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2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by JourneytoEL(f): 7:12am On Jun 14, 2020
Cheating on my spouse is a popular term used by most people today to water down the term Adultery. Adultery is the proper term that is why it is used in the bible to describe an illicit affair between a married person and another person who is not their spouse. Spiritually, it is wrong to say I am Cheating on my spouse for the following reasons:

1. You are Cheating on God not your spouse.

Was it your spouse that wrote the commandment, thou shall not commit adultery? No. It was Almighty God as recorded in Ex 20:14 . When you commit adultery you cheat on God because he gave the law not your spouse. Heb 13:4 says, Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

2. You are Cheating your Spirit not your spouse.

Man is a spirit being. We only bear our mortal body on this earth. The moment we die, we take our spirit form to eternity. Adultery, as well as every other sexual immorality is a sin of the flesh. When you commit adultery, you satisfy your flesh (body) and your spirit suffers the risk of eternal damnation. When you commit adultery, you open your soul to attacks of the evil one. When you commit adultery, your soul suffers been separated from God who should be your first love till you repent and resolve not to do it again.
My wife is fat and quarelsome is not an excuse on that day. I did it to avenge my husband's adulterous act is also not an excuse.
Committing adultery will not make your spouse go to hell or suffer earthly separation from God because we all bear our sins.

Adultery as well as other types of sexual immorality is so grave that St. Paul warned strongly against it in[b] 1 Cor 6:18
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.[/b]

How to avoid committing adultery and other types sexual immorality
Adultery is one of the the greatest weapons of the devil in his arsenal. He has been on this game for centuries and with each day, he is getting better. Polyamorous marriages and having side pieces is almost a norm and many Christians are sadly falling for this trap.

1. Denounce every sinful logic that promotes adultery.
E.g "Man is polygamous by nature", "a woman can't be eating the same soup every day", "a side chick saves marriage", "Solomon had many concubines" ( this was under the old law and they also paid some form bride price for them). The mind is very powerful, if it accepts these fallacies then it is one step away from falling. Make up your mind not to allow your body which dies on earth be the reason why your spirit will not enjoy eternal life with God.

2. Stay away from things that introduce lust to your soul.
Be mindful of the kind of things you watch and see. Stay away from music videos, porn, songs and films that promote lust. There are zillions of them out there fighting hard to trap souls with lust. Matt 5:28 says,
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

It is best to listen to gospel songs and messages.
Stay away from ungodly business associates and friends that encourage such lifestyle.
Don't be too close to any member of the opposite sex that is not a family member. James 4:7 says Resist the Devil and he will flee.

3. Stay away from churches that falsify the doctrine of Grace.
Amongst all the heresies been inspired by the devil, the doctrine that your past, present and future sins are covered by Grace so feel free to sin is the worst of all lies invented by the devil himself. And most Christians keep falling for it, even though deep down they know the truth, but continue because it is very convenient for their lifestyles.
Eph 5:5 says, For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.

4. Read and understand your Bible frequently.
Reading, proclaiming and absorbing the Word of God is one of the most effective ways to keep the spirit of lust away.

5. Pray fervently to overcome adultery
Prayer, is the master key.

Always pray to God for the Grace not to commit adultery or fall for a temptation to commit adultery (this is what Grace does not the opposite). Pray with faith and Our Lord will answer you. 1 Cor 10:13 says,
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.


If you have fallen for the sin of adultery, approach God and beg for his forgiveness. 1 Jn 1:9 says, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Make up your mind not to do it again. Stay as far away from your adulterous partner and remove anything that introduces lust to you. There is no repentance in the grave.

In the physical, committing adultery may affect your spouse health (HIV & STD) and emotional wellbeing. But, that is little when compared with how betrayed God feels and what your spirit gets to experience.

I end with 1 Cor 6:9-10, Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.

