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Only Bums Hate Prenups! by 2buffagain(m): 1:04pm On Jul 05, 2020
Humans are naturally value-seeking. It's called survival.
Value is primarily extracted from existence by sweat.

At some point, humans discovered the wisdom in trade.
Trade is an exchange of value between 2 or more humans.
Trade is the primary way large healthy economies are built.

Unfortunately, there are other types of humans who try to beat the system of trade.
They scheme to generate value for themselves, without any sweat or value of their own.

Existence cannot be (legally) manipulated to extract anything from it without sweat.
So the next best thing for these sorts of humans is to manipulate other humans for their sweat (slavery) and/or their value (419).
All with little or nothing to exchange for equivalent sweat/value.

This type of human is called a bum.

Anyone who is against signing a prenup when attempting to marry another human being that has built up considerable more value than they have.... is a bum!

This may not be a huge issue in Nigeria with its fair, common-sense laws regarding these things (though this is changing). In western societies, marriage combined with divorce is a bait-and-switch, legally enforced manipulation tactic judiciously employed by bums to oppress other human beings and extract value (and sometimes continued future value) from their victims.

If you have hustled, and built and are bringing so much value into a marriage, yet the other person has just been gypsying through life and has brought little to no value into said marriage, do yourself an epic favor by having them sign a prenup so as to protect the value you are bringing into the union in the event of a future split.

If the other person is not a 419er, they will understand!
And if they are not bums themselves and/or are also bringing considerable value in, they will even be happy you brought it up and will probably want you to sign one too.

Left to 2Buff, I would say make sure you don't marry a bum. But if you must, make sure they sign a prenup.

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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by AfroKnight: 1:18pm On Jul 05, 2020
Honestly, I’d be surprised to find masculine men who would refuse to sign prenups if their fiancées are richer.

But women though...

Just be smart enough to record her agreeing that she wasn’t coerced to sign it. That’s if you find a willing fiancée.

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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by 2buffagain(m): 9:47pm On Jul 05, 2020
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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by Omar09(m): 8:14am On Jul 06, 2020
When you get her to sign it, keep a record of all your discussions also keep a receipt after she had signed it.

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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by 2buffagain(m): 6:49pm On Jul 09, 2020
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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by 2buffagain(m): 11:35pm On Dec 03, 2020
Bump o
Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by Theboy21: 6:18am On Dec 04, 2020
Using Dre's wife as a reference, prenup the only thing that could save him from splitting his wealth, his bitchy wife is all out claiming entitlement to his hard-earned money, she claimed he once tore the prenup during their 24 years of marriage meanwhile Dre also claimed he still has a copy, the case is still going on...

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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by AlphaSoul: 11:56pm On Apr 08, 2021
AfroKnight:
Honestly, I’d be surprised to find masculine men who would refuse to sign prenups if their fiancées are richer.

But women though...

Just be smart enough to record her agreeing that she wasn’t coerced to sign it. That’s if you find a willing fiancée.
grin... No-good female bums
IMHO.

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Re: Only Bums Hate Prenups! by AlphaSoul: 12:08am On Apr 09, 2021
2buffagain:
Humans are naturally value-seeking. It's called survival.
Value is primarily extracted from existence by sweat.

At some point, humans discovered the wisdom in trade.
Trade is an exchange of value between 2 or more humans.
Trade is the primary way large healthy economies are built.

Unfortunately, there are other types of humans who try to beat the system of trade.
They scheme to generate value for themselves, without any sweat or value of their own.

Existence cannot be (legally) manipulated to extract anything from it without sweat.
So the next best thing for these sorts of humans is to manipulate other humans for their sweat (slavery) and/or their value (419).
All with little or nothing to exchange for equivalent sweat/value.

This type of human is called a bum.

Anyone who is against signing a prenup when attempting to marry another human being that has built up considerable more value than they have.... is a bum!

This may not be a huge issue in Nigeria with its fair, common-sense laws regarding these things (though this is changing). In western societies, marriage combined with divorce is a bait-and-switch, legally enforced manipulation tactic judiciously employed by bums to oppress other human beings and extract value (and sometimes continued future value) from their victims.

If you have hustled, and built and are bringing so much value into a marriage, yet the other person has just been gypsying through life and has brought little to no value into said marriage, do yourself an epic favor by having them sign a prenup so as to protect the value you are bringing into the union in the event of a future split.

If the other person is not a 419er, they will understand!
And if they are not bums themselves and/or are also bringing considerable value in, they will even be happy you brought it up and will probably want you to sign one too.

Left to 2Buff, I would say make sure you don't marry a bum. But if you must, make sure they sign a prenup.
Better to sign a prenup so as
not to leave the divorce courts
butt naked. grin

This prenup is "bum-proof!"

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