MzD@rkSkin:

BUT WHAT IS THE POINT IN DATING HER IF YOU FIND HER UNFIT TO BE A WIFE OTHER THAN FOR S3X?? Seriously let's not run around the issue. If you she smokes w33d, gets drunk, basically gets it in, and you don't want that in a wife, then why bother DATING a woman like her? I dont get it.

Mrs.Chima:

Now you see what you said?   

Mz. Dark made perfectly sense when she said why would you date a smoker but won't marry a smoker?  That is crazy!

MRbrownJAY:

^^^^women women women. . . . . . . .how many time did i call you?!
how would a person know that someone is fit to be a wife without test riding her?! duh!
dont put the horse before the carriage, it goes like this: FRIENDSHIP, DATING and then, if she passes all the tests with flying colors, MARRIAGE. people can stop and bounce out anytime during the first two steps. . . . . . . or use these as just a way to meet women.

there are many reason why people would enter a relationship:
- to discover who she really is as a mate(and possibly if he can stand her)
- to practice his skills and understand women until the day he meets the real deal.
- to have someone to spend quality time with.
- to do all the nasty stuff he thinks a WIFEY cannot possibly do.

also let us all remember in dating:
- you can walk away from this relationship anytime you feel like it.
- your spouse will keep herself in check ALL THE TIME because of the point above.
- you have absolutely NO OBLIGATIONS to go any further, if you dont want to.
- you have NO OBLIGATIONS to deal with your "in-laws".
- you still can each have your own place thus your own lives.
- you are ultimately only responsible for  YOUR OWN SELF.

2buff:

The simple answer is that not everyone sees their time as precious.
I wouldn't date a woman I don't see a future with. I see it as a MASSIVE waste of my time, which is my most valued resource.
Somethings are better left unstarted, so one is free to invest that time into other more permanent things that actually impact one's future.

my point exactly.  

MzD@rkSkin:

It still doesn't make sense, if you don't want a wife who smokes like a chimney then when u first see her walking with her Swisher Sweets and or Matterhorns, you would break it off asap. . .it's logic.

2buff:

@Mr BrownJay, You can already tell much from a person in the friendship stage, especially if it is a timely, observed one.
From that stage you can already determine whether there is future potential with a woman or not and if she's worth initiating dating protocols with. . . except you're really just out to hit it.

The typical danger with this stage is that guy man isn't trying to enter friend zone for many obvious reasons today. Quite frankly, I think only silly girls turn down a guy's dating request simply because they are "already friends". Friendship should be the base of all good relationships, but that's another discussion  

y me:

if you had asked me this question years back am gonna answer swearing i will never ever date a smoker and i really did hate them then male or female
but now i just had to accept the fact that if you can't beat them you join them or let them be

so far so good yeah i know i can date a smoker _{c[b]ause am already doing that or something like that[/b]} and the fact that he gives me the smoking respect but marrying one that i havent decided yet but i think i can
anyway it all boils down to how compartible you both are

there again the question is about a female smoker and not a male but all join abi

Lord_Reed:

Is it just me or has anyone else noticed that lots of smokers and drinkards are short tempered?

@OP
No, I would not knowingly date or marry one.

@MDS, MBJ, Mr.C
My favourite people how are we doing?

snthesis:

baby

y me:

D-sense:

This poster is high on Taba

And you are high on pcp so we are even. . .

@Lord, I am fine hun! How about yourself?

Dahbutter:

Er. . . Mzdarkskin, are you like a teenager or something? U mean u thought every guy dat dated you had the hope of perhaps marrying u Babe pleaze. Guys date for fun and training to prepare 4 d perfect woman, so i would even date a smoker, weeder, ho, biatch or whateva just 4 fun. And leave her a$$ wen d right one comes. Yes i guess its for sex, fun, adventure, for game but not luv

^^haven't seen this much bulls. .t since I visited my step-grandfather's farm back in Jamaica. dating is one thing but it is undeniable that to date a woman who practices the ONE THING that peeves a guy so much (such as smoking) makes no sense! If you want to "train" to be the biggest jack arse, running from girl to girl feigning practice lol, at least find women who are decent by your standards. To simply imply that you date a smoker, which you hate for the sole purpose of experience is r3tarded.