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Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Lexusgs430: 1:37am On Jun 08, 2020 |
MedicH: Loads, the issue is not Accords..... But this particular one.... You get my drift...... Let me put it gently, if you see pre, you might consider putting your bank account on an overdose prescription of zopiclone...... |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by MedicH: 1:44am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Lexusgs430: hmmm i see ur assumptions are not concrete enough unless you've seen it first hand. i would have taken it more serious if you're refering to accords of that year. however, i will go over and see things myself |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Lexusgs430: 1:46am On Jun 08, 2020 |
MedicH: Send me a whatsapp message, and you won't bother wasting your day........ To review xray results.......... |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by GreenDee(f): 2:50am On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by RPG2020(m): 2:59am On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by RPG2020(m): 3:08am On Jun 08, 2020 |
This bitch tryna shake the table ? Bitch let my brother go if you want to shake the chair � 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by vickydevoka(m): 3:21am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Oluromantic:U hardly see intelligent pretty gals |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by rimijoshua(m): 3:42am On Jun 08, 2020 |
If you leave that guy,you will regret it big time. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by athaliya(f): 3:43am On Jun 08, 2020 |
HarunaWest: Lolz, exactly. The same culture they don't realised evolved a few hundreds of years. They don't want to change from the ways of their fathers but they don't want to roam around naked anymore as if the clothes they wear today are cultural. The mind of the average black man is satiated as long as none around him is better than him and if he indeed sees any, he sees it as a threat to his ego and his first instinct is to pull it down. Loyalty is scarce in this part of the world and they will readily abandon even their gods at the sign of trouble. Let me stop bashing my people. 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Nobody: 4:32am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree: 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Caseless: 4:35am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree:most guys who communicate very well and seems to be current on many issues/topic have flair for politics., I easily run out of what to say when i'm with girls because they won't discuss what I like and, I don't like what they like. They find me too quiet and they don't like it. Make your guy to watch political programmes, take him to quora and share link to articles or piece you've read and have him to review that with you to form a conversation. If he reads more, he'd find the urge to discuss more or will be willing to share his discovery. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Gentle0wavez: 4:36am On Jun 08, 2020 |
if you are smart, you won't be asking this question |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by hermesprogidy(m): 4:37am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree:What if he is not the Social Media type? I for one thoroughly dislike things like that. Find out what he likes, simple. The fact that he doesn't take you on your discussion points does not make him unintelligent. Irony of all this is that he may probably find you boring too. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Nobody: 4:38am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Ariza: I don't even trust the OP at all, It is very easy to decipher people. Plan a hangout with his friends, then see the kind of topics he talks about. He may always be talking about science fiction, Space exploration or Elon Musk but her head of full of BBNaija Mercy & Tacha + JORO cheating husbands with side-chics. Even the worst Introverts have what they talk about when they meet people of similar Interests. The most intelligent people I know usually talk less, infact more anti-social than anyone else. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Caseless: 4:41am On Jun 08, 2020 |
athaliya:Pull him down syndrome(PHD) is common with black people and they hate reading. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Obidiugwu: 4:51am On Jun 08, 2020 |
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Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by madjune(m): 4:52am On Jun 08, 2020 |
bukatyne: Abi i dey lie? Tell me my sister. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by GOOOGLE504(m): 5:06am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Benwallt: Hahaha |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by elliotmarshall(m): 5:10am On Jun 08, 2020 |
See you better break up now than break this guys ♥ in future Nonscence na all this kind thing de vex me. Let me tell you something that you don't know you can never be100% perfect and correct you too have your own ricom somewhere.. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by CanadaOrBust: 5:16am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Ybaby: This is crass generalization. I am very much turned on by intellect and academic achievement. They add so much to a lady for me, and definitely contribute to my hard on |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Ishilove: 5:17am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Kokaine:We live in different societies. Either you adjust or you go for a white girl. 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Caseless: 5:41am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree:the moment you mentioned stuff on social media, I knew you're the problem, not the guy. You must bugged him with the boring girly stories or fake facebook gist he has no interest in. That guy is smarter than you. I advised earlier based on the assumtion that you were finding him not connecting on deeper topic. You need to come up to his level and watch things change. 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Alfather: 5:45am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Hathor5:wow |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by LeeSantos(m): 5:45am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Well, it's foundation. He didn't grow up socially (that is, having social friends) he is an introvert. The only solution is to allow him hang out with your friends more often, Party more often, visit or invite friends home. So during all this time you are doing this, you will start the conversation first then find a way to put him into the matter being discussed. So with time, he will improve & you Botha can always have some things to talk bout. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Xisnin(m): 5:58am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree:What's the point of telling him? To brag about your superior intelligence? If what you describe is correct, then that is who he is. This will be like telling an amputee that he has no hands. No smart person will do that. Sometimes it is better to make your decision, act on it, and then shut up. It is not necessary to tell people why you choose the way you do. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Alfather: 6:03am On Jun 08, 2020 |
cynosuree:The only advice i have for you is, you can as well address his issue by calling his attention to it jokingly or politely. theres something you should never do which is, don,t ever tell him by comparing him with other guys who speaks brilliantly. it hot realy bad and he may feel insecure around you. Thereby breaking up. |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by shilexholly(m): 6:04am On Jun 08, 2020 |
He no go better for u.. Wetin u sef know 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by HarunaWest(m): 6:10am On Jun 08, 2020 |
athaliya:Lol |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Rilwayne001: 6:12am On Jun 08, 2020 |
OP probably found someone more interesting and comparing him now to her boyfriend. I'm sure you saw how boring he was before you agreed to date him, things are only changing now because someone is holding the type of conversation that your boyfriend never really hold with you. And guys don't learn these days. Who still asks "what have you eaten?" "How was your day?" In this age? Lol these girls needs surprises and they should never be able to predict you before you eventually do them something. LOL Y'all SIMPs need to take the red pill to survive this century. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by damosade(m): 6:12am On Jun 08, 2020 |
Only if you understand this lady. I understand when lady tries to communicate with his bf without a headways. There is still room for development. You can teach him or watch educative shows together. Me I just learned how to watch Korean movies from my wife. And we are doing fine now |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Rilwayne001: 6:17am On Jun 08, 2020 |
athaliya: You're not at fault my sister. Men of this age don't want to drop the ways of their ancestors. They want to continue living in the 18th century, you don't deserve to live with him. It's the 21st century for Pete's sake |
Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Hathor5(f): 6:23am On Jun 08, 2020 |
lanibi: Isn't it obvious? BTW, you seem intelligent. I like that. Thank you. I try. |
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