SmartProf:
Lol...£10k? U think she is playing for Manchester City abi?...Look you are also guilty of leading her on to visiting you in the UK. If she wasn't a babe u could have sex with, tell us if u would have invested ur cash to process her visa, pay her way to the UK, accomodate and spend on her upkeep for the period. How many guys have u invested on that way?

Are you ok ? even if she is the guys sexual spec how does it justify "false accusation" ... or you think rape is the only inhuman act to another.
Do you know how many lives are wallowing in jail, depress or dead because they were wrongly accused. Is it his duty or responsibility to invest on guys, a man has exclusive right to spend is money as he deems fit, if you are not ok with it go n hustle your own, lets see you run Npower.
with his profession & reputation, £10k can't clear the libel, he was just been realistic he shuld av slammed her more.

No matter the bashing you get here, I always take your Quote’s and that of Nwamaikpe serious. I love your writing ma’am

pocohantas:

When you falsely accuse someone of rape, it means you want the person to be treated as a rapist. Jailed, maybe killed. Once it is out there, it can never be taken back in the full sense of it.

There’ll still be “what if he actually did it?”, “maybe he actually did it”, “maybe he is threatening her?”...

If you search his name, the rape allegation would be attached. These things last a lifetime and there isn’t so much you can even do to clear your name in every place it has reached.

Rape is a serious offense and women should do their best not to muddle it with their relationship issues. That way we know how to address genuine victims and not arm rapists and seasoned rape-apologists.

Think twice before accusing someone falsely. Some people do not even live to prove their innocence.

AerialMapper:
Go and sit down Dr Olufunmilayo Ogunsanya

Red wine cannot make you so drunk that you have non-consensual sex with a woman

A drunk woman cannot give consent

No consent means rape

A drunk man cannot give consent either

Dpharisee:
She wanted a serious relationship with him but he wasn't interested in her and wanted her just for the sex, she felt scorned and decided to accuse him of rape even though they have been fcking each other by consent after drunken fests.
These type of accusers make situations difficult for actual victims of rape

In contrary, I believe this was the other way round bro.

A typical Nigerian girl would wanna lock down a successful, popular man and on paper, Dr Olufunmilayo is a doctor, a twitter influencer and quite popular on social media... I remember when he was showing off his mortgage-bought house sometime last year .. so yeah, which girl wouldn't be on her best behaviour after such a guy has sponsored her abroad.

However, we can see in this case that the girl didn't really wanna sleep with dude. She even had to be drunk the first time round just to get wet! Second time seems to be like a consolation gift to the beta simp doctor to show appreciation for "housing" her - or perhaps he forced or threatened her to release that punni since he's been feeding her and she had no choice but to comply.

There's something repulsive about the said doctor which is why he can't seem to hold a chick down despite his "achievements".

Why is he suing her? Was he not in support of what most of these evil girls do to guys?

ThinkFreely:
Nope

Sighs.....

XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.

They were both drunk on that occasion. Even at that,was she drunk the second time it happened ? That lady is a wicked soul !

madridsta007:


I do hope this does not end with, "her grandmother and mother and council of elders begged me and we have resolved it....".
That is nonsense.
Once you accuse someone of rape, the damage is done and will always remain even if it has been proven to be a lie.
Your reputation takes a hit; your opportunities take a hit; Google retains your name next to "rape" and this will flag up in every interview you go for, every visa application process, everything. It permanently damages you.

I do not think ladies who falsely accuse know this.

It is important that the accuser, when proven to be wrong, be made to pay for her foolishness to the last drop of blood possible.
It will serve as a deterrent to every false accuser, that is for sure.

I do not know you, but i want you to deal with her. Like, deal.

Gbam!!
If proven that it's false accusation, nothing like Abeg o, or I'm sorry forgive me.
The damage is too much to let go like that, and lessons need to be taught to serve as a deterrent to other fake rape accusers.
I remember Neymar's case. If not that he had clear video evidence of his innocence, together with his chats, the guy and his football career would have been toast.
I don't even know how that case finally ended, I hope the girl was hammered appropriately with appropriate punishments.

