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Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Nobody: 10:47am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:lol,any man that dare lay his hands on me husband or no husband must sleep in the cell |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by rasheedatt(f): 10:48am On Jul 02, 2020 |
I can't seem to forgive myself for laying my hands on her as this is my first time of ever hiting a girl in my life. I thank God am single do you actually love her ? can you control your anger ? |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 10:50am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Rozz: Lol.... I was thinking you will divorce the husband and make the 'no husband ' pay for damages. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:anyways i cant even get myself involved in such a mess sef, I know a good man when I see one. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 10:55am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Rozz: Lol, but are you a good woman? Your antics here dey suggest otherwise oh |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Genesils(m): 10:57am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Mehn... Beware of bossy ladies.. Those ones that always wants to be in charge |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Nobody: 10:59am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:what antics? judge me and get dissapointed. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:59am On Jul 02, 2020 |
@deduks you simply should have continued your business meeting professionally. That calling and telling to turn around is sooo childish. Her reaction was simply childish and silly. You simply don't owe her any apologies though. She's definitely not a wise woman. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luscioustrish(f): 11:00am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Apologize for slapping her and that's it, I see no reason for her actions. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:08am On Jul 02, 2020 |
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Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:09am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luscioustrish:He doesn't owe her any apology |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:10am On Jul 02, 2020 |
rasheedatt:Did she control hers? What if next time,she cuts off his diick like that story on FP? Aunty be objective. Love is no excuse for tolerating foolishness BTW....who cares if you're single!! |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by rasheedatt(f): 11:12am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:the main reason I see no reason for relationship have you heard the second side of the story from the lady ? |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Eddu123: 11:13am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Rozz:so slapping a woman can ruin a man? Lol. Slaping a man will make someone stronger right? Funny world people. Always deceiving each other |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:14am On Jul 02, 2020 |
rasheedatt: I get your point and its a good one too. So,yes. Logic dictates that she tells her side of the story too. Your first statement is weird. I'm sure you will find a nigga who will sweep you off your feet. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Raydans: 11:17am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:From his words he said he loves her and don't want to loose her. Apologizing for the slap will be an opportunity for him to set her straight on her manners |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:19am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Raydans: WRONG!!! But like I said early,I won't talk further on a fake story. Na waste of energy |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by rasheedatt(f): 11:31am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:I revoke that prayer . can you honestly wish so for your sister? |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by DontBullshitMe: 11:33am On Jul 02, 2020 |
You did the right thing. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Greensquard(m): 11:36am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Her cuz indeed..better do ur diligent findings and stop swallowing lies..u have a fiance and u dnt know her well enough to know her cuz who are in same state with u guys?nahh bro 1 Like |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:37am On Jul 02, 2020 |
rasheedatt: I don't get you. My statement was that you will fall in love. Of course,I wish that for my sister. Or is there something else you're talking about?? |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by rasheedatt(f): 11:38am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:What do you mean by sweep me off my feet |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by luminouz(m): 11:41am On Jul 02, 2020 |
rasheedatt: Lol,it is an idiomatic expression. It means you will meet a guy you will fall in love with. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by RealEzee(m): 11:44am On Jul 02, 2020 |
Only apologize for the slap that's all,from all indicators you did the needful even still calling her at the place and all she could do was to flame up like that and cost you a deal Chaii na wa, her friends those evil minions will be telling her to give u cold shoulder which is to her loss kwa, just call her up na u b d man apologize for the slap, if she no also apologize for that outburst kwa Oyo lo wa she can kiss her husband material go bye |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 11:45am On Jul 02, 2020 |
You are a maddd man for laying your hand on a lady. And your fiancee would be an utmost fool (or should I write authmost now in honour of your despicable nonsense?) Plus your story get k-leg, you follow babe go bar go cheat you come dey call am client. Oloshi. Obo. Inaki. Your fiancee picked you up on that you come slap her... That's how y'all start, the generation of wife-beater and wife-murderer. It is only a foolish woman that will go ahead and settle down with a man who physically abused her in relationship. Take it because this is a gospel truth for you: woman-beaters never change! Deduks: |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by rasheedatt(f): 11:56am On Jul 02, 2020 |
luminouz:ameen I pray so I wish you the same |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 12:01pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Actually, I want to believe that the Op was the one cheating... What is the probability of a female client asking a male sales rep for a meet up at the bar? In Nigeria the probability is almost zero. The Op made that call to the poor fiancee because he was trying to safe face. Interestingly the fiancee ended up to be telling the truth about meeting her cousin, while the Op went ahead to slap her. The only forgiveness the Op deserves is for that good lady to dump his sorry woman-beating ass. No matter what, you don't slap lady (well, if you slap you first one can return in kind especially if she is not your babe. If she is your babe, simply ignore the slap and dump her). SweetCunt97: |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
You people should stop silently validating physical abuse. No matter what that lady did, especially since she didn't physically attack him, there's zero justification for slapping her. Zero. luscioustrish: |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by SweetCunt97(f): 12:08pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
pmoye:Duly noted. We need the lady's side of the story. |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by itsme01: 12:13pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Just apologize and shame the devil Not like you are wrong and she is right, but her reaction and yours shows you guys value what you share |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by pmoye(m): 12:22pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
This is Op's elder brother and mentor doing what they do best here: https://www.nairaland.com/5963705/man-beats-8-months-pregnant Once woman-beaters start, they never know how to stop. After each beating they are remorseful, contrite and ready to shed tears and proclaim their undying love. A woman should believe this crap at her own peril even when the man believes he has indeed changed. It is always a cycle, a vicious cycle that even the man cannot escape from. The cycle usually ends with the death of the woman, or whenever the woman terminates that accursed relationship. Op should be jailed for assault. Say no to domestic violence! |
Re: I Slapped Her For The First Time. Is This My Fault? by Clinghton: 12:34pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
You should have ignored her and finished your business negotiations with your client, then call her later and question make your research with her answers to know if she's cheating. You allowed your emotion to disrupt your business arrangement and affect your relationship, your fiancee couldn't control herself on seeing you with another woman. The both of you should work on your maturity, assumptions can cause a lot of damage. |
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