@drrionelli:
well said. self control is the greatest power any individual can possess cause the flesh is hmmmmmmm, weak!. it takes 3 seconds to think ur d**k but 3 minutes with your mind which means its easier to loose control. also every resolution starts from the mind and nothing beats the human will power (with God's help though)

But to be on the safe side i think we should obey the 11th commandment: " though shall not smell what you will not eat"

luxori, take am easy on the guys
if the mind can get more functions than thinkinh about f**k why not?

actually, the mind can

hmm

it is possible if and only if the girl is dirty,smelly or disabled, d**k no go school,e no no the meaning of self respect,it will always rule a guy whenever its sees a potential food.

niniman:

it is possible if and only if the girl is dirty,smelly or disabled, d**k no go school,e no no the meaning of self respect,it will always rule a guy whenever its sees a potential food.

That will be a good plea/defense statement for rapists and pedophiles in a law court!

nobody denies the feelin, but doesnt mean u must act on it.

My dear, self-control is not some over-rated demand. its as necessary as sanity.

dunno what all this 'hoopla' is about


It happens all the time abi? or didn't anyone go to Uni in Nigeria

didnt' any1 have to crash in guys room before whether it was after practice rehearsal or simply jacking


Please self control is not that rare
Its your mind if you have sex on your mind then you will act on it.
I have slept on the same bed with 2 guys (if recollect well i slept in the middle)
Crashed in a room full of guys and girls after practice
Slept in guys place before whether it was on the carpet or even on his bed I SLEPT so did he/they. Even when we did not sleep the gist we wud gist was always fun.

Even now that i live on my own, I still crashed at another friends place 2 days ago, there were 2 girls and another guy later on one other friend girl came (over cos we had candles and she didnt)

what's the big deal

As long as you dress properly(not in some dumb nightgown) fully clothed.

@salsera: thanks 4 dat post. exactly my point.

And who says its not possible eh!
I have done it b4 and i can do it again,its all a thing of the mind .

@2dye4, salsera & xjovial:
Thank you all for your refreshingly common-sense honesty about this!

@post:
PLEASE heed the words of these three. They know the truth!

GUY, i can hold body well. I can even sleep on d same bed wit her witout touchin her 4 real

I have done it with a beautiful Indian girl , and also have done it with a nice Irish woman , both were mybrother's girl friends , ofcos at different times .

@salsera, what the poster is saying is sleeping one on one with a guy but not in a group. Try it one day and see how far!

Of course it's possible.

Suppose you're married, are you saying you couldn't trust yourself to have an attractive work mate in the same office as yourself? If you can't, then you need to question what kind of relationship you have with your wife / girlfriend.

As human beings, we appreciate beauty, nothing wrong in admiring, but it doesn't mean every attractive female is fair game.

na yam?
when be say your rod no weak
ol boy,na fire for fire.nobody go sleep.

Impossicant.

there not appositely impossible, the only thing to do
just for u remove your mind from where she is an that
solve the problem.or if possible just dislike are very
thing about her and u see it will work.

i agree with u bros


But if the babe start 2 behave funny i go ,

Where in the world is this acceptable for man to live with girl not related and sleep on same bed? this being wrong will ultimately lead to wrong moves that can be initiated by both parties. There is a difference between crashing out on a few nights but living together in a room; for a few nights it is very possible, have done it loads of times, the temptation will be there but self discipline will prevail; but living constantly in same room is another matter, after a while no matter how self disciplined you are, your defenses will be broken.

Invitation to rape

vc

Yes, why not, if a woman can control theirs, why cant i?

if a guy live with a geh without any contact, i bet ou, he geh will rape the boi,

i had such experience during schoool days,

a lady stayed in my room for a week , for the 1st 5 days, she was facing the wall, 6 and 7th day, she was literally fighting me to lay her,

ladies feel their power over men is their v ee jay jay, if it fails, it makes them feel worthless,