He who has ears, let him hear

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Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by IceLip: 7:15am On Jun 14, 2020
Okay
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by Mrkcee(m): 7:20am On Jun 14, 2020
Good piece.
.....Happy Sunday everyone!
Pls stay safe, coroner virus is real. Only attend Sunday service if it's safe, if there's good social distancing practiced. If not, please worship from home.
God bless you!
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by JourneytoEL(f): 7:22am On Jun 14, 2020
Happy Sunday everyone
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 7:26am On Jun 14, 2020
I won't commit adultery! I will just marry more wives.

Exodus 21:10
If he takes another wife to himself, he shall not diminish her food, her clothing, or her marital rights.

Deuteronomy 21:15-17
“If a man has two wives, the one loved and the other unloved, and both the loved and the unloved have borne him children, and if the firstborn son belongs to the unloved, then on the day when he assigns his possessions as an inheritance to his sons, he may not treat the son of the loved as the firstborn in preference to the son of the unloved, who is the firstborn, but he shall acknowledge the firstborn, the son of the unloved, by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the firstfruits of his strength. The right of the firstborn is his.

Isaiah 4:1
And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach.”
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by malvisguy212: 7:38am On Jun 14, 2020
Our body is the temple (church) of God. the Church was identified as the bride betrothed to Christ. Human
marriage between a husband and wife was intended to portray the marriage of Jesus Christ to the Church (body).

Matthew 5:31-32
“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let
him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say
to you that everyone who divorces his wife,
EXCEPT on the ground of SEXUAL IMMORALITY ,
makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries
a divorced woman commits adultery

just as sexual sin separate us from our husband /wife. When you defile your body, you are separated from christ.

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Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by JourneytoEL(f): 7:46am On Jun 14, 2020
malvisguy212:
Our body is the temple (church) of God. the Church was identified as the bride betrothed to Christ. Human
marriage between a husband and wife was intended to portray the marriage of Jesus Christ to the Church (body).

Matthew 5:31-32
“It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let
him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say
to you that everyone who divorces his wife,
EXCEPT on the ground of SEXUAL IMMORALITY ,
makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries
a divorced woman commits adultery

just as sexual sin separate us from our husband /wife. When you defile your body, you are separated from christ.
lovely analysis. You are blessed

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Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by malvisguy212: 7:49am On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:
I won't commit adultery! I will just marry more wives.

Exodus 21:10
If he takes another wife to himself, he shall not diminish her food, her clothing, or her marital rights.

Deuteronomy 21:15-17
“If a man has two wives, the one loved and the other unloved, and both the loved and the unloved have borne him children, and if the firstborn son belongs to the unloved, then on the day when he assigns his possessions as an inheritance to his sons, he may not treat the son of the loved as the firstborn in preference to the son of the unloved, who is the firstborn, but he shall acknowledge the firstborn, the son of the unloved, by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the firstfruits of his strength. The right of the firstborn is his.

Isaiah 4:1
And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach.”
Isaiah 4:1. Is a prophecy and not a commandment, however we are in the dispensation of God, Thoes laws have served there purpose.

Zaid is Muhammad adopted son. :

“Bear testimony, all ye that are
present. ZAID IS MY SON ; I will be
his heir and he shall be
mine.” (W. Muir, The Life of
Muhammad, ed. T.H. Wair, p.
35).
Surah 33:37-38: “And when you
said to him to whom Allah had
shown favor and to whom you
had shown a favor: Keep your
wife to yourself and be careful of
(your duty to) Allah; and you
concealed in your soul what
Allah would bring to light, and
you feared men, and Allah had a
greater right that you should
fear Him. But when Zaid had
accomplished his want of her,
We gave her to you as a wife,
so that there should be no
difficulty for the believers in
respect of the wives of their
adopted sons , when they have
accomplished their want of them;
and Allah’s command shall be
performed. There is no harm in
the Prophet doing that which
Allah has ordained for him; such
has been the course of Allah
with respect to those who have
gone before; and the command
of Allah is a decree that is made
absolute.” (Shakir)

