Good morning, really confused on what to next because am seriously in need of you people advice.
Am 20years old girl from a separate home living with my mom currently, met a guy two years ago we started dating during that time he love me so much and his always there for me, as times goes on I started living in his house got pregnant for him like two times in which we get rid of, the third pregnancy now came I insist am not having abortion due to the warning I have heard spiritually, he agreed that we should keep the pregnancy and after nine months I put to bed with a bouncing babe girl..... So along the line he started misbehaving, he will bring many girls to the house after I might have gone to where am serving as an apprentice in a saloon, I did not even bother I trust him and I haven't caught him red handed so that Faith day I was inside the house with my nine months old baby he brought one of his side chick inside the house and he told me to cook for them which I did he ask me to carry my baby and leave the room which I did, after some minutes they came out and he left which I know he came to have sex with her in our bed
To cut the long story short we fought several times and we would still reconciled, so this last fight that made me left his house was that after his done smoking his weed he will come home and start fucking me with all the strength for like 3 hours I will be crying and shouting he will cover my mouth with the pillow, he did that several time before I left his house. Anywhere he sees me he always beat the hell out of me for good one year he never send I and the baby money, even to send money for his child he never did I do beg him several times to just at least send us money so I can enroll the baby in school...... recently I met a guy he made me know what love is and he was busy taking care of me and my baby girl but he never allow me to pack to his house he said if i did that he will be tired of me which I understand ......I bought a smartphone phone and this my baby father collected the phone from me and still beat me on it saying instead of me to look unkept that am looking beautiful more than before i told him I just met a wonderful guy I think that is what triggered him to collect my phone,when I told this guy I just met he told me to arrest him with civil defence but not with police because civil defence are still more feared than police, he Said I should tell them all that had been happening he said with that he will behave himself but people has been telling me not to arrest him because his the father of my child my new guy told me I should not mind them because none of them has ever give me anything since I broke up with him that I should not hear what they are saying

Am now confused should I do what he said I should do or not .....or any advice on what I can am sorry that my story is so long just have to short is like that ....

Girl with an (m) moniker.


Guy, just carry your wahala dey go

Wow!

1. You are only 20yrs old
2. You met the baby daddy two years ago when you were 18yrs
3. You moved into his house and got preggers thrice before deciding to keep the 3rd one.
4. Surely 9months later you had a baby girl
5. 9 months into your baby's life he started misbehaving so much so that you moved.
6. One year later when your baby was 1yr 9months old, the guy still doesn't take care of the baby but rather beat you upandown.

Fast forward to now that you're still 20yrs, you met a new guy whom you're ready to move in with but he was stalling.... It is well. All of these life altering things listed above happened within the last two years? Please calm down and stay away from trouble. Stay at home with your mother, learn your work well and get empowered. As per the baby daddy abusing you, report to the police. Good luck.

BuhariNaWah:
Girl with an (m) moniker.


Guy, just carry your wahala dey go

Seun don begin dey pay peanuts to content developers

Buy him Playstation 5 and celebrate the birthday lovingly. I'm sure he will appreciate it

