Guys remain single, if you want a child get a babymama (you don't have to be rich to do that, just tell her to give birth before marriage, then you turn her to babymama), my married friends always come to me and complain about their marriage, it's even making me tired.

You no see coronavirus?

Baloranking:


Eye don tear, nobody wants to be committed to anything as they feel it's slavery.

Pride this is the major reason for failed marriages this days people can't just put their pride oneside and work on their relationship.

Entitlement for Nigerian girls,they want the whole world but can't bring anything to the table.

Not to even talk about the amount of brideprice these days, plus the girl demanding an expensive wedding after giving her all that she start nagging 2years into the marriage

The rate of cheating this days is too much, someone knows someone that knows someone,that has bleeped your girlfriend or boyfriend.

Omo to marry for naija na suffer as a man it should be in your top 5 prayer points to leave this shit hole,get a life and a better wife so you can enjoy your future.

what more can I say when you have said it all ...nice one bro ���

So many couples make we single to believe marriage is a thug of war.

But las las man go stil marry

medolab90:



This your own advise be one kind o make we no marry Graduate who we wan kan marry.... village girl abi??


Bro Las Las nothing sure for this life na to risk am just be sure of what you are risking.

Catch 100 level girl, then stop her education. She nor need graduate. Of what use is the graduation for women when they graduate and still depend on men? Na university nai babes for dey fuucck pass. Them dey damage their lives there.

She go gain admission as a slim girl, from 200 level, she go come dey thick due to numerous pricks and waka waka. Boy dey lash madness comot for babes head for uni nor be small.

In today's Nigeria, it is not wise to marry graduate. Na why Davido stop chioma from schooling

YOU ARE VERY STUPID.

MARRIAGE IS A CHOICE NOT AN OBLIGATION.

MARRIAGE IS NOT A CRITERIA TO GET INTO HEAVEN.

BEING MARRIED DOESN'T MAKE YOU OR ANYBODY BETTER THAN AN UNMARRIED INDIVIDUAL.

JTCHI:
My case now is that am the only boy, and as the Igbo culture demands am in for it. No denial I need money to run the affair seriously.....

Best wishes bro..

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UdyOgwoUde:
Na like this bride price suppose be, but most father-inlaws wan use suitors buy land

Make two kolanut, one empty tumbler and #120 no decieve you. Most family charges peanut for bride price then use list to kill you. Incase you demand for your money back, dey jejely give you back your #120 and two kolanut

michaelpop50:


Catch 100 level girl, then stop her education. She nor need graduate. Of what use is the graduation for women when they graduate and still depend on men? Na university nai babes for dey fuucck pass. Them dey damage their lives there.

She go gain admission as a slim girl, from 200 level, she go come dey thick due to numerous pricks and waka waka. Boy dey lash madness comot for babes head for uni nor be small.

In today's Nigeria, it is not wise to marry graduate. Na why Davido stop chioma from schooling

I can see you are all concerned about the past and getting a girl who has zero body count.but do you know it is not all about University girls girls for street do pass that one even before they enter Uni too.it is all about getting the right girl University has nothing to do about this.

We should just hope for a better partner. No manual for all these things.

medolab90:


I can see you are all concerned about the past and getting a girl who has zero body count.but do you know it is not all about University girls girls for street do pass that one even before they enter Uni too.it is all about getting the right girl University has nothing to do about this.

We should just hope for a better partner. No manual for all these things.

I nor dey look for virgin oh. I'm talking from experience. If you marry girl when done sleep with 21 guys, she must cheat on you.

Don't play yourself.

i recently checked out sm page of the 2011 bbnaija winner and the bird had the effrontery to post something to the effect that said don't blame or hate on her if she has 4 boyfriends to take care of her needs and expenses and other females are struggling to have one. i was gonna follow her but i instantly clicked off of the liberated feminist's page. if that's the prevailing mindset of the young then we have a problem ladies and gentlemen.

