Good morning everyone,
my late father before his demise was a clergy, he died last year December after battling with stroke.
Am the first born from my mother to my father, but I am not my father's first born, because my dad had 3 wives, which my mom happened to be the last wife. but since after his death my step siblings didn't bother to come to claim any of my father's property, even when he was alive they hardly come to check on him, and my dad never wrote any will. so my mom assumed the role of the landlord. so recently, I had a little disagreement with her over some issues about not being able to secure a job, which I lost during this lockdown period because she has been the one taking care of son, so I noticed whenever things get heated she will then threaten to send me out of the house, which we are not even sharing the same room. which I told her she can't do, because it's my father's house and when it is the right time I will move out but not on her orders.

so pls guys, I need advice from you, does she have the right to send me out?

But d truth is what u said already. She has no right to chase u out till you're ready. Except shes sure you're a bastard. But so long you're a legit son of ur father, you have a right there. Don't relax too much too as ur half-siblings can show up anytime to sell the building unless ur father built it in ur mother's name.

I read clergy,,,then i saw 3 wives..well,,none of my business..
Tell her to go to her father's house instead..
You the boss man....

That house belong to your parent.

It wasn't built in your name.
And neither have you inherited it.

You are an adult, under her stewardship.
She CAN send you out.

So make it a priority to leave that house.
Strive to be independent. Establish your own.

go hustle and wen u are made, come bk n buy d house bk if u stll de vex..

Ningen:
That house belong to your parent.

It wasn't built in your name.
And neither have you inherited it.

You are an adult, under her stewardship.
She CAN send you out.

So make it a priority to leave that house.
Strive to be independent. Establish your own.

He already said he'll move out when it's time. Means he's working towards it. A mother shd not find that difficult to understand.

Oluromantic:

He already said he'll move out when it's time. Means he's working towards it. A mother shd not find that difficult to understand.

True but not all “mothers” are understanding.

Oluromantic:


But d truth is what u said already. She has no right to chase u out till you're ready. Except shes sure you're a bastard. But so long you're a legit son of ur father, you have a right there. Don't relax too much too as ur half-siblings can show up anytime to sell the building unless ur father built it in ur mother's name.

infact all the house documents is in my possession

Ningen:
That house belong to your parent.

It wasn't built in your name.
And neither have you inherited it.

You are an adult, under her stewardship.
She CAN send you out.

So make it a priority to leave that house.
Strive to be independent. Establish your own.

working towards that already though, but the question is can she send away my step siblings?

Ok


Next please

soulstalker:
infact all the house documents is in my possession

Good. She's at ur mercy sef. Don't argue with her then. Anytime she chase u out just go along with the documents.

soulstalker:
infact all the house documents is in my possession

The fact that the documents are in her possession doesn't make her the rightful owner, subject to litigation in case of any misdeed.

She doesn't have such power to send you out as the main reasons why she was still in the house after the death of her husband, your father is you.

You are the ticket that gives are rooms or ground to stay/to remain in the house ,I.e your existence in life if otherwise family members will have send her packing.

Go to a lawyer and seek a legal help or advice or go to a public complaint office and seek for legal advice on what to do in such a case or sale the entire house so that the new owners can send her out because i dont think she is truly your biological mother but a foster mother and possibly she killed your father so that she can inherit his house and marry another man

For ur peace of mind pls find way and leave. It will hard for you to succeed in such a toxic environment.