no, no, no, ladies pls neva collect gifts from an ex.its very dangerous no matter wat it is.it could be very LURING, and it sends signal to the guy as well.also,guys pls stop tempting we ladies.its over,its over.there r a 101 single ladies out there looking 4 guys dat they can throw themselves at.why not  get them and spoil them with your so called gifts and let wat GOD has joined together to be.

totally wrong,

A yoruba adage says _{ere ki laja un ba ekun se} "what kind of friendship can be between dog and lion"

its an insult to the husband
Except the man knows the Ex then he can give to baby

But why should you even communicate with your Ex?

noooooooooooo  giftsssssssssssssssssssssss

NO! because from collecting gifts, she go eventually collect "third leg" one day.

You guys act like you don't like to receive gifts. What is wrong with a woman receiving gift or even sharing time with an ex? after all it's not like they have never fukced before. Change in diet is natural, abi anyone of you guys eats rice everyday of the week? As long she knows that her husband is the main meat, nothing wrong with eating a piece of meat on the side.

Finecat:

You guys act like you don't like to receive gifts. What is wrong with a woman receiving gift or even sharing time with an ex? after all it's not like they have never fukced before. Change in diet is natural, abi anyone of you guys eats rice everyday of the week? As long she knows that her husband is the main meat, nothing wrong with eating a piece of meat on the side.

U ARE TERRIBLE,Wonder if u are a human being anyway,because only electrical device can write dis ca of comedy

if my husband doesnt buy gift for me, i will collect the gift frm my EX- and give him a kiss

if my husband doesnt buy gift for me, i will collect  the gift frm my EX- and give him a kiss

Capital NO. There should be transparency in marriege which means both couple should be plain to each other. There is no way a woman will bring a gift from her ex boyfriend that the husband will be happy about it. Your husband might tell you there is nothing wrong in it. Believe me or not, when you are not there he will have a second thought like has she started dating that guy again. And any day you stay late at work he will be suspecting you.

Be wise. Men are more jelouse.

If you want a happy and a long lasting relationship, reject any gift from your ex boyfriend.

DanEmzo:

U ARE TERRIBLE,Wonder if u are a human being anyway,because only electrical device can write dis ca of comedy

Nonsense, what your husband dont know wont hurt him. What happens in Las Vegas, stays in Las Vegas.

Everything is wrong about it. It is written that a man's gift makes way for him. All the evil will have to begin with a step. So please if you are trying to take a gift from you Ex STOP!

should a married man accept a gift from his ex girlfriend duh

[if my husband doesnt buy gift for me, i will collect  the gift frm my EX- and give him a kiss]

Don't relent on today, think about the future. Remember today does not determine your tomorrow.

Your husband might not have enough today but tomorrow he might become a multi-millionaire and your so called Ex that you gave a kiss might become nobody. Before you know, he would have scattered your marriage for you. Then you find your self back to square one.

Ifyalways

You are a very correct chick. Are you married?

manugbo:

if my husband doesnt buy gift for me, i will collect  the gift frm my EX- and give him a kiss

It means you where never married in love but you where join together in lost. It also means you have no true values to make a lasting wife because your heart is like a dry leave that fly wherever the wind blows. THINK!

I am very impressed with most of the responses. Welldone everyone.

The agreement is pretty much a concensus one - DON'T ACCEPT GIFTS FROM YOUR EX COS IT MIGHT LEAD TO SOMETHING ELSE

[Nonsense, what your husband dont know wont hurt him. What happens in Las Vegas, stays in Las Vegas.]

Finecat or what do you call yourself?

You must be an agent of the devil. People should beware of you because you think like a fool and you should be a prostitute or someone that has a broken home and plan to scatter others home.

Married women beware of finecat opinion.

No biggie if both have zilch ulterior motive
I still hang out with some of me ex's that are either married or engaged and know/appreciate pretty well that nothing is ever going to happen between us again

Estilove:

[Nonsense, what your husband dont know wont hurt him. What happens in Las Vegas, stays in Las Vegas.]

Finecat or what do you call yourself?

You must be an agent of the devil. People should beware of you because you think like a fool and you should be a love-peddler or someone that has a broken home and plan to scatter others home.

Married women beware of finecat opinion.

Yeah, African woman too much pretense. If your ex give you a key to BMW turn it down because you are in love with your Civil Servant Husband. Yeye Woman, she act like say she no go open leg quick.

An ex is an ex,period.

NO!
will u let your cat play with a tiger? come on now,
why should they still contact each other in the first place?

I dont think I would send a gift to an ex . .just not worth the trouble in my opinion. But if an ex truly needs my help . .


my ex got stuck and penniless in an unknown city and country a few months ago. I'm sure it took a lot for her to call and ask me for help.

Of course I helped in my own little way to make sure she has just enough to get her out of her misery.

Should I or should I have not? I believe I did the right thing.

If I can help people I do not know, why not someone I know and once cared for?

or maybe I should have left her to suffer . .when we parted as friends

I think not

ingnor the gift its very gangerous cos at the time you will pay back you may not know then, oleku

why should a married woman accept gift from her ex? silly thread. . . . . i don waka pass

Accepting a gift for ex is wrong because if the alarm blow and her husban get to know it will be a very devastting thing that lmay ead to the end of the marriage so I think no need of accepting such gift to avoid marital tension this just my own opinion.

if my husband doesnt buy gift for me, i will collect the gift frm my EX- and give him a kiss Kiss

then be ready to pack your load

if my husband doesnt buy gift for me, i will collect  the gift frm my EX- and give him a kiss Kiss

then be ready to pack your load

Noooooo, dont start what u wont be able to finish

I once asked my wife to return a gift from her ex when I realised he started calling her to appologise for their breakup before we met. He was telling her that he was just calling to ask after her welfare and nothing more, then he sent her a gift.
I made her to call him in my presence and tell him that her husband doesnt like men sending her gifts except during child dedication.
He asked  her, that means you are pregnant, she responded Yes I am carrying his lovely baby; perhaps you can bring back the gift in seven months time. Since then he stopped calling her. I dont give room for temptation.