According to the above Qur’anic verses, Allah himself ordained the marriage between Muhammad and Zainab while she was still the wife of his adopted son. For Allah to ordain the marriage between Muhammad and Zainab, he must have pre-ordained the divorce to take place between Zaid and his wife, since only then it is possible for Muhammad to marry her. If the
divorce is pre-ordained, then the cause leading to the divorce must also be pre-ordained. Since the cause for the divorce was Muhammad’s desire for his daughter-in-law, it must then be Allah who pre-ordained
Muhammad to develop a wrong desire for his son’s wife. This wrong desire then led to the divorcing of his son’s wife, which finally culminated in Muhammad’s marriage to HER. WITH THIS ACTS MUHAMMAD DISQUALIFIED HIMSELF AS A PROPHET.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by malvisguy212: 7:52am On Jun 14, 2020
JourneytoEL:
lovely analysis. You are blessed
And you too bro
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by Sheunma: 8:01am On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:
I won't commit adultery! I will just marry more wives.

Exodus 21:10
If he takes another wife to himself, he shall not diminish her food, her clothing, or her marital rights.

Deuteronomy 21:15-17
“If a man has two wives, the one loved and the other unloved, and both the loved and the unloved have borne him children, and if the firstborn son belongs to the unloved, then on the day when he assigns his possessions as an inheritance to his sons, he may not treat the son of the loved as the firstborn in preference to the son of the unloved, who is the firstborn, but he shall acknowledge the firstborn, the son of the unloved, by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the firstfruits of his strength. The right of the firstborn is his.

Isaiah 4:1
And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach.”
I won't commit adultery! I will just marry more husbands.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by bayotwice(f): 8:05am On Jun 14, 2020
Orisirisi
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 8:40am On Jun 14, 2020
Sheunma:
I won't commit adultery! I will just marry more husbands.

You should quote verses too na!
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by Sheunma: 8:42am On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:


You should quote verses too na!
Quote your own verses.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 8:46am On Jun 14, 2020
malvisguy212:
Isaiah 4:1. Is a prophecy and not a commandment, however we are in the dispensation of God, Thoes laws have served there purpose.

Zaid is Muhammad adopted son. :

“Bear testimony, all ye that are
present. ZAID IS MY SON ; I will be
his heir and he shall be
mine.” (W. Muir, The Life of
Muhammad, ed. T.H. Wair, p.
35).
Surah 33:37-38: “And when you
said to him to whom Allah had
shown favor and to whom you
had shown a favor: Keep your
wife to yourself and be careful of
(your duty to) Allah; and you
concealed in your soul what
Allah would bring to light, and
you feared men, and Allah had a
greater right that you should
fear Him. But when Zaid had
accomplished his want of her,
We gave her to you as a wife,
so that there should be no
difficulty for the believers in
respect of the wives of their
adopted sons , when they have
accomplished their want of them;
and Allah’s command shall be
performed. There is no harm in
the Prophet doing that which
Allah has ordained for him; such
has been the course of Allah
with respect to those who have
gone before; and the command
of Allah is a decree that is made
absolute.” (Shakir)

According to the above Qur’anic verses, Allah himself ordained the marriage between Muhammad and Zainab while she was still the wife of his adopted son. For Allah to ordain the marriage between Muhammad and Zainab, he must have pre-ordained the divorce to take place between Zaid and his wife, since only then it is possible for Muhammad to marry her. If the
divorce is pre-ordained, then the cause leading to the divorce must also be pre-ordained. Since the cause for the divorce was Muhammad’s desire for his daughter-in-law, it must then be Allah who pre-ordained
Muhammad to develop a wrong desire for his son’s wife. This wrong desire then led to the divorcing of his son’s wife, which finally culminated in Muhammad’s marriage to HER. WITH THIS ACTS MUHAMMAD DISQUALIFIED HIMSELF AS A PROPHET.

Zaid was an adopted son and not a biological son! Adoption does not join by blood!

Where did Jesus forbid anything?
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 8:47am On Jun 14, 2020
Sheunma:
Quote your own verses.

It is quoted below already.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by malvisguy212: 10:05am On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:


Zaid was an adopted son and not a biological son! Adoption does not join by blood!

