Here In Nigeria, I've noticed this act among some married people, Most especially among not to do well or poor couples. If you are doing fine financially and having things going on fine for you as a bachelor or spinster. They do gossip about you, Say different things behind you. I suppose you have the Idea of those things they will be discussing......There are some sensible and experienced ones among them who will advice you to be very careful and vigilant when choosing a life partner and no to make the mistake they made.....

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It's simple, most married people in nigeria are bittered in their marriage. They are going through a lot, so when they see how free you are enjoying your life as a bachelor or spinster with little worries. They will be bittered towards you.

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Misery loves company.