Aimerosa25:
my dear,I feel u should quit the porn,and get your self together these are signs of being a lesbian, but u will overcome by God's grace

thank you

girlxxhiddenxx:
nothing in there body attracts me. The long organ actually annoys me. Pen*etr*ton is just annoying. (God please forgive me) but I fake enjoying it to make my then boyfriend happy. We had been together for soo long and you could see him trying to please me. I would be dry everywhere. I suggested we watch lesbian porn together and he refused. I understand why o.

Okay, I understand.

My second question... are you physically attracted to a lady? Do you have a lady friend you're attracted to?

AmazingELixir:


There's absolutely no reason to judge you my dear...neither do I see how you feel as requiring help.

I don't just want to shake your hands....I just wish it could be a warm hug.

are u girl or a guy?

CokeBar:


Okay, I understand.

My second question... are you physically attracted to a lady? Do you have a lady friend you're attracted to?

(god forgive me) yes

IamDavids:
You can't change yourself. You have to accept who you are. And being gay doesn't stop you from having kids. There are numerous options. I hope you find true love and be happy with your sexuality.

how many gay people in Nigeria do you know that have children? Are you in this country? They are treated like lepers

girlxxhiddenxx:

This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me

What advice do you seek now?

The processes involved on how to stop being a lesbian or what.

You admit you watch porn which is a problem, then try to stop watching it. Problem solved. Unless you are already addicted to it which is hard to stop. The best place to get the help you seek is to filter your search on Google because Nigerians are not really exposed on same gender relations.

Highest advice you will get here is God will do it for you. Meet your pastor and I can personally tell you that, those advice will not work.

Is it that you are not attracted to guys or you are not attracted to male sexuality. Your post is not specific enough. Know that having a boyfriend does not mean you are attracted to guys. Maybe you are only using that to cover up.

girlxxhiddenxx:
(god forgive me) yes

There you go...

You have your answer

Deltayankeeboi:


What advice do you seek now?

The processes involved on how to stop being a lesbian or what.

You admit you watch porn which is a problem, then try to stop watching it. Problem solved. Unless you are already addicted to it which is hard to stop. The best place to get the help you seek is to filter your search on Google because Nigerians are not really exposed on same gender relations.

Highest advice you will get here is God will do it for you. Meet your pastor and I can personally tell you that, those advice will not work.

Is it that you are not attracted to guys or you are not attracted to male sexuality. Your post is not specific enough. Know that having a boyfriend does not mean you are attracted to guys. Maybe you are only using that to cover up.

I don't like them sexually. But I enjoy having the care and attention of a man. I am desperate I had to try nairaland. Maybe someone else has experienced it before

CokeBar:


There you go...

You have your answer

I the solution. How do i stop it. I want to like men please

girlxxhiddenxx:
between 25 and 28. I stay in Lagos, is there a counselor you recommend?

None. You can get an online counselor to stay anonymous if you can't find an offline one. First, you have to help yourself by not watching porn or having any sex related talk with anyone.
The golden advise is you have to go for deliverance at any Bible believing church as this may be spiritual.
Do you serve and believe in God?

girlxxhiddenxx:


I had a boyfriend. But I have never really found any pleasure in the male organs. But I like female p*rn. I went to get checked in a hospital if anything is wrong with me. But nothing is wrong with medically. I just like b**bs and female pu**y. Has anybody else experienced this? What should I do? I confided in a friend she said I should try getting a girlfriend so I would know for sure. But I don't want anybody to look at me as a freak. Imagine me working up to a girl and asking her if I can s**k her br**st. Lesbians in the house how did you know you were a lesbian? If it turns out I am a lesbian there is nothing that would come out of it because I can't even get married to a girl. So, to what end? Please pray for me even if you don't have advice for me

There is no problem about this. At least one in every four women in America is either a gay or a lesbian and this applies to all human beings too. This is a natural feeling. I as a person, watching two females play with each other is a great turn-on for me. I get aroused easily.

Your feeling is natural and I love it!

RealtorX:

There is no problem about this. At least one in every four women in America is either a gay or a lesbian and this applies to all human beings too. This is a natural feeling. I as a person, watching two females play with each other is a great turn-on for me. I get aroused easily.

Your feeling is natural and I love it!

I am in Nigeria and not America. same sex relationships are a crime here.

Emmyloyalty:


None. You can get an online counselor to stay anonymous if you can't find an offline one. First, you have to help yourself by not watching porn or having any sex related talk with anyone.
The golden advise is you have to go for deliverance at any Bible believing church as this may be spiritual.
Do you serve and believe in God?

