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Effects Of Masturbation And Its Cure In Islam.. by haardhekunle: 9:47am On Jun 19, 2020 |
EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION Before I even talk about the effects of masturbation, what is masturbation and the causes of masturbation. Masturbation is the self stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking, or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use "intimacy gadgets," such as a vibrator. CAUSES OF MASTURBATION There can be varying causes of excessive masturbation. People may indulge in masturbation while they are exposed to pornography in some or the other way. Masturbation may be chosen as an alternative to normal sexual activity due to disturbed family or sexual life. Some people may have lower levels of hormones required for sexual gratification, which makes them more comfortable with masturbation activity. Masturbation promotes release of hormones after the act, which can make a person feel relieved and tend to prefer it more and more. Some may involve in excessive masturbation to feel relaxed and seek temporary comfort from everyday worries. The pleasurable feeling after masturbation makes it more addictive, which can eventually result in excessive masturbation or masturbation addiction. * masturbation addiction can also be troublesome for some people. Many people get into the habit of masturbation to the extent that they need to do it more often or that they spend extended periods indulging in the activity. As long as masturbation addiction does not affect the health, sexual and social life of the person, it can be managed. However, if the person begins to prefer masturbation over natural sexual methods or remains withdrawn from the society, it may be a matter of concern. Masturbation addiction may pose health risks too in some cases and use of abnormal or dangerous things to ensure satisfaction may be more troublesome. Indulging into masturbation for prolonged periods can affect a person's health and life in various ways. It necessary to understand the causes of excessive masturbation addiction and ways to control it. We all know that religiously or better still islamically, that masturbation is Haram for all mankind, both the male and the female folks. Praise be to Allah. Masturbation (for both men and women) is haram (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Quran: Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Quran (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orderswhoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him):OK Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done. There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation, but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allah knows what is best and most correct. EFFECTS OR HARMS OF MASTURBATION As Every harm is the result of sins. Hence, the harms of masturbation prove that it is a sin. Why should it not be so when sins are the root of misfortune and the key to all vices. Ibne Qayyim (Rahmatullahi alaihi) says: “The reason for every loss, misfortune and evil in this world and the hereafter is sin and opposing the Laws and Commands of Allah Ta’ala. Moreover, sin destroys bounties and blessings as fire burns wood.” It is possible to divide the harms of this vile act as follows: • SHAR’I (RELIGIOUS) HARMS The Shar’i harms are many. Some of them are as follows: A decrease in taufiq (success granted by Allah Ta’ala); corrupt ideas; hard‐heartedness, an aversion towards people, cheerlessness in the heart and to be deprived of knowledge. The greatest spiritual harm caused by this evil act is the inability to remain steadfast on Deen. As long as a person is entangled in this evil habit, shaytân will gradually remove him from his friends until he dislikes their company. Thereafter, shaytan will draw him into the mud of desires until he is deprived altogether from remaining steadfast on Deen. How many youth have been deprived of Tahajjud, fasting, recitation of the Qurán, acquiring knowledge, associating with friends, etc. because of the commission of this evil. A person who commits this sin becomes weak in front of shaytân and his nafs‐e‐amrnarah (lowly‐self) instructs him to do evil. Hence, he will not have the ability to oppose his nafs in order to carry out the Commands of Allah Ta’ala. Hasan Basri (Rahmatullahi alaihi) has said: “A person deprives himself of performing Tahajjud by committing sins.” Moreover, masturbation causes the bladder to become weak. Consequently, involuntary urinal and seminal discharges occur from the private parts. This causes complications in wudhu, salaah and cleanliness of the clothes. • PHYSICAL HARMS Undoubtedly, masturbation causes physical harm ‐although some have exaggerated its harms – nevertheless, medical science has proven that masturbation is a cause of a number of diseases. Amongst them are: 1. It weakens the sexual organs and creates partial looseness in it. 2. It weakens the nerves generally – a result of the exertion caused by this action. 3. It affects the growth of the limbs especially the outer part of the urethra (duct through which urine is discharged from the bladder and the testicles). Hence it does not reach the limit of its normal growth. 4. It creates seminal (spermatic) inflammation in the testicles which causes quick ejaculation of sperm. 5. It causes pain in the vertebra column, the spinal column from which semen is ejaculated. This pain creates crookedness and twisting in the back. 6. It causes some limbs like the legs to shake and shiver. 7. It creates weakness in the cerebral glands of the brain which, in turn, weakens the power of perception and reason. Similarly, it leads to the weakness of memory. 8. It weakens the eye‐sight and reduces its normal limit of vision. 9. It causes a person to become old before time. 10. It weakens the very delicate and fine nerves and veins of the sexual organs resulting in sexual impotency. • PSYCHOLOGICAL AND SOCIAL HARMS 1. The psychologists say: “Here the awareness of a misdeed and the feeling of a sin occurs to those youth who practice this vile act in such a way that within themselves there is struggle between the desire to practice this vile act and the remorseful feeling of a sin.” 2. Excessive practice of this vile act leads to cowardice, an increase in nervous agitation, no confidence in oneself, overwhelming disgrace, a decrease in the urge to study and desire towards isolation and introversion. 3. Similarly, excessive practice of this evil act leads towards its addiction and attachment. Instead of practicing it to rid oneself of an irresistible desire or to unleash a violent eruption of desire within oneself, a person does it as a habit to attain and satisfy his carnal appetite and ‐desire. Ibn Qayyim (Rahmatullahi alaihi) has said: “Many sinners sin without deriving any pleasure and urge except that they experience pain in quitting it. For curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions: 1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaah’s orders and fearing His punishment. 2)A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophet’s hadeeth. 3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it. 4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophet’s hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings): "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all‐aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.)..... " 24.30‐31 Allah’s messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things)with another look." Al‐Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden). 5)Using one’s available leisure time in worshipping Allah and increasing religious knowledge. 6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation. 7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality. Strengthening one’s willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by the Prophet when he said "Do not spend the night alone" Ahmad 6919. 9) Following the Prophet’s aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because fasting will temper one’s sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should not overreact and swear by Allah not to return to the act because if one does not honor one’s promise, one would be facing the consequences of not living up to one’s oath to Allah. Also, note that medication to diminish one’s sexual desire is strictly prohibited because it might permanently affect one’s sexual ability. 10) Trying to follow the Prophet’s recommendation concerning the etiquette of getting ready for bed, such as reading well‐known supplications, sleeping on the right side, and avoiding sleeping on the belly (the Prophet forbade sleeping on the belly). 11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allah willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet explains in the following hadeeth: "Whoever seeks chastity Allah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from none but Allah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him, and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari: 1469. 12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is one of the major sins punishable by Allah. 13) Finally, Allah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on Him. So, asking for Allah’s forgiveness will be accepted, by His will. Wallahu a’lam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct. Jazakumu lahu khairan for reading.... may Almighty Allah forgive us all our sins and shortcomings.. Almighty Allah knows best.. |
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