Emmawolex22:
Good morning, really confused on what to next because am seriously in need of you people advice.
Am 20years old girl from a separate home living with my mom currently, met a guy two years ago we started dating during that time he love me so much and his always there for me, as times goes on I started living in his house got pregnant for him like two times in which we get rid of, the third pregnancy now came I insist am not having abortion due to the warning I have heard spiritually, he agreed that we should keep the pregnancy and after nine months I put to bed with a bouncing babe girl..... So along the line he started misbehaving, he will bring many girls to the house after I might have gone to where am serving as an apprentice in a saloon, I did not even bother I trust him and I haven't caught him red handed so that Faith day I was inside the house with my nine months old baby he brought one of his side chick inside the house and he told me to cook for them which I did he ask me to carry my baby and leave the room which I did, after some minutes they came out and he left which I know he came to have sex with her in our bed
To cut the long story short we fought several times and we would still reconciled, so this last fight that made me left his house was that after his done smoking his weed he will come home and start fucking me with all the strength for like 3 hours I will be crying and shouting he will cover my mouth with the pillow, he did that several time before I left his house. Anywhere he sees me he always beat the hell out of me for good one year he never send I and the baby money, even to send money for his child he never did I do beg him several times to just at least send us money so I can enroll the baby in school...... recently I met a guy he made me know what love is and he was busy taking care of me and my baby girl but he never allow me to pack to his house he said if i did that he will be tired of me which I understand ......I bought a smartphone phone and this my baby father collected the phone from me and still beat me on it saying instead of me to look unkept that am looking beautiful more than before i told him I just met a wonderful guy I think that is what triggered him to collect my phone,when I told this guy I just met he told me to arrest him with civil defence but not with police because civil defence are still more feared than police, he Said I should tell them all that had been happening he said with that he will behave himself but people has been telling me not to arrest him because his the father of my child my new guy told me I should not mind them because none of them has ever give me anything since I broke up with him that I should not hear what they are saying

Am now confused should I do what he said I should do or not .....or any advice on what I can am sorry that my story is so long just have to short is like that ....

Na God catch u.... Suffer ur suffer alone..


You knew who he was but u still decided to be with... Good luck..

Keep jumping from one dick to the other u hear

You're not confused. You're the one confusing confusion. Even the gender you attached to your moniker can attest to it.

Oluneutral:
You're not confused. You're the one confusing confusion. Even the gender you attached to your moniker can attest to it.

Hahahahahahaha

What plans do you have for your life?

Have you finished your training?

How are you taking care of your daughter?
I hope you know that you are responsible for her and not just looking for a man to care for you?

Where are your parents?


Anyway report your ex to the police except you enjoy the beatings and it is some sick sexual fetish.


Stop jumping from man to man and focus on growing.

Stop having unprotected sex

Hmmmm...Bros I Dey Come

Mscheeeeeeeew

I can't finish reading it. It is like a tale from hell. I will be back when I have the strength to deal with more of the drama on this forum. My energy reserves are exhausted for today. Let me get back to sanity now. I hope someone else can help, I really do.

Are you a female version of Bob?

Hathor5:
I can't finish reading it. It is like a tale from hell. I will be back when I have the strength to deal with more of the drama on this forum. My energy reserves are exhausted for today. Let me get back to sanity now. I hope someone else can help, I really do.

Dunno why I am laughing

Dyt:




Dunno why I am laughing

My face again

Hathor5:


My face again

You know right?

Dyt:


You know right?

I know.
Good night sis.

Timbers

Booked

Have reported to your mother yet? What was her response?
Whatever she says is what you should do since she has more experience

Hathor5:


I know.
Good night sis.

Good morning sis

Another tales by moonlight, here s/he is the 20 years old lady intentionally using poor English while in a thread s/he created in May, s/he is the new guy who met a 20 years old mother with a 2 year old child!

OP, on a serious note this switching is not healthy for your mental well-being.

Very likely the write up was a figment of his imagination.

Girl, you are too weak, that is your first problem. Stop being weak!

Your second boyfriend is going to be worse and he has warned you already, so don't hope in him but listen to him now and fix yourself!

Dyt:


Good morning sis

Good afternoon beautiful!

Emmawolex22:
recently I met a guy he made me know what love is and he was busy taking care of me and my baby girl but he never allow me to pack to his house he said if i did that he will be tired of me which I understand .....

I don't understand. Are you desperate to luve with a guy. Go back to yout mother and figure out your life.

SweetCunt97:
Buy him Playstation 5 and celebrate the birthday lovingly. I'm sure he will appreciate it

U mean this

@OP, you are currently living with your mom but your baby daddy still shows up to abuse you there, or abi na for street him dey harass you so? Basically, if you have a stalker(ex or no ex), call the police, or is it civil defense, to get rid of the problem then. What is there to be confused about?