BlackNeo:



He better has it. If he doesnt, hes a dead man. You men are relying on sentiments. Right now in the Western world women hold all the aces on rape cases. This baba is a dead man if this issue goes to court and the woman gets a lawyer. He will be slaughtered and nobody will ever hear of him again for eternity! Good for him defender of women!

Bola Aseyan seems too dumb to realise the advantage she has here. If na correct sharp babe, the guy would already be in jail by now.

Goodnigga:
Bisola's case was disolved by a court of competent jurisdiction, [s]have you been raped in your father's house before?[/s] Apart from, generalisations, who do you know that have been raped in their father's house, uninvited by the lady. Abide by the aforementioned rules, and we are good.

The struck part was unnecessary. Sometimes you nairalanders make me lose faith in humanity (exaggerating).

I remember back in school, one of my coursemates received a call, she rushed out of the class crying bitterly. We heard the news later, armed robbers had gone to her house and only her sister was at home. They raped her.

We have heard about armed robbers going to homes and raping even wives.

I remember a certain pastor where I formerly worshipped. This pastor has a reputation for being overly friendly with girls and women. One certain time I came to his office to deliver something and he asked me to sit on his laps. I refused. I don't care about the level of familiarity I have with someone but somethings are not right.

Some months later, word went out that they saw another girl sitting on his laps, and it's likely they are having a relationship.

One day, this man came to my father's house (my dad is a church worker), and when my father entered the room to get something to give him, he tried to grab my boobs. He probably would have tried to rape me if no one was there.

You have to understand that rapists lack self-control. It doesn't matter where or when the urge comes, they will carry out what they have in mind.

AerialMapper:
Go and sit down Dr Olufunmilayo Ogunsanya

Red wine cannot make you so drunk that you have non-consensual sex with a woman

A drunk woman cannot give consent

No consent means rape

Gbam...

When the idiot Dr. was running his mouth against men who were falsely accused of rape, he gave them no chance of redemption.

The girl should take the case to court in the UK, since he gave her wine before sex.

The dunce must pay for his stupidity.

And for all you guys here on nairaland supporting women who falsely accuse men of rape, may you suffer the same fate

Some women for this life- fear them.

After she go UK chop food, maybe him still give her money make she buy 'oyoyo' come back house, she just dey vex say the guy no wan do again.

If guy no like you again, move on and hope someone comes along.
This one that you must bring down someone because him no wan marry you na bad attitude. Maybe na why the guy free her sef.

See the one that accused Neymar Jnr. Up till now the guy never recover, and some foolish sponsors backed out of supporting him.

Some girls are mad, manipulative and stupid.

Sunnycliff:
Good for her.

What the UK law says on rape and consent

the UK government are bunches of nitwit If their laws only condemn nonconsent by the female gender

What about the male genders consent

ElasticStone:


A swear. If it’s me, minimum will be 100,000 GBP. Nonsense ingredient

Exactly! 100,000 pounds is the barest minimum as far as I'm concerned.
So that by the time they start begging, you can commute it to like 10k or 20k pounds.
But I guess he just wants something she can pay, not something out of her reach.

dominique:
He should have made it £1,000,000. Next time she will think properly before running to social media to accuse someone of rape. I don't know if there's a written rule that a man must marry you because he slept with you

I concur absolutely.
1m pounds is much more like it, given the incalculable damages done over a lifetime with a rape accusation.

OdefaGirl:
I support you to go ahead.....after reading your story, I can't agree less that you were just a victim of your own kind heart..... some will say, why don't I hear from the lady before conclusion....my dear, you know a twisted story and real truth when you read one. Some ladies will abuse this rape issues that when the real one occurs, we will neglect the story, thinking it's fake. Don't get back at exes with rape accusations, they are our sons, brothers and lovers....they are humans too who doesn't deserve injustice. If you had s*x and there's need to move on, then do that.... moreover both of you enjoyed it while it lasted. Guys, learn from this guy too, self control is the key.....he would have been in a deeper mess if he hadn't damned s*x.