Where did Jesus forbid anything?
smh. If you can't notice the deception here, then your case is complicated.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 10:43am On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:


Zaid was an adopted son and not a biological son! Adoption does not join by blood!

Zaid had been living with Mohammed since he was 8 years old, Mohammed was a father figure and by Arab's tradition that time, Zaid was entitled to every right Mohammed's biological children were entitled to.

Because of a single woman, Muhammad destroyed the tradition of adoption and its good privileges in the Arab world, just so that Mohammed could take over the wife of Zaid and make it legal.

If you don't see that as evil, then it's okay that means you can also do the same thing: take over the wife of someone who grew up with you and saw you as a father figure and role model.

The same Quran tell us that Mohammed had concealed the thought of marrying Zainab in his heart even before Zaid divorced her.

Muhammad was already coveting Zaid's wife. Muhammad broke the law of the true holy God that said "don't covet your neighbor's wife" instead of Allah to prove to Mohammed that he was a holy god, he proved us wrong by endorsing Mohammed's Zina of the heart and covetousness. Allah is a morally corrupt god.


Allah relegated women into a mere commodity by saying he married Zainab to Muhammad when Zaid was no longer in need of her.


"And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, Keep your wife and fear Allah, while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished."
(QS. Al-Ahzaab 33: Verse 37)
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by JourneytoEL(f): 1:14pm On Jun 14, 2020
1 Corinthians 6:13 

“Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food”—and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.

2 Timothy 2:22

So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 1:31pm On Jun 14, 2020
malvisguy212:
smh. If you can't notice the deception here, then your case is complicated.

Says who? Someone who believes his Lord sent his only son to be killed on a pole for the world!

Brainless!

Zaid has no blood connection with Muhammad!

But Jesus wey be God's son was sentenced to death by hanging!
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 1:38pm On Jun 14, 2020
advocatejare:

Zaid had been living with Mohammed since he was 8 years old, Mohammed was a father figure and by Arab's tradition that time, Zaid was entitled to every right Mohammed's biological children were entitled to.

Because of a single woman, Muhammad destroyed the tradition of adoption and its good privileges in the Arab world, just so that Mohammed could take over the wife of Zaid and make it legal.

If you don't see that as evil, then it's okay that means you can also do the same thing: take over the wife of someone who grew up with you and saw you as a father figure and role model.

The same Quran tell us that Mohammed had concealed the thought of marrying Zainab in his heart even before Zaid divorced her.

Muhammad was already coveting Zaid's wife. Muhammad broke the law of the true holy God that said "don't covet your neighbor's wife" instead of Allah to prove to Mohammed that he was a holy god, he proved us wrong by endorsing Mohammed's Zina of the heart and covetousness. Allah is a morally corrupt god.


Allah relegated women into a mere commodity by saying he married Zainab to Muhammad when Zaid was no longer in need of her.





Same old falsehood! Same old stuff and nothing new!

God sent his son to be sacrificed/killed/hanged to death for the sins of the world...bla... blah...blah!

Have a son and kill him too! What kinda father kills his son for anything at all?
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 2:13pm On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:


Same old falsehood! Same old stuff and nothing new!
That means you're saying your Quran is falsehoods cos I've proven it to you in your Quran. Yo


Have a son and kill him too! What kinda father kills his son for anything at all?
If you cannot show in the Bible where Yahweh killed Christ, then you remain cursed forever for lying against the Holy God.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 10:20pm On Jun 14, 2020
advocatejare:
That means you're saying your Quran is falsehoods cos I've proven it to you in your Quran. Yo

You should quote verses that equate adopted son to biological son!


advocatejare:

If you cannot show in the Bible where Yahweh killed Christ, then you remain cursed for lying against the Holy God.

OK explain Isaiah 53:10 below if na lie I dey lie!
"Yet it was the LORD's will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the LORD makes his life an offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the LORD will prosper in his hand."

In the Bible, Jesus was sent by God the father to be an offering to be murdered/hanged...

