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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Prettyvirginia(f): 2:17pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Yeah Twice |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by NobleSeed(m): 2:24pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
[quote author=zuby4real10 post=9063518 love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills. [/quote] hmmmm 1 Like |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by rowland545(m): 2:40pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Prettyvirginia:pls don't put your frustration on me...I'm not d one that took your virginity ![]() |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by chikason68(m): 2:47pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Currently in such situation right now. Though she's 26 but her desperation is way off. Don't blame her though as most of her friends re married but me that is finding it difficult to feed. Gladly told her to accept any suitor that comes her way. Never felt so relieved in my life. Now I can think of better things aside marriage 34 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fatymore(f): 2:47pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
madridguy:lol...your rival |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by madridguy(m): 2:48pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by oO8074130304: 2:54pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Ggv |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by helinues: 2:54pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Hian 17 Likes
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Niorte: 2:56pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Yea...back then It is an ugly story and I feel pity for her. She loved me but I just didn't love her the way I should, got no feelings for her. Anyway, join the webinar tonight as see for yourself how you can earn LEGITIMATELY online
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by dasparrow: 2:56pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
iamyemiakins: No experience. I run far away from marriage desperados and don't give them a chance to get close to me. |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Onyi22(f): 2:56pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Chai!!! See as guys they insult ladies.. Useless guys on Nairaland 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by ekwerendi(m): 2:56pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Yes.... |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by dalass(f): 2:57pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
ProphetofOdin: But you were ready to chook prick and get her pregnant ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by smart3856bwespn: 2:57pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Bb |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Lamanii22(f): 2:58pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Are girls that desperate to get married ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Eillyeillz(m): 3:00pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Yes. And they wasn't nothing funny about it. |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by dododawa1: 3:01pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Am in one now but she is tout 1 Like |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by bonnyhope: 3:02pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Dicktion: Still, there are many of them above that age that are not married despite their desperate moves 4 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Viking007(m): 3:02pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Xj2020: 3:02pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Yes. In my own case she deliberately got pregnant for me and I had no choice than to marry her thinking it was right thing to do. See my story below https://www.nairaland.com/5922955/how-cope-ill-mannered-housewife iamyemiakins: If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open. The Big Brother Show is a perfect example. My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me. My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is even though the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning to date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not a government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house to date My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink, and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets, and mobbing the house at my leisure time. This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had a misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me. I have finally decided to move out of the house for the now and see how things play out. If things don't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility. Mature advice would be highly appreciated. Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house. It would interest the house to know that I am under 40 years old and a PhD. D holder in XXXXX in one of the foremost and most prestigious Federal University in Nigeria where I lectures. I have a First honours in XXXXXX in the same university. I was among the top three best graduating student in my Department and was adjudged best student in WASCE during my secondary school days; Best graduating student in my Department at the OND level before seeking and gaining direct entry admission into a Federal University; Won an award for best student at the 300 level in my Department that year. I was a committed member of Deeper Life despite coming from a Muslim. I still remember how my brother and I used to sneak out the house just for rehearsal that year. I was a member of the youth choir that year and I can still remember playing an active role in evangelizing and teaching search the scripture that year. I still remember going to music class that year and playing an active role in my school fellowship. Everything I am experiencing today is 100% my fault. How could I have fallen in love so blindly and got married to a member of a sect called "Grail Message: In the Light of the truth" without a comprehensive background check. Yes, she got pregnant for me outside wedlock which I take 100% responsibility for but still I shouldn't have allowed her cajoled and pushed me into marrying her talk less of having a court wedding. Do you know that this woman is holding on to the fact that she has children for me and that we did court wedding to do whatever she liked with full support from the mum. Do you know that this woman is very good at reporting everything that happens in my home to her mother? She wants a government job and nothing else. I tried my possible best to get her into my institution without success and she knows this. A woman that has never lack anything since we got married but has never been grateful for once in her life for all I have done to keep the home running. A woman that sees the family problem as solely my problem. I have been a member of Nairaland for years but decided to open this account to keep my identity private. I know for sure that if she happens to stumble on this thread she would definitely put 2+2 together to arrive at the conclusion that I am behind this thread. However, I do not care what she thinks or do anymore. I have already told her yesterday that I am through with her and I mean it. I still believe however that it isn't too late to change the narrative of my life. For all the guys’ out there forming 'I am in love' please and please open your eyes before you take that step to settle down with the woman of your dream as that lady could either make or mar you for life. 76 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by olugabbie(m): 3:03pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Slawormir: You are just a kid. 11 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by SocialJustice: 3:03pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
zuby4real10:You made a mistake by dating a poor girl, maybe you enjoy how her family worships you. This might sound hard but the truth is you should endeavour to date only girls that are in same income bracket with you. You don't get to see a lot of shit unlike when you're dating a low/no income girl. Don't let her big yansh or breast fool you. There are also high earning big yansh and breast. The only draw back with educated, high earning girls in most cases is they see themselves as your equal. 12 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by GraGra247(m): 3:03pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
zuby4real10:Glad you at least sponsored her in school. If a lady is poor and nice there's nothing wrong with helping her. Most guys just use and dump her. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by jaxxy(m): 3:03pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
iamyemiakins: Yes I have meet and I have dated a few unseriously tho. Nobody tells me what to do and rushes me with their programs. Told them they were free to go and do what they liked. There are many people in this world u can marry. I wud like to think. Marriage is not a thing of desperation. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Chookym(m): 3:04pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Blackmoran: Thank God u escaped oo. If nt u would hv veen fathering another mans child without knowing 1 Like |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fairheart(m): 3:05pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
What happened? shestrong: |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by fergie001: 3:05pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
Yes.....it didn't end well. |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by OyinO: 3:06pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
She will destroy you! She will want to use pregnancy to rope you in. Very dangerous relationship when you meet such ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by feelinboyya(m): 3:06pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
she said her mom wants to see me...mo ya japa 6 Likes 1 Share |
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