Am sure you are one of the few women with brain properly installed in der head
May yur wisdom take you to great places

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

You forgot to add she drank his red wine and accused him of getting her drunk.

Inside life

AerialMapper:
Go and sit down Dr Olufunmilayo Ogunsanya

Red wine cannot make you so drunk that you have non-consensual sex with a woman

A drunk woman cannot give consent

No consent means rape

Did she @ any point claim she say she was forced n why she not report then after d incident.. lets play she was unconscious and whu never av agree to such .. what about the 2nd consensual sex, do we still a calculator to verify 1+2 =12

Crenzywilliams:

Way too small, but I think he knows how much she can actually cough up.

Person wey dem go soon deport!

XXLMANDIGO:
This Doctor lives in the West yet openly admitted that he actually had intercourse with her when she was drunk. That's a bait he should first try to wriggle himself out from. I am not supporting the lady but a drunk person can almost not give true consent in a sexual encounter.

How are you sure is the man that initiated the sex in the first place, what if is the woman that made the first move, pretending to be drunk? twhat about the second sex, is she also drunk?

Martinez39s:
The odds are really against him, but I hope he prevails if he is innocent.

He doesn't know yet.

jaxxy:
Because sm1 stayed in ur house rent free doesn’t mean u can abuse them sexually or otherwise, u can also throw them out if u can’t bare it.

The 1st page seeks to intimidate. It’s expected.

I’m not saying he’s Guilty bt how does everyone commenting immediately and surly know he’s innocent Where u there or did u investigate or it’s just not possible for a doctor/person to rape a lady stuck in his house during a visit because he feed and sheltered her

I will not go with the bandwagon. How do we prove a false rape and a real one. Pls explain All u so-called experts who have vindicated him already and attacked the gal instead of waiting for an investigation and hearing.

It’s not just ordinary people who vindicate men like this ....the jury and many judge throw out many rape cases like this a lot......
Many Women try to swing technical consent as no consent all when condition of relationship change....

for example... a woman doesn’t want to have sex but allows her husband who would not let her be have sex with her anyways....this isn't rape it is consent out of duty to the husband....
This happens to virtually all women in modern relationships since most people have sex like they are already Married.... immediately the relationship goes sour... they remeber periods they never wanted to have sex but they did it anyways...Only this time they swing it as he forced them...People can smell fake rapes accusations like these from afar... and the jury can as well ......

It’s just sad that it makes it difficult to see the real rape cases especially when there’s no evidence...

Goodnigga:
All we need is just one Westerner to jail a bitch for false rape accusation and it will become a positive movement around the world. It will deal a big blow to this “Me Too” and “Feminism” crap and put women in their proper position. If you don't want rape, avoid men, avoid chatting with them ,receive money only from your husbands or at least your fiancés, never you visit a man you're not married to or that your family members doesn't know. Simple, if all these bitches can abide by these rules, I swear, many men if not all will avoid you people.
Abi, who will come to your house or father's house to rape you?

And the girl that was raped in the church in benin nko and also murdered?. or the Muslim girl raped in the bathroom in ibadan, then murdered.
This is the problem with must guys, u keep blaming the women who are the victims of rape. if your mother trained u very well before u even think of rape, the pictures of ur mother, sisters, aunties and all females related to you in just appear in ur face. That's how bad rape is. But again so guys still rape their relatives.

neonly:




Am sure you are one of the few women with brain properly installed in der head
May yur wisdom take you to great places

Amen....

Martinez39s:
The odds are really against him, but I hope he prevails if he is innocent.

What Odds , that she stayed with a rapist for 4month without reporting or that they had another sex termed consensual, except you know about witnesses & evidence she neva mentioned
If i had a case like these i won't even hire a lawyer.

jaxxy:
Because sm1 stayed in ur house rent free doesn’t mean u can abuse them sexually or otherwise, u can also throw them out if u can’t bare it.

The 1st page seeks to intimidate. It’s expected.

