Please I need help from you guys, I have been dating this girl when I was In my finals in school, she is still in school though but recently we had issue because I stopped calling and texting which I did because I started suspecting something unusual with her which she didn't want to talk about. .she then called me on Monday that she is letting me go then I sent her a text that it's fine, then she started telling me everything that happened, that she was raped in her 100lvl by her course mate and the worst is that the rape was organised by her best friend who she still takes as her best friend even till today and the guy who raped her she still talks to him too and she said that why she kept in contact with the guy was because she wanted to take revenge on the guy...Please am really confused don't know if I should just let her go
Please I need your opinions...I still find myself loving this same girl

And you believe her?


Come make I anoint your head so you can reason like a man

Senior boy , the ball is in you court, do as you wish . This is a dumb story .. if it is true, believe me, the girl has no sense at all, you mean you are still with someone who planned evil against you .
And besides, did she tell you she was a virgin??. If yes, she might not be a virgin from onset, but maybe she think u are serious, and the relationship might move to marriage etc.. she is now looking for stories sha, she kuku know u go believe .
If you are not a virgin, why lie about it. . It seems u are serious than she is, any relationship build on lies can never stand. Even if it leads to marriage .
Lie walks in chains get that..
Shallom.

You, the girl and d rapist are all mad

So you think she is accusing someone of rape?
Why would she do that
I know the guy she is talking about

It'll end in tears for you.
Never date a woman with a personal vendetta.

Just leave her to do what she wants, it's her life. And remove emotions from loving a woman without confirming she's worthy enough to be called ur wife. I don't understand why some guys just fall in love cus of some childish attractions.. she will just be manipulating you at will. Are you a small boy? You're the man, you're in charge. Both of you are not brainmates. Stop letting small girls talk to you anyhow. Look out for another girl as u work towards becoming more financially stable to settle down. And don't pursue the love of a woman. Instead, make yourself humorous enough to attract their love. Simple!

Anuoluwa1234:
Senior boy , the ball is in you court, do as you wish . This is a dumb story .. if it is true, believe me, the girl has no sense at all, you mean you are still with someone who planned evil against you .
And besides, did she tell you she was a virgin??. If yes, she might not be a virgin from onset, but maybe she think u are serious, and the relationship might move to marriage etc.. she is now looking for stories sha, she kuku know u go believe .
If you are not a virgin, why lie about it. . It seems u are serious than she is, any relationship build on lies can never stand. Even if it leads to marriage .
Lie walks in chains get that..
Shallom.

She never planned any evil against me...when I started dating her she told me she isn't a virgin, yes we had sex but i asked her how it happened when we started dating she refused telling me about it.....but yesterday she told me she was disvirgined during the rape

she was raped by a guy with the help of her friend and she is having the contact of the guy and her friend is still her best friend. you don't need to be told that this lie is from the bit of hell

Oluromantic:
You shdnt even have replied "it's fine" back to her. Just leave her to do what she wants, it's her life. And remove emotions from loving a woman without confirming she's worthy enough to be called ur wife. I don't understand why some guys just fall in love cus of some childish attractions.. she will just be manipulating you at will. Are you a small boy? You're the man, you're in charge. Both of you are not brainmates. Stop letting small girls talk to you anyhow. Look out for another girl as u work towards becoming more financially stable to settle down. Simple!

Okay thank you

people de oo

It's okay, no problems, but also I never said she was planning evil against you, read what I typed well . The ball is in you court, as I said earlier, play it well.. all the best for you

Seniorboy001:

She never planned any evil against me...when I started dating her she told me she isn't a virgin, yes we had sex but i asked her how it happened when we started dating she refused telling me about it.....but yesterday she told me she was disvirgined during the rape

Seniorboy001:

She never planned any evil against me...when I started dating her she told me she isn't a virgin, yes we had sex but i asked her how it happened when we started dating she refused telling me about it.....but yesterday she told me she was disvirgined during the rape

please stop believing this shit, most of these lie about been deflowered by rapist

Anuoluwa1234:
It's okay, no problems, but also I never said she was planning evil against you, read what I typed well . The ball is in you court, as I said earlier, play it well.. all the best for you

Okay thank you

extol1:

please stop believing this shit, most of these lie about been deflowered by rapist

But i still don't get it why would someone lie about being raped?
She could have come up with another story if she was trying to get my attention

Seniorboy001:

But i still don't get it why would someone lie about being raped?
She could have come up with another story if she was trying to get my attention

the lie isn't worth it at all. she should try to update herself.

Seniorboy001:

She never planned any evil against me...when I started dating her she told me she isn't a virgin, yes we had sex but i asked her how it happened when we started dating she refused telling me about it.....but yesterday she told me she was disvirgined during the rape

Lol. Typical line of a hoe when she feel the relationship is leading somewhere. It's a lie. If she is still in close contact with her aggressors, then it means she was never raped! A psychological trauma of such magnitude will see the victim running away from her aggressors to prevent further misdemeanors. I wonder why she still keep in touch with them when she can carry out her revenge from a distance. She's a lying ass bitch!

That your hoe of a girl should be arrested asap for false rape accusation...
and if you chose to forgive a hoe that's your business, you're the one to live with the consequences..

I know things happen. It might be true but i don't believe this story. there's only 0.00000001% of this truly happening. Be wise bro. She could have voiced out. Unless she's having mental problems

Next story pls

kherlly:
And you believe her?


Come make I anoint your head so you can reason like a man

But honestly the Op really fell for it sha!!!

Gaskiya: Mugu 0 - 1 Girls

shibaraba its bn a while,lets av ur take on this.

Very soon you will have sense. ..isn't it obvious that she's playing you?

na wah oo

SMH


When will you lots learn for pete's sakes!!!??


She gave you some punk ass stories you never bothered to verify and you're here asking us what to do cuz you still love her?


Una matter dey taya person abeg...


You need to just give up,cut your dick and suyanize it. That way,we all can have some peace

Onyi22:
You, the girl and d rapist are all mad

Lmaooooo..


First time I agreed with you on anything.

if she can't forgive the guy then you are not safe. Let her go. She will never let go of the past.

galadima77:


But honestly the Op really fell for it sha!!!

Gaskiya: Mugu 0 - 1 Girls

No mind ma.... The guy head needs to be washed with iron spoon lol