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Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Dani93(m): 6:32pm On Jun 11, 2020
Should I quit the relationship ? I'm confuse seriously
I'm planing to go see her parent after her NYSC.
But d problem is that she doesn't have I'M SORRY in her mouth. She never apologize, and
She can argue for African, she throws insulted words 2 me sometimes, is like she don't have control over her mouth, if I complain she will just laugh it off.
And said is just a joke. I got angry with her
And she knows I was angry but she never apologize rather, she laugh and said it was just a joke
I don't understand that kind of behavior
I'm scared of after marriage she may not have respect for me yes. And for it not to grow to violent.
What should I do ?

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Nuulife: 6:35pm On Jun 11, 2020
She is in charge!! �
simple

What u should do is that u should be in charge

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Baloranking(m): 6:36pm On Jun 11, 2020
Dani93:
Should I quit the relationship ? I'm confuse seriously
I'm planing to go see her parent after her NYSC.
But d problem is that she doesn't have I'M SORRY in her mouth. She never apologize, and
She can argue for African, she throws insulted words 2 me sometimes, is like she don't have control over her mouth, if I complain she will just laugh it off.
And said is just a joke. I got angry with her
And she knows I was angry but she never apologize rather, she laugh and said it was just a joke
I don't understand that kind of behavior
I'm scared of after marriage she may not have respect for me yes. And for it not to grow to violent.
What should I do ?


Follow your heart. From what you stated I can just round it up as She wants to be the man in the relationship. Big question here is "will you allow it" if not no put hand oh.

Don't enter and start regretting.

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by jidamsel43(m): 6:57pm On Jun 11, 2020
Remember that you are yet to marry. Broken courtship is better than broken relationship.

If you can cope with her recent behaviours , you can marry her because there is no perfect lady or perfect man. We makes good and happy home now is good management.

If her behaviours are becoming unbearable and there has been amendment despite your complaints, quit the relationship and face your life

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Russo35(m): 7:06pm On Jun 11, 2020
Man up bro.. Switch the game or flip the switch...Don't be in a rush to see her parent just yet,be emotionless and look straight into her eyes without fear and tell her what you want if she laughs at you or still take you for a joke.. Black her out or ghost her with your silence(ignore her ass) for weeks if months, if she is yours then she will retrace her steps and if she ain't ready to, move on....Control the narrative bro....

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by yomi007k(m): 8:32pm On Jun 11, 2020
I believe she foots your bill.
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Bola146(f): 8:45pm On Jun 11, 2020
grin one man's food is another man's poison, you know what is best for you.
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Impostor: 8:52pm On Jun 11, 2020
Dani93:
Should I quit the relationship ? I'm confuse seriously
I'm planing to go see her parent after her NYSC.
But d problem is that she doesn't have I'M SORRY in her mouth. She never apologize, and
She can argue for African, she throws insulted words 2 me sometimes, is like she don't have control over her mouth, if I complain she will just laugh it off.
And said is just a joke. I got angry with her
And she knows I was angry but she never apologize rather, she laugh and said it was just a joke
I don't understand that kind of behavior
I'm scared of after marriage she may not have respect for me yes. And for it not to grow to violent.
What should I do ?

You have to be careful o. Too many stories of women and men killing each other these days so be careful. I don't think she's 100% ready. I will suggest, talk to her about your concern then secretly watch if she takes correction, go for it but if she insist on arguing for Africa abeg let go
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by LedRock: 9:00pm On Jun 11, 2020
I can feel you have low self-esteem just from the way you write, you better take charge of that relationship and treat that your arrogant girlfriend fvck up, if you don't she would turn you into her personal slave.

At least be a indirect slave even if you want to enter marriage not a direct one.
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:06pm On Jun 11, 2020
Dani93:
she doesn't have I'M SORRY in her mouth. She never apologize, and
She can argue for African,

IS THIS YOUR FIRST RELATIONSHIP?
EITHER YOU ENDURE OR STAY SINGLE UNTIL YOU GET A BETTER OPTION. THIS IS USUALLY WHAT 90% COME WITH. THE OTHER 10% WON'T BEHAVE LIKE THAT UNTIL YOU'RE BROKE.