I'm a father and can't imagine what kinda father can do this!
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 11:27pm On Jun 14, 2020
AntiChristian:


You should quote verses that equate adopted son to biological son!
Kindly explain what the bolded mean

"And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, Keep your wife and fear Allah, while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished."
(QS. Al-Ahzaab 33: Verse 37)





OK explain Isaiah 53:10 below if na lie I dey lie!
"Yet it was the LORD's will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the LORD makes his life an offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the LORD will prosper in his hand."

So where is the word "killed" as you falsely said?

The word that was even translated as "crush" is
דַּכְּאוֹ֙ which means to bruise and not "to kill." God didn't kill Jesus. You lied against God, you know what your punishment is.


In the Bible, Jesus was sent by God the father to be an offering to be murdered/hanged...

I'm a father and can't imagine what kinda father can do this!

The father that believes in the free will of anyone to choose whatever they want to do after they must have been informed about the consequences of their actions/inactions.

The same God of Moses that Muhammad formed familiarity with and claimed to be serving


He's not the type of god that leaves important things that have to do with salvation of mankind but rather focused on justifying how Muhammad with many wives could take over the only wife of Zaid his adopted son.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 9:16am On Jun 15, 2020
advocatejare:
Kindly explain what the bolded mean

"And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, Keep your wife and fear Allah, while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished."
(QS. Al-Ahzaab 33: Verse 37)

The Prophet married the divorced wife of Zaid.....

I am still looking forward to your verse that made adopted son equal to biological son!

advocatejare:

So where is the word "killed" as you falsely said?

The word that was even translated as "crush" is
דַּכְּאוֹ֙ which means to bruise and not "to kill." God didn't kill Jesus. You lied against God, you know what your punishment is.

Actually Jesus was sent to be killed by his father. When you read John 3:16 with Isaiah 53:10 previously given you should then understand.

For God so love the world that He gave his only/begotten/unique son.....

For what did he give his son? To be bruised, crushed, mocked and then killed!

When a ritualist takes ransom to his dibia/Babalawo, the blood of the sacrifice (Animal/human) is usually used to ransom his life.

That's why Matthew says in Matthew 20:28, “The Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Who sent Jesus: John said in John 17:3: Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.

advocatejare:
The father that believes in the free will of anyone to choose whatever they want to do after they must have been informed about the consequences of their actions/inactions.

The same God of Moses that Muhammad formed familiarity with and claimed to be serving

He's not the type of god that leaves important things that have to do with salvation of mankind but rather focused on justifying how Muhammad with many wives could take over the only wife of Zaid his adopted son.


Why did your Lord save the Biblical Lot from homosexuals but forgot to prevent his daughters from sleeping with him?
Tell me, did Yahweh make a mistake or didn't know such will happen?

Apparently the Lord permitted incest but not Homo! Your Lord leaving important things.....
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 9:58am On Jun 15, 2020
AntiChristian:


The Prophet married the divorced wife of Zaid.....
That Muhammad had been coveting before Zaid divorced her.

I am still looking forward to your verse that made adopted son equal to biological son!
scroll up and explain the bolded



Actually Jesus was sent to be killed by his father. When you read John 3:16 with Isaiah 53:10 previously given you should then understand.

For God so love the world that He gave his only/begotten/unique son.....

For what did he give his son? To be bruised, crushed, mocked and then killed!
...that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life.
You're adding to the word of God, he has said that anyone who does what you're doing will have more calamities added to his calamities

When a ritualist takes ransom to his dibia/Babalawo, the blood of the sacrifice (Animal/human) is usually used to ransom his life.
Just like you slaughter Rams and other animals every year to sacrifice to Allah while facing Qibla during eid al-Adha, just like you make animal sacrifice to Allah when doing aqiqah, house warming and the rest.


Who sent Jesus: John said in John 17:3: Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.

