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If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Nokodes831: 8:04am On Jun 16, 2020
Am thinking of collecting my material things from her either by force or violate
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Goldenkrezi: 8:14am On Jun 16, 2020
Y u wan collect ur things again... as u don break up let bygones be bygones

ABI was ur past relationships built on materialistic things?
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by longetivity(m): 8:14am On Jun 16, 2020
Did she force you to give her the things you gave her
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Ladylite: 8:16am On Jun 16, 2020
Nokodes831:
Am thinking of collecting my material things from her either by force or violate

It's so immature.
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Ladikwa(m): 8:17am On Jun 16, 2020
Yes of course, over sense self.
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Yellowblack: 8:18am On Jun 16, 2020
It depends on you and the things....

You gave it to her because you guys were dating right??

ND you guys aren't dating anymore... You can collect your things back...�
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by opera1(m): 8:33am On Jun 16, 2020
IT ONLY MAKE SENSE TO COLLECT UR THINZ ONLY IF U DIDN'T KISS, HUG, ROMANCE OR HAVE ANYTHIN WITH HER. BUT IT'S SENSELESS IF OTHERWISE
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by shamsin6300(m): 8:35am On Jun 16, 2020
Depend on the relationship you had & also depend on how you guys breakup. Is it mutual breakup or you exchange blow first. cheesy
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Nobody: 8:37am On Jun 16, 2020
Lol...it's obvious she dumped u.....the breakup really pepper this bros cheesy
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by SavageBoy: 9:01am On Jun 16, 2020
Heistman:
Lol...it's obvious she dumped u.....the breakup really pepper this bros cheesy

As in ehngrin

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Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by ifytrik(m): 9:24am On Jun 16, 2020
It doesn't make any sense to retrive what u both for her and if u do it u will regret it just the way am regreting ryt nw. Back In 2015, there was this beautifull girl i was dating, she loved me somuch and i loved her more than anybody else, i bought a phone for her, but to my greatest suprise, she started loosing interest on me 2months later, i couldnt sleep, i couldn't eat proper, i tried the best i could to regain her heart but it seems her mind was made up already, we met few days later and she told me to 4get about her that its over between us, i beged her for minute but she refused so i collected both the phone and simcard i bought for her. Few months later, she called me and apologized for all d things she did to me in the past, i still loved her so we continued dating but this time our relationship didnt last because she usually get angry when ever she remember what i did to her in the past, till date we still love each other but we just cant have a relationship because of what i did in the past.
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by paulolee(m): 9:25am On Jun 16, 2020
even when dating....i hardly put eyes on anything dt av given to bea...i give her means say i pass d tin na...jus forget am no matter how hard or costly..
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by holocron: 9:55am On Jun 16, 2020
The maxim is never give out what you can not part with and forget. Always forget what you give.

That being said, in the game of love (A.K.A battle of the sexes) it's sex for the male against material resources for the female. So denial of sex might prompt a temptation to retrieve material resources if it is believed to be far in excess of the sex received.

However such attempts are dangerous and could backfire because in the universe of the womenfolk even a round of sex is a fair and sufficient exchange for all the riches of the whole world were it to belong to a single man. So she may resist and fight this 'injustice' with her last blood, or worse still, seek to recover what she has lost by subterfuge, and failing that revenge.

It hardly ever goes well for a man to attempt to retrieve resources. Even when successful it might turn out to be a pyrric victory. Best bet is to count your losses, work to recoup your losses, and in future follow the MAXIM of NEVER GIVE WHAT YOU CANNOT FORGET.
Re: If One Break Up With One Gf Those It Make Sense To Retrieve Things You Hv Given by Escabado: 10:02am On Jun 16, 2020
Nokodes831:
Am thinking of collecting my material things from her either by force or violate

Can you name of the few things you give her and did for her so I can advice you properly

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