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by McBrooklyn(m): 9:11pm On Jun 11, 2020
No continue..
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by SweetCunt97(f): 9:11pm On Jun 11, 2020
Dani93:
Should I quit the relationship ? I'm confuse seriously
I'm planing to go see her parent after her NYSC.
But d problem is that she doesn't have I'M SORRY in her mouth. She never apologize, and
She can argue for African, she throws insulted words 2 me sometimes, is like she don't have control over her mouth, if I complain she will just laugh it off.
And said is just a joke. I got angry with her
And she knows I was angry but she never apologize rather, she laugh and said it was just a joke
I don't understand that kind of behavior
I'm scared of after marriage she may not have respect for me yes. And for it not to grow to violent.
What should I do ?
Simple. Simply slap her mouth next time she says nasty stuff you don't like. Just a light slap to the mouth that will move some of her lipstick without hurting her sha.
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jun 11, 2020
Dani93:
Should I quit the relationship ? I'm confuse seriously
I'm planing to go see her parent after her NYSC.
But d problem is that she doesn't have I'M SORRY in her mouth. She never apologize, and
She can argue for African, she throws insulted words 2 me sometimes, is like she don't have control over her mouth, if I complain she will just laugh it off.
And said is just a joke. I got angry with her
And she knows I was angry but she never apologize rather, she laugh and said it was just a joke
I don't understand that kind of behavior
I'm scared of after marriage she may not have respect for me yes. And for it not to grow to violent.
What should I do ?


Dont marry her for now

or

else it will surely end it _________ 4u

Someone help me complete That

Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by SweetCunt97(f): 9:13pm On Jun 11, 2020
Russo35:
Man up bro.. Switch the game or flip the switch...Don't be in a rush to see her parent just yet,be emotionless and look straight into her eyes without fear and tell her what you want if she laughs at you or still take you for a joke.. Black her out or ghost her with your silence(ignore her ass) for weeks if months, if she is yours then she will retrace her steps and if she ain't ready to, move on....Control the narrative bro....
The OP is too soft. What's stopping him from giving her hot insults that will shut her up?
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jun 11, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Simple. Simply slap her mouth next time she says nasty stuff you don't like. Just a light slap to the mouth that will move some of her lipstick without hurting her sha.

Later u will abuse him for physical abuse... Dead head brain dead

Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by SweetCunt97(f): 9:15pm On Jun 11, 2020
timekeeper1:


Later u will abuse him for physical abuse... Dead head brain dead


This tribalistic demented being pls swerve.
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Russo35(m): 10:34pm On Jun 11, 2020
SweetCunt97:
The OP is too soft. What's stopping him from giving her hot insults that will shut her up?


He no even need insult am.. Wetin dy pain woman pass na that silent treatment... Just ignore am..

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by emmaodet: 11:10pm On Jun 11, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


IS THIS YOUR FIRST RELATIONSHIP?
EITHER YOU ENDURE OR STAY SINGLE UNTIL YOU GET A BETTER OPTION. THIS IS USUALLY WHAT 90% COME WITH. THE OTHER 10% WON'T BEHAVE LIKE THAT UNTIL YOU'RE BROKE.

grin
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Impostor: 9:50pm On Jun 12, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Simple. Simply slap her mouth next time she says nasty stuff you don't like. Just a light slap to the mouth that will move some u of her lipstick without hurting her sha.
then she slap back and they start fighting
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jun 12, 2020
If she doesn't "have I am sorry in her mouth". Put it there.
If she "throws insulted words 2 you". Dodge them
If she ,"don't have control over her mouth" Lock it

Don't be "scared of after marriage" be afraid of "
"afterlife"
Because with the rate you are going, if You don't MURDER English, It will MURDER you. I just pray "it won't have to grow to violent"
grin grin

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by NCarthur(m): 10:42pm On Jun 12, 2020
This shit are just simple to decode nah!

Your temperament ain't cool with it and do u think it'll be better after marriage?

Bro marry who u can tolerate her flaws� if u can't then look for someone else.

As for me I love hearing am sorry from her and that was why I left my ex cus she hardly apologize and she nags for Africa.

Mehn I build my world the way I love it.. I don't like headache so anybody that'll give me headache I fvck that person off weda Boi or gal

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Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jun 12, 2020
quit asap sad
Re: Should I Quit The Relationship? What Should I Do? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:38am On Jun 13, 2020
Impostor:
then she slap back and they start fighting
Simply reprimand. Unless she does not respect him.

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