If you cant show where Yahweh killed Jesus in the Bible as you alleged , then you're cursed for lying and adding to God's word



Why did your Lord save the Biblical Lot from homosexuals but forgot to prevent his daughters from sleeping with him?
Tell me, did Yahweh make a mistake or didn't know such will happen?
God never endorsed that act in the Bible like Allah endorsed Muhammad taking over the wife of his adopted son, Zaid. Zaid saw Muhammad as a father figure but the same mentor took his only wife from him
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 11:11am On Jun 15, 2020
AntiChristian:



I am still looking forward to your verse that made adopted son equal to biological son!
if you're still feigning ignorance despite how clear Quran 33:37 is, let's see what your number one Tafsir Ibn Kathir has to say about Zayd:

"adopted Zayd bin Harithah, may Allah be pleased with him, and he was known as Zayd, the son of Muhammad. Allah put a stop to this when He said:
﴿ وَمَا جَعَلَ أَدۡعِيَآءَكُمۡ أَبۡنَآءَكُمۡ‌ۚ ﴾
(nor has He made your adopted sons your real sons) until:
﴿ ٱدۡعُوهُمۡ لِأَبَآٮِٕهِمۡ هُوَ أَقۡسَطُ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ‌ۚ ﴾
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 11:16am On Jun 15, 2020
advocatejare:
if you're still feigning ignorance despite how clear Quran 33:37 is, let's see what your number one Tafsir Ibn Kathir has to say about Zayd:

"adopted Zayd bin Harithah, may Allah be pleased with him, and he was known as Zayd, the son of Muhammad. Allah put a stop to this when He said:
﴿ وَمَا جَعَلَ أَدۡعِيَآءَكُمۡ أَبۡنَآءَكُمۡ‌ۚ ﴾
(nor has He made your adopted sons your real sons) until:
﴿ ٱدۡعُوهُمۡ لِأَبَآٮِٕهِمۡ هُوَ أَقۡسَطُ عِندَ ٱللَّهِ‌ۚ ﴾


Was known as…….. but not his biological son?

Find verses that say he was given birth to by the Prophet!
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by AntiChristian: 11:48am On Jun 15, 2020
advocatejare:
That Muhammad had been coveting before Zaid divorced her.

scroll up and explain the bolded

Muhammad was never like the Biblical David that killed to marry a woman!

advocatejare:

...that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life.
You're adding to the word of God, he has said that anyone who does what you're doing will have more calamities added to his calamities

Why can't you pick all the verses together? What are you afraid of?

1. Isaiah 53:10 The Lord made his life as an offering for sin= being killed/Murdered/hanged
"Yet it was the LORD's will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the LORD makes his life an offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the LORD will prosper in his hand."

2 John 17:3: Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.

3.Matthew 20:28 “The Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

advocatejare:

Just like you slaughter Rams and other animals every year to sacrifice to Allah while facing Qibla during eid al-Adha, just like you make animal sacrifice to Allah when doing aqiqah, house warming and the rest.

Abraham slaughtered Ram in place of Ishmael. Even two birds was slaughtered for Jesus in Luke. Christians too kill ram or whatever after giving birth!
Seems you don't really know much about your Bible
advocatejare:

If you cant show where Yahweh killed Jesus in the Bible as you alleged , then you're cursed for lying and adding to God's word

Shown above
advocatejare:

God never endorsed that act in the Bible like Allah endorsed Muhammad taking over the wife of his adopted son, Zaid. Zaid saw Muhammad as a father figure but the same mentor took his only wife from him
Zaid divorced her already! So she is no more his wife.
God did not endorse homosexuals and he killed them. But he blessed incest giving them kids! Did he forget or he was not aware that they will do such actions? Homosexual is forbidden but incest is permitted to Yahweh!
And you lied he didn't endorse it! Stop the lies please!
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 4:15pm On Jun 15, 2020
AntiChristian:


Muhammad was never like the Biblical David that killed to marry a woman!
And to prove that the holy God didn't support such a sinful act, David was punished for his crime but the immoral Allah endorsed Muhammad's action and also rewarded him by giving him numerous list of the women he could marry and sleep with. It was so bad that before any muslim man could declare an interest to marry any woman they had to find out if Muhammad was not interested in marrying the same woman first. Muhammad's major mission was to kill, steal and to destroy like the Biblical thief and in addition to sleep with numerous women and he did everything.



