My sister has known this guy for close to 5 years now,while dating,he never gave her a penny.Core stingy guy as it were,not even during her NYSC days when she needed his help the most.He works and isn't a young guy.Now she wants to leave him(has been for over a year now) but he threatens to kill himself if she refuses to marry him.Personally,ive asked her to leave him but she doesnt want anyone killing himself for her.

PS she says she has no more feelings for the guy in question.

You seem to know much about you Sis relationship. Hope you're not the one sowing seed of discord.
Allow some space, will ya?

On the other hand,the decision is Hers and Hers alone. If really she does not give a hoot about the guy, there is absolutely no need to hang on.
The threat of suicide can be considered an empty one or need for ARO(Psychiatry).

Note: Never enter a relationship out of PITY. Its hell thereafter.

Im not sowing any seed of discord o, we tell each other everything,shes more of my friend than my sister.

You seem to know much about you Sis relationship. Hope you're not the one sowing seed of discord.
Allow some space, will ya?

<sarcasm> Allow some space so they can kill each other in peace and you can enjoy burying them abi? </sarcasm>

A normally functioning person will never want to kill himself. Her boyfriend may be depressive. Help him medically.

Advise your sister to dump the cheapstake. Can she survive on LOVE??

@ cyl,

believe me, he would not kill himself. hes just enjoying the fact that he can be stingy and get away with it.

if your sister doesnt love him anymore, then she should free the stingy man!!!!

so after 5 years is when ur sister know that she no longer want the guy abi? are u sure u are telling us the truth? if yes then ur sister and mr lover boy need to go for medical check up at ARO.

so after 5 years is when your sister know that she no longer want the guy abi? are u sure u are telling us the truth? if yes then your sister and mr lover boy need to go for medical check up at ARO.

osereka,u need to check ur use of words,thats rather rude,if uve nothing reasonable to say, u best keep quiet

ok oooooo does it make scence? a woman to date a stingy man for 5 years in naija?

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ive asked her to leave him but she doesnt want anyone killing himself for her

Would she rather die in silence all the days of her life for him?

Hmmm, Sound rediculous but cant laugh. Just tel her to continue with him since she boes not beleive in the guy money.

Why should he kill himself ? Let them both know what yhey want, If love is no where to be found, letting go is the best alternative to avoid 'wahala' biko

That one na the man palaba. He wants to use that to blackmail the poor girl.
He lucky say nor be me be that girl.

What the guy is doing is nothing short of pretence.  For sure, he cannot snuff life off himself. How on earth can a guy date a babe of such standing (graduate) without spending for her yet he wants to have her around him. Advise your sister to do away with the avoidable "aradite" and move on.

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lmao let him kill himself now. , foolish man.

OKOKOBIOKO,