I rarely go to church

honestly when you see the kind of comments nairalanders make on some posts you can't help but ask if people are really mature on this platform as they claim to be...instead of being judgemental offer your advice and go...if not...just keep shut...my dear all I can say is...you should be sure what you want,you're not attracted to your boyfriend's organs is different from being attracted to male organs...your boyfriend is a male but not all males are the same with ur boyfriend...my simple saying is give it sometime,if it's not what you want,by all means get a girlfriend...but remember my dear THIS IS NIGERIA (that's if you're in Nigeria)...be doing your thing with sense o

CokeBar:


There you go...

You have your answer

how do I stop been one. I am very pretty. Jail would not fit me.

KenBen217:
honestly when you see the kind of comments nairalanders make on some posts you can't help but ask if people are really mature on this platform as they claim to be...instead of being judgemental offer your advice and go...if not...just keep shut...my dear all I can say is...you should be sure what you want,you're not attracted to your boyfriend's organs is different from being attracted to male organs...your boyfriend is a male but not all males are the same with ur boyfriend...my simple saying is give it sometime,if it's not what you want,by all means get a girlfriend...but remember my dear THIS IS NIGERIA (that's if you're in Nigeria)...be doing your thing with sense o

ok. Noted. Thank you

girlxxhiddenxx:
I am in Nigeria and not America. same sex relationships are a crime here.

I'm talking about your feelings. I am not encouraging you having same sex relationship.
Nothing is wrong with your feelings.

RealtorX:

I'm talking about your feelings. I am not encouraging you having same sex relationship.
Nothing is wrong with your feelings.

ok

girlxxhiddenxx:

This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me

.

Pm me let's talk.

Hello young lady,
My Jesus will deliver you and destroy those strange feelings from off you. I'm not promising it'd be instant, but you'll be delivered sooner than you expected.


Reading through your replies, i see that you're really passionate to be free—that's the most important step. Others who had similar or more complicated experiences have been freed by God, so yours will not be an exemption.

What do you think?

girlxxhiddenxx:

This is not a fake story. What do I stand to gain by fabricating this story? Did I direct you to any blog? As you read it did nairaland pay me? I have job. I created this fake account because I don't want anybody to know its me

Some females enjoy watching lesbian porn but they are never lesbian.
You enjoy seeing boobs etc doesn't mean you are one. Stop such irritating thought.

girlxxhiddenxx:
I rarely go to church

You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

Emmyloyalty:


You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

it is not particularly like a spirit comes into me. I just don't like having with a guy.i always imagine the guy is a lady and that is the only way I get aroused. My parents would be ashamed of me

Paxie55:

Some females enjoy watching lesbian open but they are never lesbian.
You enjoy seeing boobs etc doesn't mean you are one. Stop such irritating thought.

so I may not be?

.

girlxxhiddenxx:
it is not particularly like a spirit comes into me. I just don't like having with a guy.i always imagine the guy is a lady and that is the only way I get aroused. My parents would be ashamed of me

Has this always been a part of you or when did you notice this change? Is it when you started watching porn?

girlxxhiddenxx:
I grew up religious but o disagree with a lot of things been preached in churches. But I am open to anything right now. This is how people's lifes gets ruined I already see myself in prison uniform serving 14years

Well there are no grey areas in religion, you're either in it or not. By disagreeing with a lot of things preached in churches,then you might as well be described as an unbeliever.
Why that part at the bolded?
Are you afraid of getting arrested and imprisoned for being a les?
Don't worry, the Nigerian law is lenient towards lesbians, you have only your friends and family to worry about.

Emmyloyalty:


Has this always been a part of you or when did you notice this change? Is it when you started watching porn?

always

There are alot of bi-sexual couples, not a biggy, you'll eventually grow out of it

girlxxhiddenxx:
always

There's certainly a time you noticed it. At what age?

girlxxhiddenxx:
are u girl or a guy?

I'm Adamic dear

Emmyloyalty:


You need to come under the Lordship of Jesus Christ. If this your case happens to be spiritual, then only Christ can solve it, please turn to Christ.
Do you feel this is spiritual? Is there a force from within that comes with this urge that you find difficult to overcome?

Please don't fail your parent, they will be very disappointed to hear about your state and I'm sure you don't want to make them hypertensive.

See what I'm talking about. Nigerians love religion more than common sense. OP don't deceive yourself, no church can help or save you. You will end up wasting your time, money and effort.

Your problem is psychological and emotional. It has nothing to do with religion.