Why can't you pick all the verses together? What are you afraid of?

1. Isaiah 53:10 The Lord made his life as an offering for sin= being killed/Murdered/hanged
"Yet it was the LORD's will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the LORD makes his life an offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the LORD will prosper in his hand."

2 John 17:3: Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.

3.Matthew 20:28 “The Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
No christian will deny that Jesus died for their sin, no christian will deny that his life was ransomed for us and that was why Jesus declared on the cross that 'it is finished' our animal sacrifices is finished because he ransomed his life. The bone of contention here is that you lied and added to the words of God (and hence your calamities) by saying that God killed him, God didn't kill him, humans killed him and that was made possible because he chose to die for us, and glory be to God, Jesus resurrected again as death couldn't hold him down. He defeated death, he had the last laugh over death. Unfortunately, same cant be said about Muhammad who died and despite not buried for 3 days(because his followers were not at peace and were busy fighting over who will be Muhammad's successor) he remained dead forever and rotten in the grave, death defeated him and death had the last laugh on him and till date his followers are not at peace with one another, Shias always at war with Sunni and at each other's neck, shedding each other's blood.


Abraham slaughtered Ram in place of Ishmael.
Abraham did it only once and it was symbolic as God stopped him from sacrificing Isaac (the Quran never claimed it was Ishmael that Abraham wanted to sacrifice, that was a lie cooked up by your muslims) and God provided an animal in place of Isaac and the prophecy was fulfilled when Christ's life was ransomed for our lives and that ended the era of animal sacrifice forever, but Muhammad that was born more than 500 years after Christ had resurrected came to take you to the era of animal sacrifice because as demon that tormented him in the cave of Hira lied to him.

Even two birds was slaughtered for Jesus in Luke.
That was Jewish tradition, all those ceremonies ended the moment Christ died and resurrected.

Christians too kill ram or whatever after giving birth!
Christians are not mandated to kill anything as sacrifice during naming ceremony, those that kill any form of animals don't call it sacrifice as you call Aqiqah which is is the "Islamic tradition of the sacrifice of an animal on the occasion of a child's birth." in which you must kill the animal while facing the direction of Kaaba, the home and shrine of your idol, Allah.
Christians that kill animals kill to celebrate and feed people who come to rejoice with them and it is not a sacrifice neither is it mandatory, you may choose to buy frozen chicken or even fish and you may share ordinary biscuit and soft drinks which is contrary to islamic sacrifice which is compulsory to "pa sunna"



Zaid divorced her already! So she is no more his wife.
And his adopted father married her. The leader of the islamic community that ought to be a peacemaker didn't call Zainab to order to respect her husband and to stop them from going on with the divorce. The Quran even showed us how insincere Muhammad's advice to Zaid to keep his wife was because we were made to know that while muhammad was giving that advice he had alread concealed in his heart the desire to marry Zainab. Jesus preached against divorce and only permitted it if there is adultery on the part of the couple, Muhammad endorsed divorce even when there was nothing like adultery but just because he wanted to marry the wife of his adopted son. Antichristian for justifying what Muhammad did, that means you can also do the same: marry the wife of someone who had lived with you since he was 8, that you adopted and that by tradition of adoption of that time, people call him your son.

God did not endorse homosexuals and he killed them. But he blessed incest giving them kids! Did he forget or he was not aware that they will do such actions? Homosexual is forbidden but incest is permitted to Yahweh!
He's a God that sends rain of both the evil and the good. He allows you to enjoy the consequences of your action.

The incest happened for many reasons, you would have known if you were really a christian before and not only a church goer that only swallow what fake pastors feed you with in churches instead of you reading the scriptures by yourself.

