, it think its for "berry" flavors but i saw the Ita. ice and decided to get it lol. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by harakiri(m): 6:11pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
ogugua88: I love this lady She defines the term REAL! ! ! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by MrsChima1(f): 6:13pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Typical. |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by harakiri(m): 6:33pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Everyday people keep screaming for equality. When a woman hits a man, she's regarded as the "weaker vessel" expressing her "emotions". When a man hits a woman, he's regarded as anything from bigfoot to Osama bin laden. I believe there's an example of this anomaly i mentioned in a similar post but i'll repeat it once more : There's a dude (not a close friend of mine though) that used to get hit all the time by his wife (currently ex-wife). At first, it started as little slaps,pushing and shoving whenever she didn't agree with his position on any argument they had. Withing three years of marriage, she had grown wings and bold to the extent of landing him multiple hot slaps at any given opportunity, even in public (she went as far as slapping him on the day of her younger sister's traditional marriage IN FULL VIEW OF EVERYONE! ! !). What was his offense at the time? Her relatives who she wasn't comfortable with where having some issues with her which was getting heated and when she got uncomfortable and wanted to leave, her husband who was engaged in an interesting discussion with other male members of the family wasn't ready to leave at the time and instead was trying to talk her into being patient and possibly making up with her angry relations. One thing led to the next and WHAM! WHAM! ! WHAM! ! ! Three hot slaps in quick succession. She could be bold enough to do this (being a lil tipsy at the time) because it was a "normal" occurrence in their house. How many countless occasions did he try counselling through the church and family members? How many times did he miss going to work all because he's shirt was torn to shreds by his wife who also had him in a vice grib by the trousers? How many times did i personally see him with finger nail scratch marks on his face? And this was a guy who was a firm believer in the laws of chivalry : thou shalt not touch a woman no matter what. Well, one day she bit more than she could chew and the guy showed her that being a man is not just about having balls between the legs. He gave her an overdose of 3 years pent up rage and practically beat the BeJesus out of her. Right there and then, he decided to end the marriage. My point is, any woman who dares hit a man should be ready to stomach the consequences (of punchiquences rather). |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
deniyor: out of anger, i might push my man or maybe even *try (most guys i do this to are buff and laugh @ how weak my strength is to them lol) to wrestle with them, I am sure a reasonable man might try to restrain me as I am not trying to kill them but you? if I were the lady who did this to you, clearly venting with no hard punches or weapons and you decide you want to "beat me like i stole something"? . . . .I guess we would be two fightin n*ggas! |
Re: Is It Ever Ok For A Man To Hit A Woman: If She Hits Him First? by Mygoldie(f): 6:44pm On Jan 22, 2011 |
Lets get this straight cos i hate to argue something that's as plain and simple as this. this is how it goes,when a woman hits a man,and the man hits back,the woman becomes sad and it shows the man doesn't love her,but when a woman hits a man and the man resist to hit back,the woman will feel bad and she'll go on her knees ''if possible'' to plead for forgiveness and she'll be so sorry and repentant. I am not saying it is right for a woman to hit a man,but situation of this sort occurs on daily basis,so it is left for the man to take the light slap like a real man,or reciprocate like a mad man, end of!!! |
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