FreeSpirited:
If no woman will prove to me beyond reasonable doubt that she's worth a longtime investment and that she will really make marriage worth it for me, forget it, I may not marry cos I can't see what's in it for me that I can't get without it

If I desperately need a child, I will impregnate a stable working class lady. If I needed food badly, I would employ a cook. If pvssy is my issue, I will get on short fvckmate dates..or FWB.

But for the stress of a nagging, fickle wife and the overwhelming responsibility of marriage, a woman has to convinced me it's worth it, that she will give me rest. otherwise, I will live my life as detailed above, and pursue my own personal ambition. I know what makes me happy at my present age. And I can't see marriage in the picture of my happiness until I'm proven wrong by a woman.

will u bow 2 pressure

BigJoe19:
Guys remain single, if you want a child get a babymama (you don't have to be rich to do that, just tell her to give birth before marriage, then you turn her to babymama), my married friends always come to me and complain about their marriage, it's even making me tired.

u think its that easy

English rest in peace

Liposure:
will u bow 2 pressure

I can only bow to pressure of having a kid...and I can impregnate a sensible woman to ease that pressure and continue my life if need be...but for pressure to get marriage..I won't at the moment, until those concern I listed are covered

I think say Na only me notice am.

Oldoinyolengai:
What women have turned to be since 1960s is quite frustrating.

It makes marriage look like a battle ground for gender war in which each one is fighting for power and control, no respect at all.

Even those who are married most of them are not happy with their marriage, they cling their endurance to the outcomes of marriage like children and properties if they are lucky.

Lots of men already in graves much earlier due to direct or indirect issues of marriage and it scares those who are still alive

marriage started by God and can be sustain by God,the world is becoming godless each day so marriage is becoming difficult to sustain,have been married for 8 years now and I thank God I married it is wonderful experience

eni4real:
Under 35 are small boys??
Ladies are rude, no be small

yes na. Dem never old na

Common relationship boys and girls of this generation no dey sincere let lone marriage plus all men are hustling so u dey don't end up marrying a lady whose mouth is as wide as a whale.

I will advice if u see who you like and he/she likes u in return, my dear marry o no dey wait until u become dangote or otedola b4 u marry o

All these anti marriage this or that. Marriage is sweet if you marry the right person.

People eye don de open.Q.E.D

Fidelismaria:


Marriage has long outlive its usefulness

Abeg Take am Easy.
I see say u dey vex pra pra

cooltola:
All these anti marriage this or that. Marriage is sweet if you marry the right person.

What are the chances of getting the right person, especially now twerking appears to be a Federal Civil Service JOB...?

freesoul12:
Na today reality be that. Na who wan marry wahala. Guys now value and cherish their peace than anything. Marriage is not an achievement.

in africa, it is

If I want marry, I go dey fear okafor's law and if I say make I marry virgin she go fit later tell me say she want explore... which kind life be this, ino blame them.na we guys dey at fault

Why buy the whole restaurant when you can just get the food

Wahala

michaelpop50:


In today's Nigeria, marrying a female graduate is not advisable. Girls dey fucck anyhow for university. Once a man marry a graduate, there is a high probability that the girl will cheat in marriage with her exes from her uni days.

If you are a guy and you are seeing this message, abeg nor marry graduate oh. Them done damage their body for uni

People are afraid of the unknown. Plus its scammers and fraudsters that are every where. People need to be careful who they mingle with in the name of looking for a spouse.

Las las, marriage is not a ticket to heaven and its seems one enjoys more peace sometimes being single than having one fellow calling all the time or chatting when you are not up to it. Sometimes you enjoy it sometimes you just endure.... Abeg, it comes with a whole lot of strength sapping activities at times. So one got to be prepared within and without before going into it otherwise you'll dash out in no time. This is purely my thoughts and..... Little fears.

Anyways, God will give us the grace and strength we need to pull through this institution no one ever graduates from. Its either you're a drop out, get rusticated or remain there for life. No graduating o lol...
I'm out..

Youngpo413:
Na for where you go see wife sef? Na gf full everywhere.

Lol