I’m not saying he’s Guilty bt how does everyone commenting immediately and surly know he’s innocent Where u there or did u investigate or it’s just not possible for a doctor/person to rape a lady stuck in his house during a visit because he feed and sheltered her

I will not go with the bandwagon. How do we prove a false rape and a real one. Pls explain All u so-called experts who have vindicated him already and attacked the gal instead of waiting for an investigation and hearing.

to

If is Rape then the lady should defend it and dont forget he did not just help her to stay in is house they where into a relationship

josite:



oga dr,this is not a writ of summons,this does not come from the court .it is from a lawyer's office.and why should she pay u 10k.u too said both of u were drunk before you open her pant and out ur dick inside.can a drunken woman give consent?,next time u talk to your lawyer before replying rape allegation.u mess up but sha GOD WILL DELIVER U.

Just shut up and go to sleep

DonX001:


Gbam!!
If proven that it's false accusation, nothing like Abeg o, or I'm sorry forgive me.
The damage is too much to let go like that, and lessons need to be taught to serve as a deterrent to other fake rape accusers.
I remember Neymar's case. If not that he had clear video evidence of his innocence, together with his chats, the guy and his football career would have been toast.
I don't even know how that case finally ended, I hope the girl was hammered appropriately with appropriate punishments.

Neymar would not be in a job right now, at least not in Europe.
Perhaps back in his native Brazil.
These ladies that push out these false claims because they are unable to squeeze out money or marriage from males should be punished and made scapegoats by the law.
£10,000 is too small. £100,000 should be a good start.

1StopRudeness:


It’s not just ordinary people who vindicate men like this ....the jury and many judge throw out many rape cases like this a lot......
Many Women try to swing technical consent as no consent all when condition of relationship change....

for example... a woman doesn’t want to have sex but allows her husband who would not let her be have sex with her anyways....this isn't rape it is consent out of duty to the husband....
This happens to virtually all women in modern relationships since most people have sex like they are already Married.... immediately the relationship goes sour... they remeber periods they never wanted to have sex but they did it anyways...Only this time they swing it as he forced them...People can smell fake rapes accusations like these from afar... and the jury can as well ......

It’s just sad that it makes it difficult to see the real rape cases especially when there’s no evidence...

What real rape cases?? Most of u vindicating him don’t want to see any real rape cases. If not how do u identify a real rape case without investigation and fair hearing??

The case of husband and wife is quite different and even a real relationship as bf/gf is also quite different from this.

The gal was not his gf, they met online and he invited her over. They have never had sex prior to this time. So there was no previous consensual sex. They also had sex twice according to him which cud been consented or forced based on the scenario.

So pls this is not a longterm or even short term relationship gone sour. It just happened this lockdown and they were probably meeting for the 1st time.

kizito902:


Please for the sake of clarity i need to ask. Wasn't it the same red wine that they both drank? If she was drunk why was he now the one who is expected to be clear headed?
What of the second time they had sex? Did he also get her drunk then?

yes, both were drunk. but who removed the other person's clothing and undies. the guy or the girl. if truly both were drunk, then both will still fall asleep and wake up to a hang over nt with naked bodies. Why it is a rape is because the dude remove her clothes and his own n put his thing into her without her being fully aware.

Second answer to ur question, is because she had no where to go in Uk, because of the CoVid 19 lock down, the guy asked for sex the second time n she agreed. Probably, she felt if she doesn't she will be thrown out n no place to go. No flight bk to Nigeria. The situation was between the devil and the deep blue sea.

XXLMANDIGO:
See the Law doesn't care about emotions and sentiment. The elements of crime can be inferred from the intention, which in law is called the "MENS REA", If the intercourse took place at his place (Host)and that's the first of its kind, then there might be strong suspicion that he orchestrated the whole thing and made the Lady vulnerable. Then the onus is on him to prove his intention is not to take advantage of her.

how can the law not care about emotions and sentiments.take a rape case before certain male judges they will dismiss it and take a divorce case before a divorced female judge,she will not only grnat it but also damn the hubby.

the demeanour of a witness giving evidence and fighting back tears do have effect on the judge.