Lot out of greed chose a very fertile land rather than allowing God to direct him, the land later became Sodom and Gomorrah. When God wanted to destroy that city and God decided to save Lot and his family, Lot's wife disobeyed God's command by looking back and she became a pillar of salt. The act of disobedience made Lot to be left with only her daughters without their mother. The daughters then decided to commit an abominable act without their father's consent. If their parent had taught them the ways of the Lord, such wouldn't have happened, if their mother didnt disobey God such wouldnt have happened. You cant blame God for your stupidity, whatever a man sows he will reap


And you lied he didn't endorse it! Stop the lies please!
Show the evidence that God endorsed it, if you cant it means you've added to the words of God and you know the consequences.
Re: 2 Reasons Why Cheating On Your Spouse Is Not In The Bible. by advocatejare(m): 4:51pm On Jun 15, 2020
AntiChristian:


Was known as…….. but not his biological son?

Find verses that say he was given birth to by the Prophet!
If he was given birth to by Muhammad, he wouldn't have been referred to as an adopted son. Be applying common sense na.

Now, back to my claim that an adopted son enjoyed the same right as a biological son, i will give you the proof:

"Narrated `Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) Abu Hudhaifa, one of those who fought the battle of Badr, with Allah's Apostle adopted Salim as his son and married his niece Hind bint Al-Wahd bin `Utba to him' and Salim was a freed slave of an Ansari woman. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) also adopted Zaid as his son. In the Prelslamic period of ignorance the custom was that, if one adopted a son, the people would call him by the name of the adopted-father whom he would inherit as well, till Allah revealed: "Call them (adopted sons) By (the names of) their fathers." (33.5)
-Sahih al-Bukhari 5:59:335


"Narrated `Aisha:
Abu Hudhaifa bin `Utba bin Rabi`a bin `Abdi Shams who had witnessed the battle of Badr along with the Prophet (ﷺ) adopted Salim as his son, to whom he married his niece, Hind bint Al-Walid bin `Utba bin Rabi`a; and Salim was the freed slave of an Ansar woman, just as the Prophet (ﷺ) had adopted Zaid as his son. It was the custom in the Pre-lslamic Period that if somebody adopted a boy, the people would call him the son of the adoptive father and he would be the latter's heir. But when Allah revealed the Divine Verses: 'Call them by (the names of) their fathers . . . your freed-slaves,' (33.5) the adopted persons were called by their fathers' names. The one whose father was not known, would be regarded as a Maula and your brother in religion. Later on Sahla bint Suhail bin `Amr Al-Quraishi Al-`Amiri-- and she was the wife of Abu- Hudhaifa bin `Utba--came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! We used to consider Salim as our (adopted) son, and now Allah has revealed what you know (regarding adopted sons)." The sub-narrator then mentioned the rest of the narration."
-Sahih al-Bukhari 7:62:25


"Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:
We used not to call Zaid bin Haritha the freed slave of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) except Zaid bin Muhammad till the Qu'anic Verse was revealed: "Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers. That is more than just in the Sight of Allah." (33.5)
-Sahih al-Bukhari6:60:305


'Narrated 'Aishah:
It was narrated from 'Aishah that Abu Hudhaifah bin 'Utbah bin Rabi'ah bin 'Abd Shams --who was one of those who had been present at Badr with the Messenger of Allah-- adopted Salim and married him to his brother's daughter, Hind bint Al-Walid bin 'Utbah bin Rabi'ah bin 'Abd Shams, and he was a freed slave of an Ansari woman --as the Messenger of Allah had adopted Zaid. During the Jahiliyyah, if a man adopted someone, the people would call him his son, and he would inherit from his legacy, until Allah, the Mighty and Sublime, revealed about that: 'Call them by (the names of) their fathers, that is more just with Allah. But if you know not their fathers' (names, call them) your brothers in Faith and Mawalikum (your freed slaves)." Then if a person's father's name was not known, he would be their freed slave and brother in faith.
- Sunan an-Nasa'i 3223

if someone bears your name as his surname and would inherit your property and legacy, is called your heir, what other more benefit or right does a biological child enjoy that is above this?

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